heartbroken from aquarius male

hey - i'm kinda new at this, but hears my story. i had been casually seeing an aquarius male for over a year now, and everything was going fine until a few weeks ago when there was a misunderstanding, and now he told me to get out of his life, and doesn't want to speak to me anymore. i didnt do anything, and i wrote him an email explaining it, but he said 'get over it already, go away. bye.' i was wondering if anyone could give me some incite on the aquarius male, and if there is anything that i could do .. or a good a move to make now to make peace with him? im really upset, and really want to fix things. thank u so much!!

Asa, go to the Aqua threads. AquaBoys are legendary for their "Go away RIGHT NOW and never call me again" speeches, yet they come back a few days or weeks later and contact you as if nothing ever happened. Don't bring up the subject about his attitude if he does contact you or you're likely to get the "I don't know what you're talking about" response.

you know what....i just ended my relationship wih my cap/sag cups girl, actually we had no problem, we always look like the most happy couple all of the time (i think alot of couples are jealous to us), we play with each other...oh i miss that moment. we're not the most romantic couple, but we're the most playful (or should i say childish) couple.

unfortunately, we had to pursue our own career, we had no choice, so i decided to end our relationship, i don't want her to wait for me. of course we still love each other....but aaaahhhh forget it !!!

asa011,

They usually come around. Give your Aqua some space feel 'em out in a few weeks. But def, go to the Aqua boogie board.

thanks guys. arghh this feeling sucks. wish there was something i could do to fix things.

hey sb

she had to move to another country, she would stay if i didnt let her go....so i had to let her go. it was her chance, i didnt want to ruin it. she is a great girl with great personality...ohhh where can i find another girl like her

see, that is what i LOVE about aqua's...if they love you they set you free!!!
they respect your life and what it may have to offer for you...they never hold you back.

...if they love you they set you free!!!
they respect your life and what it may have to offer for you...they never hold you back.




ya thats true 🙂....if i love a guy so much but i know that he'll be sooo much happier with someone else.. i'll set him free... his happiness would be very important to me.....

i dunno if u guys have seen ' The Quite American' but if i were that old english man i would let my girl go and marry Brandon fraser coz atleast he was goin to give her a decent life... that english guy was SELFISH....

eliza...i don't just mean for another person...
but it is a great quality to allow someone of their personal freedom

moonchild

i know wat u meant....i know i went off topic but it just came out 🙂

asa,

Welcome to this community. Like every says, you can find all kinds of topics and people to talk to, but, to be Aqua specific, their board would likely help you.

You ask for help and I'll try, but, keep I have to tell you up front . . I'm very direct with my approach.

First of all, you said, "been casually seeing an aquarius male for over a year now". Did you actually mean "casually", because that would indicate that he wasn't serious about this relationship in the first place. If he was "casual" about you and the way the two of you go on . . . then, it's really no big deal, is it? If the man doesn't want to move closer in the relationship . . then let him walk and go find someone who does want it more than casual.

Second, I'm not Aquarius, so I have to rely on what was said here. But, if it's true, such things said as, "AquaBoys are legendary for their "Go away RIGHT NOW and never call me again speeches, yet they come back a few days or weeks later and contact you as if nothing ever happened" . . . well, that sounds like an emotional roller coaster ride. Not that a relationship isn't worth the effort . . . but, one that's not serious?

Just think about that, asa.

1) he kept it casual
2) flipped on you and told you bye.

Rather than asking what you need to do to resolve the issue, perhaps, you should be asking yourself whether it's REALLY worth pursuing.

The best thing to do is back off. When it comes to the Aquarian men I have dated, once they feel betrayed, that is it for them. They will drop you like a bowl of hot soup. The only way I got back in with my Aquarian was to ignore his butt. I didn't call, write or text him. I treated him just like he treated me and for some reason that intrigued him and he came back. I didn't do that to prove anything, I am an aries and if you move on, okay, i'm out and you won't hear from me again. Aquarian men that I have dealt with absolutely hate to be pursued and they have this emotional detachment thing going on as well. The ones I have met think that they have the 411 on everything until you bring another aspect of logic to the plate. They can be complex and very loyal to their own circle, but once it is broken, it is almost always irreparable in their eyes. Kinda like betrayal is to Sonny Corinthos on General Hospital. hahahahaha

pls can u add me for a chat,maybe we can rob minds...manyspider_27..on my yahoo messenger