@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra
WOW! You're not asking a lot there now are you sola? 🙂
Well I dunno really cos aqua men and women are pretty different. In fact aquas are all diferent frm eachother, regardless of gender. However we all share a similar eccentric and easy going streak. We're all normally fairly tolerant except except except when we feel that out freedom is being enroached and then we can be quite mean 😛 So that's something you defineitely shouldn't do is over stap the boundaries of his private time.
To attract him to you, be a little outrageous, wear daring clothes, make bold statements. Things to get him thinking and that's usually the key to getting him going in all the other departments! Engage him in a good stimulating convo which could be about anything at all - who decided that everyone in the USA would drive on the right hand side, for example. Just something to stimulate really.
Um...and that's as much as I now about aqya guys cos they're fairly rebellious creatures.
What MellowDee said is pretty dead on. Give them space and intellectual stimulation and you will have a happy Aqua man.
Show lots of affection, just don't get clingy. That would be the only other advice I would give. Aquas need to know we are wanted by our partners.
This is great, but basically he does what he wants (within reason)! and that's fine with me. But, without being too clingy/romantic what else can i do? Do you think sexy texts and emails are enough..or should i leave him to initiate all of the contact? I dont mind gaps in communication but as long as he doesnt leave it too long!! More help please x
Don't don't always wait for him to initiate anything really. Aquas are unconventional remember! So I reckon by all means send sexy texts galore but ease up if he's not replying as fast as you send them. Be easy going, Don't whatever you do emotionally blackmail them. Um...might think of more later.
No, im not sending him texts galore!! Im not mad, its just that is 30 and has had lots of experiance with women and i just want to be the one that's different from the rest!! I want him to remember me as being just a little bit special, that's all.
"or should i leave him to initiate all of the contact?"
aqua is a fixed sign, they seldom initiate anything
"without being too clingy/romantic what else can i do?"
romantic is ok, just dont put too much heavy emotional demand...anyway i like a warm, funny & romantic girl (personally), you dont have to be an intelligent woman, just laugh or smile to whatever he said....and be a friendly lover
also give him alot of surprises like call him or show up in unexpected time
"Give them space "
all men need space, men need space as women need to vent out their emotion...aqua just need a little bit more space compared to the rest
generally, aqua is playful but not affecionate, and some are outgoing......if you are not looking for anything serious, probably he is a perfect partner for you.
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Im Libra, he is Aquarius..we get on well enough but how can i make him want me in a way he's never known?!!