I lose ALL respect for someone when they....

1. Conveinantly forget to mention that they have children. No, you don't have to introduce me to your children just yet since hey, we just met, BUT damn we atleast deserve the respect in knowing that you have them!

2. Cheat more than once. 1 time to some is unforgiveable b/c hey we're all "human & make mistakes." BUT if you decide to put someone, your family, your relationship OR yourself through that devestation again, it's only natural for me to think that the devestation was EXACTLY what you wanted. If you purposely do something that you already KNOW for a fact will devestate your partner, not only do you not love or respect your partner, but you clearly don't even respect the relationship.

3. Claim to fear or not be ready for committment but yet every time you see them, they're always out somewhere playing "house" with someone or doing/saying all the things that only people in committed relationships do.

4. Have sexual relations with someone else behind your back & once they're caught up hit you with the line, "Baby, I thought about you the whole time." People people this is an even BIGGER insult! The mere fact that you supposedly "thought about me" and yet STILL decided to betray me makes things even worse!! I would've much rather you claimed to have had amnesia or memory loss!

5. Put their hands on you & blaim YOU for their actions. Hence, "You made me do this" or "I wouldn't have slapped you had you not..."

What are some of the things that you guys consider unforgiveable, meaning that if someone says/does something that it's considers a deal breaker that will immediately cause you to cease all communication or leave the friendship/relationship/situation?

Losing love for someone is 1 thing, but losing respect for someone is a whole 'nother issue.

I lose ALL respect for someone when they...justify cussing out or severely disrespecting their mother. (This one is geered more towards men). Granted, not all men will have a peachy-clean relationship with their mothers, but at the same time, don't think that I've forgotten the cardinal rule: How they'll treat their mothers is how they'll treat you!

I lose ALL respect for someone when they...cheat on you in YOUR own house! Cheating is wrong period, but oh come on, if you're gonna do it, have enough respect to take you & your tramp somewhere else! Any place other than where you & your girlfriend/wife/kids lay their heads at night!

I lose ALL respect for someone when they...(this is geered towards female friends) justify sleeping with their friend's man or ex & claim they had a right to since "He hit on/came on to me 1st." Oh so what, you lost the part in your brain that not only says "No" but also the part that reminds you to tell your good friends if their partners have hit on you? BULL!

I lose ALL respect for someone when they...have more than 1 abortion. I'm against abortion as a whole, but I get even MORE ticked off when I see women having countless abortions. 1 time? Ok, ok you made a mistake. But more than once? Oh come on! How evil is it to continually make innocent babies lose their lives all b/c you didn't take 2 seconds out of your day to say, "Whoa! We need a condom!" If you're NOT ready for kids, then YES honey, pregnancy is EXACTLY what will happen if you keep having unprotected sex!

What does the "hey" mean that you insert in sentences all the time?


Examples:

"introduce me to your children just yet since hey, we just met,"

"1 time to some is unforgiveable b/c hey we're all "human & make mistakes."

It's casual writing. Writing how your speak. I add words a lot too. "Yeah" and "hey" are kinda frequent for me. It's an unfiltered flow. If Krys were standing in front of you speaking (as friends talking, not a professor lecturing) that is how she would speak.


As to the question in the original post. I don't give a "free pass" for cheating. Even once shows a character flaw in my opinion. A lot of the points made were related to cheating, either where or with who... none of that changes anything. I loose respect for both people involved in the cheating (assuming both knew one was 'taken'). I am anti abortion but I'll never be pregnant so my opinion on that doesn't really matter. I give people a wide range and don't judge to often but when it's an intentional act designed to hurt someone else, that's when I loose respect.

*how you speak

not how your... damn typos

i wonder if the OP speaks the way she writes.

Oh I'm delighted that once AGAIN P-angel escorts herself into my posts, trying to find ANY possible thing she can say to add negativity or change the subject to something irrelevant & completely off topic. Figures.

I should start putting, "INSERT P-ANGEL'S NEGATIVE/IRRELEVANT COMMENT HERE______" before each post =P

LMAO at LibraSid's main picture!!!!!!