@P-Angel
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Ladies, do you ........
Nope
Do you have in your mind how you want the first kiss to be with your soulmate?
do you imagine him wrapping his strong arms around you and holding you?
do you look through magazines to look for the perfect wedding dress?
no because i haven't yet decided if i want to get married.
my boyfriend is definitely no knight, he's just a regular human being who does the best he can. and i love him.
HELL NO, I don't dream about my wedding day! In fact, I've had MANY recurring nightmares about it.
That can't be good. Probably why I'm still single too.
I've never thought about a faceless man in any way, shape, or form in my life. Now, men with faces? I've thought PLENTY!
Dream about your wedding day? Do you have it planned out?
Do you dream about your knigh in shinning armor?
Do you dream about the perfect man? The house and family?
1. Not really. I don't even think I want to get married. While I'm not really in a place to consider marriage now anyway, it's just something I never really cared about.
2. Hmmm, to an extent I guess? Not so romanticized, but I do wonder if there will be this guy who comes around and changes the dynamic of everything.
3. Also, not to an extreme extent. I never really considered what having a perfect family would be like since I came from a less than conventional one. I don't want to get married, I don't want a lot of kids, and I can see myself renting until I have an extended family. As for perfect man... I guess in my head he's great for me, but I don't obsess over the thought.
Posted by P-Angel
Do you have in your mind how you want the first kiss to be with your soulmate?do you imagine him wrapping his strong arms around you and holding you?
do you look through magazines to look for the perfect wedding dress?
1. I don't believe in soulmates like that, and I've shared a couple of intense, heart-warrming kisses already. but I'm sure there will be more in the future.
2. This I do think about actually (not so much in term of soulmate). I like being held, so I just think it'd be a nice feeling from someone I know truly means it and such.
3. No. If I do, it's because I look at them as more of fashion accessories and not for a future wedding.
Posted by Shadows
I've never thought about a faceless man in any way, shape, or form in my life. Now, men with faces? I've thought PLENTY!
i never know where to look when talking to a faceless man. is it considered proper to just focus on the head as a whole?? anyway, i tend to prefer men with faces as well, it's usually less distracting.
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Posted by Shadows
I've never thought about a faceless man in any way, shape, or form in my life. Now, men with faces? I've thought PLENTY!i never know where to look when talking to a faceless man. is it considered proper to just focus on the head as a whole?? anyway, i tend to prefer men with faces as well, it's usually less distracting.
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You know, I knew there'd be some wiseass comment about that! Leave it to one of my all time DXP favorites!
p.s. I still stalk you, you know. 😉
No to all except the family and I guess I wonder if my partner now will be a part of that.
Dream about your wedding day? Do you have it planned out?
Do you dream about your knigh in shinning armor?
Do you dream about the perfect man? The house and family?
How about you?
(wistful sighs)
i used to think about the color scheme, the dress, the location, to the tiniest of details of the napkins!
THAT WAS WHEN i was in elementry school
now i just prefer to live in the moment. I haven't really focused on marriage or findin "the one"
I used to dream about a wedding when I was young and of course my man would've been the knight in shining armor and all of that but now I don't. I really don't want to be married again.
I am like candi3bb and just trying to live life to the fullest and in the moment!
I do still daydream a bit but it's on a more realistic note now.
🙂
Posted by Stpatrickspisces
I used to dream about a wedding when I was young and of course my man would've been the knight in shining armor and all of that but now I don't. I really don't want to be married again.
I am like candi3bb and just trying to live life to the fullest and in the moment!
I do still daydream a bit but it's on a more realistic note now.
🙂
🙂 yes!
marriage is so over-rated.
Posted by Lena282
My family consists of crazy people so I'm eloping
WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER! lol
I think about it. I don't really openly talk about it though. It's something I only discuss when people ask. Kinda silly to plan it out though unless you are very close to someone and know without a doubt you want to be with them forever
nope. If it ever happens, it'll be an elopement.
dream of a knight? No. Not really what I go for.
dream of the 1st kiss w my soulmate? Lol. I thought the pisces was my soulmate, and our first kiss was=me going in for a peck so he'd know I was into him, him shoving his tongue in my mouth, wriggling it around and continuing to wriggle it aroun in space for what felt like forever after I pulled away. It was horrible. Every kiss after that was amazing. Should have taken first as a sign
Posted by Lena282
My family consists of crazy people so I'm elopingWINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER! lol
There are too many fire/air signs in my family. Getting them all in one room will end in tears😛
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Mine would end with blood on the carpets.. walls... ceiling. *shudder*
Ok, so then ....
Do you anticipate how a man is going to treat you/love you before he even feels you?
Posted by P-Angel
Ok, so then ....Do you anticipate how a man is going to treat you/love you before he even feels you?
Posted by P-Angel
Ok, so then ....Do you anticipate how a man is going to treat you/love you before he even feels you?
Well, by the time I started thinking I might be open to marrying him... I was already well aware of how he treats/loves me.. that's why I'd marry him!
Pondering your use of "before he feels you".. thinking you're asking if I (we) daydream about the elusive, hard-to-find Mr. Right, a guy I've never met, but have an idea in my head of what he'll be like, and how fabulous our love will be? Imagining where we'll meet, what he'll look like, how it will feel to kiss him, and how he'll pop the question? And then.. how my dream wedding would go?
Then no.. I knew/know what I want from a *relationship*.. but wasn't imagining my Prince Charming in that way. He kinda snuck up on me.. grew on me like fungus LOL I suddenly looked at him one day and realized I was REALLY in LOVE with him, and he's proven himself worthy of my heart, and that I could easily see myself married to him.
Dunno if I'm making sense though lol
If the answer to the second question is 'No' .. then why isn't every person still with their very first love?
because you don't already have Terms in your mind as to how he is going to love you .. then you'd have an unconditional love .. and if it's unconditional then nothing he could ever do would make you stop loving him .. so, you'd still be with the very first one you loved.
Nope. The idea of spending a whole lifetime with a man makes me want commit suicide.
I had a very clear idea of what my wedding day would be like: at home, sunny day, very colorful, fun and loose and nontraditional, with a funk dance party. It all happened just that way. The only regret is that we weren't able to rent the bouncy castle.
Oh from time to time, I'll be honest. When I got married the first time it was at the court house so I never had the rose petals, tossed bird seed ( no rice for fertility any more ) and fanfare. I rather like the idea of a medieval theme in the woods, or something simple. Just close family and friends seeing two meant walk the path. Or..barefoot in deep cream silk, blossoms in my hair. Simple, simple, then loads of great food and let the wine and good feeling flow.
Prince Charming? No such animal, realistic cat with his head screwed on straight though? Gimme. Someone I can snuggle up too, listen to their heart beat and their voice rumble while we talk ( and talk ). This works.
Perfect man? How boring. Give me flaws, I certainly have them. House and family? Part of it, isn't it?
First kiss? Of course.
Imagine him wrapping his arms round you? Definitely.
I am now dreaming about it because it's about to happen as well as planning. Before then no. I always knew it wouldn't be too fancy or over the top though.
^ Congratulations to you. 🙂
Nope, I dont want to get married..
Posted by venusianbull
^ Congratulations to you. 🙂
Thank you. 🙂
Posted by Skylark
I think I dream too far ahead. I've always fast forwarded past the wedding and to the part where I'm living with my husband and our children. I mean who cares about the wedding? I just want to get to the good part. I don't care about the perfect dress or the colors, the cake, the reception etc. The only part of the wedding I've ever thought about was walking down the isle and seeing him standing there. Saying wow, so that's him huh? As for the knight and shinning armor and all that fairy tale stuff...not really. I just want a decent, honest, faithful, strong and compassionate man who will love me for who I am. In my dreams he's always been faceless too because I don't know who the hell it's going to be or how he will look. Maybe someday that faceless man will have a face.Sigh....I wont lie though, I have dreamt of the proposal. lol guess I am a little mushy gushy, lovey dovey, dreamy weamy afterall. hehe
the world needs more of this
and less of this
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nope. The idea of spending a whole lifetime with a man makes me want commit suicide.click to expand
Posted by Skylark
I think I dream too far ahead. I've always fast forwarded past the wedding and to the part where I'm living with my husband and our children. I mean who cares about the wedding? I just want to get to the good part. I don't care about the perfect dress or the colors, the cake, the reception etc. The only part of the wedding I've ever thought about was walking down the isle and seeing him standing there. Saying wow, so that's him huh? As for the knight and shinning armor and all that fairy tale stuff...not really. I just want a decent, honest, faithful, strong and compassionate man who will love me for who I am. In my dreams he's always been faceless too because I don't know who the hell it's going to be or how he will look. Maybe someday that faceless man will have a face.Sigh....I wont lie though, I have dreamt of the proposal. lol guess I am a little mushy gushy, lovey dovey, dreamy weamy afterall. hehe
the world needs more of this
and less of this
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nope. The idea of spending a whole lifetime with a man makes me want commit suicide.click to expand
Your SO right
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nope. The idea of spending a whole lifetime with a man makes me want commit suicide.That is hysterically funny!! 🙂
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Posted by Skylark
I think I dream too far ahead. I've always fast forwarded past the wedding and to the part where I'm living with my husband and our children. I mean who cares about the wedding? I just want to get to the good part. I don't care about the perfect dress or the colors, the cake, the reception etc. The only part of the wedding I've ever thought about was walking down the isle and seeing him standing there. Saying wow, so that's him huh? As for the knight and shinning armor and all that fairy tale stuff...not really. I just want a decent, honest, faithful, strong and compassionate man who will love me for who I am. In my dreams he's always been faceless too because I don't know who the hell it's going to be or how he will look. Maybe someday that faceless man will have a face.Sigh....I wont lie though, I have dreamt of the proposal. lol guess I am a little mushy gushy, lovey dovey, dreamy weamy afterall. hehe
the world needs more of this
and less of this
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nope. The idea of spending a whole lifetime with a man makes me want commit suicide.Your SO right
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*you're so right
your is a possessive
you're= you are
Nope. No point in thinking about something that just won't ever happen.
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Dream about your wedding day? Do you have it planned out?
Do you dream about your knigh in shinning armor?
Do you dream about the perfect man? The house and family?