Imagine I'm your...

Ex, the person who bullied you in school or the person whose hurt you the most. What do you have to say to me?

Let it out baby! lmao

Ex, the person who bullied you in school or the person whose hurt you the most. What do you have to say to me?

Let it out baby! lmao

Swallow it! Ooh!

Primary school or high school?

If its primary school then I dont remember who said what or what was said, not relevant to current situation coz i am past all that crap

If its high school then we have made amends its over and done with and I have moved on from it and

so really theres not much more to say except

... that it is over! YAY!

I will blame my marriage for getting me over it, lol.

Thats like 20 years ago who wants to remember those boring school days huh?

Also if you were the bully I had in my school years I would not be talking to via the internet, I'd track you down and make you pay for what you did, face to face. HAHA!!

But I have already done that to all my bullies so there is no one who is school bully to me anymore.

Case of been there done that gone through it and its not relevant to me anymore. I have dealt with that when I had to deal with it so theres no more to deal with anymore. So I am free of that and free of them

I forgive you.

I don't know why I stayed with a loser like u. U even don't know how to take care of a woman, u don't deserve any woman in ur life, u will never find any better woman than me. Go die in hell u maggot.U don't deserve me anyway *shrugs*

Whoever hurts me usually gets what they have done to me done to them one way or another, some sort of karma shit that happens to others.

I take people as I leave them. Try to be nice to them and if they are nice people to me then all good but if they are not then they reap what they sow and the good/funny/scary part about this is that I do not have a say in whether or not to karmacize ppl or not, it happens freely of its own accord.

So if any of this is directed my way you too shall be reaping what you sow. So be careful with your stated intentions are, in and of all things. Coz karma is a bastard that may or may not be coming your way.

The choice is yours and always has been.

Posted by TMV
I forgive you.

+1

My ex always used to say that I'd never find anyone like him....

I am waiting for the day that I can tell him, "Thanx for the challenge! I have SUCCEEDED in NOT finding anyone like you. Thank GOD!"

I used to get bulled by this 1 chick who used to make fun of my dark skin. I'd tell her, "Yep, me & this dark skin has a Master's degree, an amazing husband, 3 beautiful kids, a great career, an amazing life & unlike YOU, a CLEAN criminal record B***tch!"

The words "Whose laughing now?" just naturally flowed from my lips the minute I saw her mugshot in the newspaper

SORRY IT ENDED THAT WAY I HOPE YOUR HAPPY

Posted by BaitedFish
I don't know why I stayed with a loser like u. U even don't know how to take care of a woman, u don't deserve any woman in ur life, u will never find any better woman than me. Go die in hell u maggot.U don't deserve me anyway *shrugs*

I wish I hadn't wasted my time on a toxic selfish shit like you, but hey everything happens for a reason. You happened and the reason for that was to show me just how strong I can be! Karma will come back and bite that big fat lying arse!

I would say hi and ask him if he wanted to go grab a beer and catch up. I'm not gonna lie, there are times when I think about what he did and it pisses me off, but we are all only human. I don't believe that he did or behaved maliciously or to purposely hurt me. It took me a long time to feel normal again, and I feel that I am still trying to get past some of the damage done by that relationship, but at the end of the day, we are all dealing with our own issues and demons, unfortunately, people we care about or love gets stuck in the crossfire of that. I can only hope that he has or is dealing with his demons so that he can find the happiness that I feel we all deserve. Life is a learning experience, whether we are on the receiving end of something fucked up or the one doing... it keeps happening to us or we keep doing it, because we haven't learned the lesson yet. We just need to open our eyes and hearts to ourselves and the offenders.

Speaking for myself, I feel that my own guilt for doing things that may have hurt someone is enough torture. It's a living hell sometimes.... the last thing I need is for someone to rub the wound, after I've apologized and taken responsibility for something. Granted, I want them to tell me how I made them feel, but I would never want them to wish something bad upon me. I like to think that I haven't done anything horrible to anyone, but the few times I have been aware of it, I try to make myself aware of how I feel that moment, what I did to cause that, and make an effort to remind myself in the future of that feeling.

BOY SOME OF YOU PEOPLE ARE HARD TO BE FRIENDS WITH
I SENT FRIEND REQUEST TO A BUNCH OF EX'S THEY ALL TOLD ME TO F OFF
I GUESS I SHOULD NOT OF MENTIONED THE BENNY PART.

Posted by MellyMel909
I'm denying your Facebook "friend request". And will continue to do so every time you send me a new one.

you can block them so then can never search for you

I had your number, it was just a matter of time

It's raining men....






LOL

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Posted by BaitedFish
I don't know why I stayed with a loser like u. U even don't know how to take care of a woman, u don't deserve any woman in ur life, u will never find any better woman than me. Go die in hell u maggot.U don't deserve me anyway *shrugs*

I wish I hadn't wasted my time on a toxic selfish shit like you, but hey everything happens for a reason. You happened and the reason for that was to show me just how strong I can be! Karma will come back and bite that big fat lying arse!

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whoa,let it all out....i hope u feeling better now,lol

I saw the girl that used to bully me in middle school a few months back. She rolled her eyes at me & tried the whole highschool "Let's get in a circle & make that person think we're talking about them," trick.

I was like...uh DUDE, it's over! lol

It was 1 thing to be on that when we were kids, but if you're still acting that way (especially considering I did absolutely nothing to her) when you're a grown azz woman, then you've got some serious issues!

Clearly she feels powerless in her adult-life & thinks reverting back to her childhood tricks that gave her power, work! smh Poor thing!

Posted by krysrenee7
Ex, the person who bullied you in school or the person whose hurt you the most. What do you have to say to me?

Let it out baby! lmao

Wouldn't even acknowledge their presence.

Posted by TMV
I forgive you.

How very 'Whovian' of you. 🙂

Me, I say nothing. If you are out of my life on bad terms, you deal with it. If you need the closure, you can come to me if you want, but chances are, I will be helping to give my neighbor's cat a bath.

Dear ex, Thanks for the memories, the heartache and good times. Oh woah hang on you're right next to me, wonderful friend after all. Glad you're still in my life after all the shitty times.

p.s. you smell

Posted by krysrenee7
The words "Whose laughing now?" just naturally flowed from my lips the minute I saw her mugshot in the newspaper

Whahaha! Nice!

I like most of my ex's so I don't really have something to say to them.

Posted by Helena88

Posted by krysrenee7
The words "Whose laughing now?" just naturally flowed from my lips the minute I saw her mugshot in the newspaper

Whahaha! Nice!

I like most of my ex's so I don't really have something to say to them.

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lol don't get me wrong, I get no real pleasure out of seeing others suffer

But I'd be lying if I said that a small smirk didn't form on my face when I realized that an old bully from school has been brought down a notch!

you such a weirdo Krys 😛

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say? lmao I'm done talking, now a friend of mine by the name Glock shall do the talking. -this would be a perfect convo for me. 😄

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Posted by krysrenee7
Ex, the person who bullied you in school or the person whose hurt you the most. What do you have to say to me?

Let it out baby! lmao

Everybody lives and operates on their own levels of consciousness. Let's say somebody hurt "you" or "me". They probably didn't do this specific thing just to hurt "me" or hurt "you" but really they are just operating on their own levels of consciousness. I'm saying they are doing things what they think is normal to them. Let's say someone lied to you, and then your ego goes "He/she lied to... ME!" "They hurt "ME".." but in reality they are just liars to everybody around them. And to think that they specifically pick you as a target to lie to is a common thought from the ego.

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Hmmmmm..... I'm going to have to agree to disagree with you on this one..

lol

Uhm I can't remember your name or what you look like. Hey hows life?

"Thank you. Thank you for showing me how to tell the difference between good people and bad people. I am a good person.. You are not. I am beautiful; inside and out, despite what you told me... I am strong and I am unique in ways that you fall into the mold that I would die to separate myself from. I am loved and I am cared for by more than just my family. I am smart and I am worth something.
You.. You knock people down and tear them apart just so you can feel better about yourself. So, I am sorry. I am so sorry that you are so terribly damaged that you are so desperate to have someone on your lowest level there with you to suffer how you yourself is suffering. I, however am far too strong to be that person anymore. So how about you stop stepping on the good people just to boost yourself that much higher. You have far too many problems than can be masked underneath that ugly, putrid, snakey smile of yours. You can not defeat me anymore and I am doing things with my life that you never thought id do. That day you punched me in the stomach just because I prayed on the bus... No more. That time you told me my Grandmother went to hell... not even 48 hours after her death... All those times you called me ugly, or stupid. Fat, retarded, loner, loser etc. That is not me. That is everything you are trying to hard not to be. You can not hide it. Your true colors have been revealed and all the while you were trying to break me down, you only made me stronger. So Thank You."

~ thinks so self I could have a field day on this thread ~

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