Everybody always says that women "talk" more than men. BULL! Men def. talk to their male buddies just as much as we do! Men are so much more emotional & gossipers than they claim!
Women aren't the only ones who call their Bffs 10 min. after great/horrible sex! Guys "talk" about those things with their buddies too!
Men walk around acting like eeeew, women are so petty, catty & so full of drama but bull! Men do the same! PST!
I don't think you're describing men, dear. You're describing young men. Me and my friends can sit at a place and just people watch and say nothing for long periods of time. And I don't have a clue as to what "bff" means. Best friend forever I'm assuming. But, I don't know any guys like the ones you describe. Not only that, but any so-called "man" that would act like that would be marked as a homosexual, young, or just lame as hell. Not that there's anything wrong with that. But, that's the only thing I can think of. *shrug*
Where I come from the MEN have a code of honor. Never lie on your penis, because nobody will believe you anyway. Only one penis per bedroom, and don't talk about shit to me that ain't you or my business. Maybe that's just my upbringing. *shrug*
I dont know I dont have to say to my male buddies, I dont...male bond...Ill talk to women but I rather the female do all the talking, Ill sit and listen to those soulful heavenly voices anyday.
@Gemini: My reference to guys discussing their sexual expereinces was just 1 example out of 1 million.
I think men of ALL ages "talk" just as much as women do. What they talk about or even lie about may be different & may be skewed according to age range, but there's NO doubt in my mind that men "talk" just as much as women do.
And oh boy...let's not even get on the whole men & maturity thing. I've seen some 21year old-acting 50 years olds! I've seen 60 year old self-proclaimed "players" & if anything, the older men who are supposed to be more "mature" are facing the same ole problems their young generation is (can't keep a relationship/marriage afloat, deadbeat dads, drama in their life, irresponsibility, etc.)
I don't believe in the "maturity comes with age" theory anymore. Maturity is SUPPOSED to come with age, but often times it doesn't! We're all guaranteed hundreds of trials/tribulations in our lifetimes BUT what is NOT guaranteed is that everybody going through life's lessons will actually learn from them.
In today's world, we've got 5th graders that are more intelligent, educated & mature than most 21 or 45 year olds! Smh smh
Women & men naturally communicate & express their emotions DIFFERENTLY. But just b/c they do it differently doesn't mean that 1 gender does it any more/less than the other.
Same goes with crying. Just b/c women are 10xs more comfortable crying in front of others, doesn't mean that men don't cry. Oh they do; they just express certain emotions differently, at different levels/paces & at different times.
Men may not go into as much "detail" as women when expressing their emotions/feelings, BUT there's NO doubt in my mind that men DO get their emotions out, vent, & have "talks" with their buddies just like the ladies do.
A chick might be on the phone with her girls for 3 freakin hours discussing her "sex life" while yet a man might convey the same exact messages to his buddies in just 1 sentence or in 15 minutes. Point is, men STILL talk. They talk to their buddies about all the very same things women confide in other women/men about. Men gossip too!
Women aren't the only ones who call their Bffs 10 min. after great/horrible sex! Guys "talk" about those things with their buddies too!
Men walk around acting like eeeew, women are so petty, catty & so full of drama but bull! Men do the same! PST!