NO RECIPROCATION

If he/she is not answering your calls, texts, advances, then she/he's not interested. Continuing to reach out is narcissism. It doesn't matter if he/she was interested at one point or another. What matters is the current state of things.

Those who seek unrequited love, unrequited attention on a constant basis are narcissistic., or at the very least, suffer from a form of mental illness.

I know a guy that calls every six months or so. So this time, I returned his call, out of shear boredom. I think that threw him off a little, cause it reminded him of how many hoops he had to go through just to get a call back. He should have realized that the first hundred times I didn't answer nor replied to his texts.

Don't ever waste your energy or time on something or someone that you can't get reciprocation from. All interactions should be mutually beneficial.

True, though I'd say masochism more than narcisism, but I'm sure we're not here to argue semantics. Some people have to learn the hard way or worse, havent been exposed to something good.

Posted by rabidtalker
True, though I'd say masochism more than narcisism, but I'm sure we're not here to argue semantics. Some people have to learn the hard way or worse, havent been exposed to something good.

True. I used the Narc angle because it's more so about them trying win and over power you and force you to like them vs. just humbily accepting the fact that there is no romantic interest. I get wary, almost frightened of those who chase with no reciprocation. It's also a form of stalking.