Which is harder?πŸ€”

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Arki on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 and has 25 replies.

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@Arki
13 Years

Which one is harder?

Moving on?

Starting over?

Letting go?

Response + sun & moon & mars

Moving on - Gemini & cancer & pisces

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Timon
Isn't letting go and moving on kinda the same?

Nope. "Letting go" (out fishing and you caught a "puny" fish; unhook it and drop it back in the water...let it go)..."Moving on" (get back on boat and move to another "hot" fishing spot) πŸ˜‰

πŸ€— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: NOW to answer the question: None. I'm optimistic. I LOVE love!

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@SugarandSpunk
9 Years500+ Posts

Letting go would have to be the toughest for me. I tend to have a hard time letting go of things I'm attached or used to having in my life

Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Mars

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@Arki
13 Years

Moving on - try to going ahead ( your action), letting go- let go of something( not moving you, just let - action it not yours- )

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@Arki
13 Years

Posted by LittleFairy
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Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Arki
Which one is harder?

Moving on?

Starting over?

Letting go?

Response + sun & moon & mars

Moving on - Gemini & cancer & pisces

Aren't they all the same thing?

For me it is like this:

Letting go πŸ‘‰moving on πŸ‘‰starting over

For me they are all the one thing. And yes very hard ...

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Think it is a bad experiece with love..

Letting go = abandon , not fight for live the same experienceΒ 

After you letting go you begin to moving on, you begin to understand , to live your life what happend in that experience, to think what it is good what was bad..

In a final you have to start over the same experiece think that you have another final ..good one this time ..

For some people between this step it is not respiro πŸ˜… or jump direct of the last..πŸ˜‰

You can think another way...Β 

1.soul - leting go,

2. Mind - moving on

3. Mind + soul πŸ‘‰ starting over 🚩

What do you think about that? 🍷

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@Endlessly-dreaming
9 Years

Definitely letting go is difficult for me, depending on my attachment to someone and situation. For example, if the person clearly tells me that they aren't interested in being in my life it's easy, but if they leave without an explanation, I find it super hard.

Pisces sun, Cancer moon, Pisces mars

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@LittleFairy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by Timon
Isn't letting go and moving on kinda the same?

Not necessarily. Letting go is accepting the relationship is over, while moving on is starting to look around or just being open to new opportunities.

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For me it's letting go of emotions and not letting bad feelings dictate my feelings about myself or life or the way i see things....healing that is the hardest type of letting go.

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@LittleFairy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by hydorah
nothing is difficult once you get closure.

A lot of people won't give closure because they are weak. Deciding to close the story on your on end is the difficult part.

I think sometimes I have not been important enough to register ...hard for me to say but it's possibly true.

I am not saying this about you though or anyone else....

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11 Years10,000+ Posts

Is it weird I I'm super fixed and find all that easy? I guess if I had to pick one it would be letting go.

I love staring over. Moving on is pretty easy too. Letting go isn't hard, but it does hold more of a recation with me.

Leo sun scorpio moon Taurus mars.

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@sas0risa
8 Years

letting go, moving on (the missing them when you know you shouldn't...)

scorpio sun, aqua moon, virgo mars

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11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Cvurko8
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Consciously everything is fairly easy for me. Subconsciously i guess letting go is more difficult.

Pisces sun, aqua moon, pisces mars

WELCOME BACK YOU!!!!! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

Teena! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— Tell me how are you and where you are now!

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I'm good, thank you Cvurko 😁😁

Same old same old except that I have new plans nowπŸ™ˆ

How's everything with you? Done with exams?? Ping me you-know-where when you can πŸ€—πŸ˜ƒ

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@Teena
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Cvurko8
Posted by Teena
Posted by Cvurko8
Posted by Teena
Posted by Cvurko8
Consciously everything is fairly easy for me. Subconsciously i guess letting go is more difficult.

Pisces sun, aqua moon, pisces mars

WELCOME BACK YOU!!!!! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

Teena! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— Tell me how are you and where you are now!

I'm good, thank you Cvurko 😁😁

Same old same old except that I have new plans nowπŸ™ˆ

How's everything with you? Done with exams?? Ping me you-know-where when you can πŸ€—πŸ˜ƒ

Will do! Id like to hear your new plans so dont shy from pinging first ^^

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Sure 😁 Looking forward to catching up with everything I missed πŸ€— πŸ™‚