Legit busy

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, October 11, 2017 and has 6 replies.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

As this question bothers most - let's find out.

It is mostly for men but if women have a word...we always do don't we? Lol

Please give an ax ample when you ceasing communications temporary like for day or a month(S) due to being busy.

What kind of busy can you be to not have a minute to text 'I am fine. Call you. Hugs...'

Lately I had been meeting really busy people. I am not one of them. So maybe when 'really busy' person don't communicate - they are really busy?

And we are bitching about it because we can't relate to others business because we are just people of measure who do nothing and just wait for that text or call like there is no tomorrow and life is ending every 5 minutes we don't get 'recognition'?

Those of you who are really busy to contact - examples please...

Have I just asked that on dxp who basically live here and have no life?

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@CanerJason
8 Years

Cancer man here - If I say I am busy it is because I am processing a boat load of mixed emotions, and I don't want to talk because I don't want to make things more emotionally complex.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by CanerJason
Cancer man here - If I say I am busy it is because I am processing a boat load of mixed emotions, and I don't want to talk because I don't want to make things more emotionally complex.

What is that so complicated that you are processing by a load that you can't shoot a text or have a cup of coffee—

So the other signs as well?

I said legit! Like you doing something with your hands so they are occupied and you can't text!

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Koniuchaa
No one is that busy. They just don’t want to talk to you

Right! But then they do...claiming they were busy!

Like yesterday I was pissed off because I haven't been contacted. And I must had been. On a middle of the day I've got an info that he is in the hospital! THATS legit reason not to call...lol

But it wasn't work related! Lol

So what I am fishing for is...I KNOW that some people are having such busy life's.

I want someone to tell how busy are they really? To the point of having no time to text!

I had job like that before but still we always had time to communicate.

So cut the bull people!

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@CanerJason
8 Years

s the thing Gemini - we aren't bold and fiery like you. We need time to think through and process emotions. Processing emotions, especially mixed emotions, is a legit busy thing for a Cancer. My hands do not have to be busy for me to be occupied.

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Posted by CanerJason
Cancer man here - If I say I am busy it is because I am processing a boat load of mixed emotions, and I don't want to talk because I don't want to make things more emotionally complex.

What is that so complicated that you are processing by a load that you can't shoot a text or have a cup of coffee—

So the other signs as well?

I said legit! Like you doing something with your hands so they are occupied and you can't text!

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@hellosaggy
9 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

no its bs. it takes a few seconds to shoot a text. my ex(scorp sun, cancer moon, and all the other crazy) does this crap. she will disappear for a day or two then blow my phone up trying to make up for last two days... saying she was busy when she was really giving her attention to whoever she wants to give it to. that goes for the 12 hour between texts too people.

You aren't a priority. so f em.... but then when they want or need something they park themselves under you and pretend like they aren't selfish a-holes.

ignore them.

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Sheesh. Peeps on DeeExpuh would never survive knowing me RealWurld...

eh can go months or years at a time without responding or replying to texts and shit.

HA! oh dear