@Brickhouse27
8 Years500+ Posts
Relationships with an Aquarius…
Yes, completely normal to be hot and cold at the beginning because we are composing ourselves. It’s hard to do in this love bombing generation. However, we remain consistent throughout if we like the person. Can’t speak for all Aquas, this is specific to air dominant Aqua
Posted by aquarius09Yes, completely normal to be hot and cold at the beginning because we are composing ourselves. It’s hard to do in this love bombing generation. However, we remain consistent throughout if we like the person. Can’t speak for all Aquas, this is specific to air dominant Aqua
Been together about 6 months now. He’s been doing well lately.
Posted by Brickhouse27Is it normal for Aquarius to be hot and cold then just be so on point for a couple days it’s surprising? When I say that I mean communication on point and starting to show more emotions. Can anyone elaborate?
I've not been in a romantic relationship with one. But my childhood friend who I'm still friends with today (16 years, almost 17 years friendship now) is an Aquarius.
And she's definitely been hot and cold. And my younger female cousin is an Aquarius too, she's also exhibited hot and cold behaviours.
Very normal, they're just very airy.
But I find the cold moments are just cause they need time to themselves, to reflect and process whatever is on their mind or emotional state or life at that moment.
I have been seeing Aquarius for a while, he was like this. He confirmed that he is "distant" at times. He did it because he did not want to be in the exclusive relationship, his options were open.
Posted by goldenfishI have been seeing Aquarius for a while, he was like this. He confirmed that he is "distant" at times. He did it because he did not want to be in the exclusive relationship, his options were open.
Did he say upfront he didn’t want a relationship though or was it just his actions?
Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by goldenfishI have been seeing Aquarius for a while, he was like this. He confirmed that he is "distant" at times. He did it because he did not want to be in the exclusive relationship, his options were open.
Did he say upfront he didn’t want a relationship though or was it just his actions?
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I never asked (I was more about something casual, he was not really my type, but was fun to hang out), but we talked about many many things. For example, we discussed dating apps and he said he will try them too. How did I know about "distant" part: he tended to disappear for 3-4 days and was taking a day to reply to a simple message. This did not bother me, but what did bother me was the fact he always wanted to join my plans which I made while he was MIA. For example, he reappeared Friday night and Saturday morning I had a day trip planned, and so on. I confronted him and he told me he is like that "right now", which meant he did not want to be in a relationship/exclusively hang out.
I ended it because slow texters annoy me.
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Is it normal for Aquarius to be hot and cold then just be so on point for a couple days it’s surprising? When I say that I mean communication on point and starting to show more emotions. Can anyone elaborate?