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right amount of sex in a relationship?
Well obviously that depends on the individual. SOme people enjoy sex more than others, some people find it to be more of a necessity than others, some people dont enjoy sex that much. Personally for me—? Too much sex is not enough. But Im a bit of a nympho, so eh....
No such thing as 'too much'.
YEP, if there is wood, we'll be using that, tyvm. Yes, time and place and all that sort of thing. But reach back and latch hold of that man in the morning, oopsie bend over as it please you. Snuggle up and lay the smack down on that man, proper. Awwww did I walk by and brush against something AGAIN? Aw damn it, I meant to be so subtle too....
i haven't hit the "too much" mark yet.
although, i live with my boyfriend and we don't have sex every day...though i would prefer 2-3 times a day.
sometimes -- and i really hate to say this -- but sometimes sex just isn't practical; ie when one of us is really sick.
but in normal circumstances...i haven't discovered "too much" yet.
although, i live with my boyfriend and we don't have sex every day...though i would prefer 2-3 times a day.
sometimes -- and i really hate to say this -- but sometimes sex just isn't practical; ie when one of us is really sick.
but in normal circumstances...i haven't discovered "too much" yet.
I agree with bull. It's good to touch your loved one as much as you can
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So I guess what you really should be asking is something along the lines as
"Is being wanked/sucked off in MacDonalds toilets classed as sex?"
🙂
Yes it is.
And no.. I havent done it if that was your next question.
I consider anything oral/penetration or if you have physical contact that will cause you to orgasm... to be sex. There are many times when my bf and I play for hours on end where he will stimulate me in a number of ways that would not actually include him pentrating me with his penis.. however it may result in multiple/hours of orgasmic pleasure for me and/or him.... yeah... I count that as sex. Minus the McDonalds toilet of course! ew!
Posted by Lena282Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Well obviously that depends on the individual. SOme people enjoy sex more than others, some people find it to be more of a necessity than others, some people dont enjoy sex that much. Personally for me—? Too much sex is not enough. But Im a bit of a nympho, so eh....
haha same. When I hear about someone not feeling like having sex all I can think of is how is that possible? You must be doing it wrong😛click to expand
Haha Lena... I said the exact same thing the other day.... its hard for me to fathom someone not wanting/enjoying sex.... I think they must be doing it wrong too!!! Tbh... 2 - 3 times a day sounds about like a sufficient number for me. Although I do know that sometimes its not feasible, however... IF it is.... ITS on like Donkey Kong!
Yes I have always been confused by people who see sex as a chore?? Someone must be doing something wrong if it is not enjoyable and if it is enjoyable then why wouldnt they want to do it?! but yes I will go with the 2-3 times a day thing once in the morning (usually just a quickie) again when back from work, and another one to get me off to sleep lol. Also an orgasm is the best cure for a headache!
Should sex be the main driving factor behind why you're relationship is successful/peaceful? NO! But sex IS very important & is a part of the puzzle that keeps relationships afloat. The same rings true for communication, affection & many other things. Sex may not be #1 in importance, BUT it IS important & if a relationship is missing even 5% of the puzzle piece, it places the entire relationship in jeopardy.
How often a couple should have sex depends on each person's sex drive. It also depends on how high of an importance each person places on sex. If 2 people both have high sex drives, the more sex the better. Even still, quality over quantity always wins!
It's not always about why a couple IS having sex often. Sometimes it's about examining why a couple is NOT having sex with eachother. The "Why not's" paint the true picture of what's going on & may present some clarity into other underlying issues that may be occuring in the relationship.
In other words, if the reason a couple is NOT having sex every day or every 5 minutes is b/c of valid reasons, I think it's silly to allow the relationship to crumble. If lack of sex is just a temporary problem, I don't see any reasonf or 1 or both people to freak out, cheat or start doubting the relationship. However, if lack of sex becomes a permanent or pro-longed issue, that's another story.
Everyone oughta know by now that F'ing like rabbits is just not something that will happen throughout the entire relationship.
How often a couple should have sex depends on each person's sex drive. It also depends on how high of an importance each person places on sex. If 2 people both have high sex drives, the more sex the better. Even still, quality over quantity always wins!
It's not always about why a couple IS having sex often. Sometimes it's about examining why a couple is NOT having sex with eachother. The "Why not's" paint the true picture of what's going on & may present some clarity into other underlying issues that may be occuring in the relationship.
In other words, if the reason a couple is NOT having sex every day or every 5 minutes is b/c of valid reasons, I think it's silly to allow the relationship to crumble. If lack of sex is just a temporary problem, I don't see any reasonf or 1 or both people to freak out, cheat or start doubting the relationship. However, if lack of sex becomes a permanent or pro-longed issue, that's another story.
Everyone oughta know by now that F'ing like rabbits is just not something that will happen throughout the entire relationship.
Yehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Women need to be touched, men need to be fucked.
If her man fucked her ONLY, and never caressed her, never made love to her ... then the answers in here would be quite different.
Men: Is there a such thing as too much sex? No (his mind thinks about just sex)
Women: Is there a such thing as too much touching? No (her mind thinks about affection)
If her man is affectionate and caresses her all the time, then she is going to want to have sex with him because this is how to turn her from cold to hot ... if her man doesn't do that to her all the time, then this is when sex becomes a chore.
The question doesn't register the same for both genders.
If her man fucked her ONLY, and never caressed her, never made love to her ... then the answers in here would be quite different.
Men: Is there a such thing as too much sex? No (his mind thinks about just sex)
Women: Is there a such thing as too much touching? No (her mind thinks about affection)
If her man is affectionate and caresses her all the time, then she is going to want to have sex with him because this is how to turn her from cold to hot ... if her man doesn't do that to her all the time, then this is when sex becomes a chore.
The question doesn't register the same for both genders.
I must be a man then... meh...
I'll take BOTH thank you. There is a time for making love and a time for straight out animalistic screwing, dripping with sweat and breathing like you've run a marathon. And one blending right on into the other is not amiss in my world.
😄
At least 3 times each time, during one episode, LoL
THEN....
1 time afterward while showering together
AND THEN....
1 time in the middle of the night while half sleep
GOODNESS GRACIOUS....
1-2 times before morning breakfast.
The numbers would get higher if we lived together.
THEN....
1 time afterward while showering together
AND THEN....
1 time in the middle of the night while half sleep
GOODNESS GRACIOUS....
1-2 times before morning breakfast.
The numbers would get higher if we lived together.
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