Saggi guy is confusing me

I met a Saggi guy and we can't be together at this point but we decided to stay friends for now.

He knows that I have a lot of guy friends and always tells me that he isn't the jealous type.

There was a big Party on Friday and I told him that I'm going so he decided to come as well. I went there with my buddies and he went with his boys.

We met there and my buddies were excited to meet him and the idiot blew it. He met a bunch of my friends before and was the nicest person and this time he was quite arrogant and I know that he was really trying to cover that up but he couldn't. I told him that I want him to come to the after party and he said he couldn't because all his boys want to go back to the city. I said bye and left with my boys to head to the afterparty. Long story short his boys went back and he came to the afterparty by himself and all the time I had the feeling that he was mad at me.

We left the club and grabbed a bite and then he threw me into the cold water by asking me to drive because he had drinks and I didn't and that's how he tought me to drive stick which is something I've been avoiding so far.

It was quite an adventure even though I almost killed us 😄

I asked him why he was acting so strange and he said everything is okay and he is just a little stressed.

The next day he ran into my besties downtown and started talking about me and how much he likes me and what a great woman I am and they told me, that he looked kind of sad.

Any advise on how to hande the situation? I like him and want to stay friends but his behavior irritades me.

what's the reason you can only be friends at this stage? if you like him and he likes you, obviously! what's the reason?

I was with a Saggi for a while. They do get jealous, passionately! The agro comes from this.

Posted by Isabeau90
what's the reason you can only be friends at this stage? if you like him and he likes you, obviously! what's the reason?

I was with a Saggi for a while. They do get jealous, passionately! The agro comes from this.

We started dating, everything was good. I met his folks and his friends and he met mine. He started a new job in a different city three werks ago and we don't see much of each other since then. He told me that he has to focus on his career and put all his energy into it for the next 6-9 months and after that he can relax again and have more free time where he could focus on being with me.

He said he can't focus on something serious at the moment.

I got so pissed and started accusing him of dishonesty and he stayed calm and just told me honestly of all the things he is afraid of and also that he doesn't want to lose me. I wanted to break it off but instead I offered him friendship. I totally understand his point and even If I hate to admit, he is right with what he says.

I'm not planning on waiting around for him but I don't want to lose him either. It's kind of sad, because we had such a great connection :/