@Rainbow87
8 Years
Seriously why do men lie just to get into a girl’s pants? Do these men have a heart at all?
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Because their brain lives in their pants
😄😂
Because women believe them and give in. Make them work harder for it. They like the challenge
Perhaps have a better passcode to your pants.
Posted by saggurl88
Because women believe them and give in. Make them work harder for it. They like the challenge
Dry humping isn't as fun as it sounds 🤨
Posted by Nightcap-
Posted by saggurl88
Because women believe them and give in. Make them work harder for it. They like the challenge
Dry humping isn't as fun as it sounds 🤨
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I'll talk you through it. You'll see how fun it can be! 😉
Posted by Krabss
Posted by MyStarsShine
Because their brain lives in their pants
😄😂
my another brain is there as well 😄
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Lol 😂
Woman use men for sex too.
Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek
Maybe women should stop wearing pants... seems like an easy solution 🤔
Posted by Krabss
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
no, this is not true lol.
tho i don't like the word "use". i loved everyone of them and showed them love, and never ghosted. 😄
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I've never ghosted, ghosting is the weak way out, lol... but I've certainly used one or two for sex.
Posted by Antiphates
Last night I heard your voice
You were crying, crying, you were so alone
You said your love had never died
You were waiting for me at home
Put on my jacket, I ran through the woods
I ran till I thought my chest would explode
There in the clearing, beyond the highway
In the moonlight, our wedding house shone
I rushed through the yard
I burst through the front door, my head pounding hard
Up the stairs I climbed
The room was dark, our bed was empty
Then I heard that long whistle whine
And I dropped to my knees, hung my head and cried
Now I swing a sledge hammer on a railroad gang
Knocking down them cross ties, working in the rain
Now, don't it feel like you're a rider on a downbound train
You can be so romantic! ❤️
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by GenerousLeeb
Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.
Better than learning the limp way.
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Is it just me or does this sound like a creepy dead girl joke?
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Last night I heard your voice
You were crying, crying, you were so alone
You said your love had never died
You were waiting for me at home
Put on my jacket, I ran through the woods
I ran till I thought my chest would explode
There in the clearing, beyond the highway
In the moonlight, our wedding house shone
I rushed through the yard
I burst through the front door, my head pounding hard
Up the stairs I climbed
The room was dark, our bed was empty
Then I heard that long whistle whine
And I dropped to my knees, hung my head and cried
Now I swing a sledge hammer on a railroad gang
Knocking down them cross ties, working in the rain
Now, don't it feel like you're a rider on a downbound train
You can be so romantic! ❤️
I couldn't help it! 😆
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by GenerousLeeb
Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.
Better than learning the limp way.
Is it just me or does this sound like a creepy dead girl joke?
I don't do necro jokes. Only dick jokes.
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Got it! 😄
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by GenerousLeeb
Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.
Better than learning the limp way.
Is it just me or does this sound like a creepy dead girl joke?
I don't do necro jokes. Only dick jokes.
Got it! 😄
😁😁😁 lol
@Antiphates
I can always count on you! 😆
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Posted by saggurl88
@Antiphates
I can always count on you! 😆
Just send a text to him
Because they had low morality, compassion, they cant think "what if i was the one being lied to" and let lust guide them.
A man can't get into your pants unless you let him to..
it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you
are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes
not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love
Can you give an example of how they lie, in your experience.
Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL
I’ve seen so many girls rejecting actually good guy and chasing fuccboi and then surprised to be just fucked and not called back . Not interesting anymore
The heart wants what the heart wants
Posted by virghost
it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you
are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes
not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love
It's chastidy
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by virghost
it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you
are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes
not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love
It's chastidy
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whoooooooops, I reread it too lol and still said "sounds about right"
Posted by virghost
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by virghost
it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you
are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes
not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love
It's chastidy
whoooooooops, I reread it too lol and still said "sounds about right"
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Lol. Not many girls hand out punani for charity 😉
Posted by Gobbie
Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...
It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.
When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.
Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?
So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.
Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.
I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.
Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.
Posted by Gobbie
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gobbie
Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...
It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.
When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.
Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?
So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.
Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.
I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.
Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.
It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).
Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .
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I agree completely!
Posted by _ang_an
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gobbie
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gobbie
Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...
It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.
When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.
Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?
So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.
Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.
I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.
Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.
It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).
Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .
I agree completely!
Yeah no, that wouldn't happen at all. The "odd douchebag" is over 50% of males. And what if the woman really wants to have sex with the man though? You all talk like women dont get horny.
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yeah no?
If it was what the OP wanted, she wouldn't be upset at just sex. I stayed on topic 🙂
"Odd douchebags being 50% of men" have to do with the guys a woman falls for as well.
If you keep falling for the same fucc boy types, the universe will deliver.
You are what you attract.
Posted by _ang_an
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by _ang_an
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gobbie
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gobbie
Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...
It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.
When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.
Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?
So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.
Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.
I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.
Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.
It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).
Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .
I agree completely!
Yeah no, that wouldn't happen at all. The "odd douchebag" is over 50% of males. And what if the woman really wants to have sex with the man though? You all talk like women dont get horny.
yeah no?
If it was what the OP wanted, she wouldn't be upset at just sex. I stayed on topic 🙂
"Odd douchebags being 50% of men" have to do with the guys a woman falls for as well.
If you keep falling for the same fucc boy types, the universe will deliver.
You are what you attract.
Staying on topic? whaaat we dont do that here. Fair enough. I may have felt attacced. Although now I feel like youre calling me a fucc boi!!
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If it's not obvious in your avi name whether you are a girl or a guy, I have no clue
And yes, if you attract a lot of fucc girls- most likely you are a douchey fucc boy! Live it up! lol
I know men get used for sex too. I've done it myself, when they are only good for one thing and their personality is shit.
Posted by _ang_an
I'm definitely propagating the stereotype that virgos like handsome fucc bois with big dicks.
All men have big dicks, let them tell it! 😆
Women have an image of what they want in a man. The men that exude 70% + of women's ideals, realize they have plenty of options, especially if he's attractive. Most guys that complain about not bagging a woman are either beta personalities, or beta looking. Is what it is. You can't really say its men because 58% of society is single and when 97% of people identify as straight... its pretty much 50/50. soooooo. people either need to modify their dream guy/girl or have standards and search. I used to look down on my below performing bro friends because they'd lie to get in a woman's pants, all you had to do was have him run out his "representative" stage and see he's a pos lol. I don't lie, I just focus on avoiding getting trapped. I have permanent grass is greener syndrome.
I'm late-30s don't look it skin wise or physical wise, a well paying job, and an awesome fun personality. Now don't get me wrong it feels awkward messing with women that are 23 (that's probably my limit, and with the immaturity I might have to take it up a little more).... but I don't have children, and won't seriously date a women with children. If I do settle down it would have to be a first for us both. So I either have to date a professional woman, who focused on her career, or a younger woman.
Posted by hellosaggy
Women have an image of what they want in a man. The men that exude 70% + of women's ideals, realize they have plenty of options, especially if he's attractive. Most guys that complain about not bagging a woman are either beta personalities, or beta looking. Is what it is. You can't really say its men because 58% of society is single and when 97% of people identify as straight... its pretty much 50/50. soooooo. people either need to modify their dream guy/girl or have standards and search. I used to look down on my below performing bro friends because they'd lie to get in a woman's pants, all you had to do was have him run out his "representative" stage and see he's a pos lol. I don't lie, I just focus on avoiding getting trapped. I have permanent grass is greener syndrome.
I'm late-30s don't look it skin wise or physical wise, a well paying job, and an awesome fun personality. Now don't get me wrong it feels awkward messing with women that are 23 (that's probably my limit, and with the immaturity I might have to take it up a little more).... but I don't have children, and won't seriously date a women with children. If I do settle down it would have to be a first for us both. So I either have to date a professional woman, who focused on her career, or a younger woman.
Hmm. I would like to add a disclaimer because some woman are able to be focused on both career and and family. And do really well. Some without a partner.
But I am sure you will not be short of finding someone who has not or does not want kids. 😄
It's why I gave a percentage and not listed the qualities because it is on a case by case basis. 80/20 rule typically applies to most situations.
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Rainbow87
I’m obviously not speaking for all men, I just want to know…. why— What in the world goes through their mind—
Do these men not care to use people for their needs— Sometimes I’ve been too innocent to believe that people like this can even exist. They’re just pure evil with no compassion or care for others.
The funny thing is that later in life some of these men end up having daughters and they don’t want anyone touching their little princess.
They cannot expect a fabulous man for their daughters if they don’t know how to respect women themselves. Will they get their Karma one day?
How an adult treats a child and how they can act around adults are two different things. I believe a prostitute can be a good mother, a male stripper can be a good father.
I think someone being psychologically damaged can be a part of parenting, but there are too many factors. Which why psychology pays well at top level it's complex.
Women use men all the time. Teasing them with a low cut top to change a tyre, flirting to cut the grass, pretending to want to fuck them to make it an ex boyfriend jealous. It's immature. Honesty gets honesty back.
Tbh if a man says I love you on a first date, buys her flowers, says she is the most beautiful woman in the world and she is wasted in her job. Guess who he is going on home with? Madam Palm and her five daughters.
I don't tell lies to get into a woman's body stocking. Unless you count disguising how horny I am. Why would I? I work for Space X, drive a 21 plate Tesla and I'm Channing Tatum's body double.
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And you forgot the best part - you're an Aries man - you go boy!
Ime its not the outright lies but the omissions you need to watch out for.
Probably because some women are too weak to resist them. Solution: Be stronger and stick to your boundaries, stop falling for them.
Women lie to themselves so that men can get into their pants too. Like when they convince themselves they "love" a guy just cuz they want to fuck him
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by stardustmop
For some men sex is all they have to offer. That is how their emotional needs are met and they believe it is enough to meet yours as well, especially if you haven’t required them to come to you with anything else. They don’t know any emotional intimacy beyond penetration. That is why you should make sure your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs are met long before you get to the bedroom. No one can use you for sex without your permission.
In an ideal world. A lot of women would also pay a lot of money for a one night stand with Chris Hemsworth, Dwayne Johnson, Johnny Depp take your pick. I'm sure that would meet their emotional needs.
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I wonder statistically how many women pay male escorts for sex?
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by stardustmop
For some men sex is all they have to offer. That is how their emotional needs are met and they believe it is enough to meet yours as well, especially if you haven’t required them to come to you with anything else. They don’t know any emotional intimacy beyond penetration. That is why you should make sure your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs are met long before you get to the bedroom. No one can use you for sex without your permission.
In an ideal world. A lot of women would also pay a lot of money for a one night stand with Chris Hemsworth, Dwayne Johnson, Johnny Depp take your pick. I'm sure that would meet their emotional needs.
I wonder statistically how many women pay male escorts for sex?
Very few I expect. I did see a documentary about 10 years ago were a Christian lady did. I think as a concept women paying for sex doesn't appeal because it doesn't appear fun. Seeing a stripper on a hen night appears fun.
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I think it could be great fun 😃
The thought of it is intriguing but actually doing it (for me)would be like one night stands .... empty ....
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II
Women lie to themselves so that men can get into their pants too. Like when they convince themselves they "love" a guy just cuz they want to fuck him
Not saying it isn't true, but how common is that?
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As common as women think they want a relationship with the guy they are fucking. So yeah pretty often
You don't often hear women say "i just want us to be fwb" but men ALWAYS insist on fwb
They let their little head tell the big head what to do. Or, as the old saying goes, a hard dick has no conscience.
Posted by Mtnboy
They let their little head tell the big head what to do. Or, as the old saying goes, a hard dick has no conscience.
Brains in pants 🤓
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
But women dont lie for it...
Posted by Lavaliquid2
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
But women dont lie for it...
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They not telling the truth either. But I get your point
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Lavaliquid2
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
But women dont lie for it...
You're right sometimes they stand up.
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Or bend...
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Lavaliquid2
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
But women dont lie for it...
You're right sometimes they stand up.
Or bend...
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....backwards and forwards
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Lavaliquid2
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Woman use men for sex too.
But women dont lie for it...
You're right sometimes they stand up.
Or bend...
....backwards and forwards
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I’m obviously not speaking for all men, I just want to know…. why— What in the world goes through their mind—
Do these men not care to use people for their needs— Sometimes I’ve been too innocent to believe that people like this can even exist. They’re just pure evil with no compassion or care for others.
The funny thing is that later in life some of these men end up having daughters and they don’t want anyone touching their little princess.
They cannot expect a fabulous man for their daughters if they don’t know how to respect women themselves. Will they get their Karma one day?