Sun/Pluto aspects in Synastry - please help

Hey Guys

As you know I am Libra head over heels with an Aries.

My sun and Pluto sit in 12th house

His sun sits in 6th house and his Pluto in 11th.

This means my sun is conjunct his Pluto at 4,25° and his Sun is in opposition to my Pluto at 3,41°

I have read about all I can with regard to these aspects and what it means to be the sun person and the Pluto person. But

Can anyone shed more light as to the actual difference between the two and how it will eventually play out in part considering we both make up the sun and the Pluto person.

I know all about the obsession ect this aspect creates. But I would like a bit more useful insight because I feel that I can't not have this person in my life at all... I just can't imagine my life without him in it in any shape or form

sigh. No one wants to offer advice?

Be prepared, soulmate type,but power games, controlling etc. We have sun square pluto, took 5 months to calm things down.

Posted by Sheever
Be prepared, soulmate type,but power games, controlling etc. We have sun square pluto, took 5 months to calm things down.

It's been a year now. I wont lie there are complications. But I find myself pushing and pulling ALL the time. I have given this so much thought and the only thing that comes to mind is that I am afraid of this relationship

In my opinion it's a soulmate aspect, but difficult one. Lot of power games and fear of losing control to the other person. I have my pluto square my guys sun and I feel the same as you do... Can't imagine he won't be there one day. Be careful though! The pluto person is kinda scary to the sun person, because they can see hidden things, after all pluto is about transformation so most of the time the sun person runs away before any real transformation happens, because it's scary. It's scary to know that somebody can see that deep into your soul... it's probably very beautiful if you can endure the worst part of it. 😊 all pluto + personal planets aspects are hard to endure... there is a lot of compulsion and power battles, but also strong attractions involved! What about composite? For example we have conjuction between sun and pluto in our composite chart and that's better. Composite usually has the last word.

I was with an Aries guy whose Pluto and Moon conj my Sun, Venus, Neptune and Jupiter

Life changing experience but wouldn't want to go through it again

So draining and not much fun 💙

Posted by Baru
In my opinion it's a soulmate aspect, but difficult one. Lot of power games and fear of losing control to the other person. I have my pluto square my guys sun and I feel the same as you do... Can't imagine he won't be there one day. Be careful though! The pluto person is kinda scary to the sun person, because they can see hidden things, after all pluto is about transformation so most of the time the sun person runs away before any real transformation happens, because it's scary. It's scary to know that somebody can see that deep into your soul... it's probably very beautiful if you can endure the worst part of it. 😊 all pluto + personal planets aspects are hard to endure... there is a lot of compulsion and power battles, but also strong attractions involved! What about composite? For example we have conjuction between sun and pluto in our composite chart and that's better. Composite usually has the last word.

In composite Pluto is in Libra in 12th

Pluto square sun 0.2°

Pluto square merc 2°

Pluto square venus 4°

Pluto square mars -9°

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Baru
In my opinion it's a soulmate aspect, but difficult one. Lot of power games and fear of losing control to the other person. I have my pluto square my guys sun and I feel the same as you do... Can't imagine he won't be there one day. Be careful though! The pluto person is kinda scary to the sun person, because they can see hidden things, after all pluto is about transformation so most of the time the sun person runs away before any real transformation happens, because it's scary. It's scary to know that somebody can see that deep into your soul... it's probably very beautiful if you can endure the worst part of it. 😊 all pluto + personal planets aspects are hard to endure... there is a lot of compulsion and power battles, but also strong attractions involved! What about composite? For example we have conjuction between sun and pluto in our composite chart and that's better. Composite usually has the last word.

In composite Pluto is in Libra in 12th

Pluto square sun 0.2°

Pluto square merc 2°

Pluto square venus 4°

Pluto square mars -9°

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In Composite it's not really about signs, houses are still important, that is if you know birth time for both of you. All of those aspects are difficult... 😢 I would suggest watching those videos:

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Sheever
Be prepared, soulmate type,but power games, controlling etc. We have sun square pluto, took 5 months to calm things down.

It's been a year now. I wont lie there are complications. But I find myself pushing and pulling ALL the time. I have given this so much thought and the only thing that comes to mind is that I am afraid of this relationship

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Yes because its rip your soul open, and you not in comfort. You either go for it or just running away. Beautiful stuff, extremely intimate connection. As been said here very well, it's see each other real and true nature and personality completely naked. You can't hide, you can't just limit it. It's a proper go under skin experience and for some it can be frightening or very uncomfortable. On the other hand it pulls you in like a magnet because you feel it deep down its somewhat different and has significance. Enormous potential to grow. You both reveal each other deepest most hidden nature and allow it. That's wonderful thing in itself.

That pluto square mars and venus is nasty. You guys get hot and cold for sure. Lots of jealousy, abuse and even can fall into domestic violence if not handled with maturity.

I wouldn't miss out on it anyway. Because of that great transformation potential also the intensity. Deep stuff

That push pull will calm down after while as its impossible to keep ongoing. Very exhausting.you eventually stabilise, and all things you been through together can potentially makes you stronger if you guys can appreciate each other teaching. These types are the big ones.

Posted by Sheever
That pluto square mars and venus is nasty. You guys get hot and cold for sure. Lots of jealousy, abuse and even can fall into domestic violence if not handled with maturity.
I wouldn't miss out on it anyway. Because of that great transformation potential also the intensity. Deep stuff
That push pull will calm down after while as its impossible to keep ongoing. Very exhausting.you eventually stabilise, and all things you been through together can potentially makes you stronger if you guys can appreciate each other teaching. These types are the big ones.

Those vids don't give me much hope LOL. Aye!

Would it help if I said that for an Aries he does not really like confrontation much haha

A few snippets from the Comp Chart