@Brickhouse27
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Libra men and stress...
Do Libra Men Withdraw When Under Stress
Libra men may withdraw or become distant when dealing with stress or family issues. This behavior is often a way to process their emotions quietly. They value harmony, so they might seek solitude temporarily to regain balance before reconnecting. Understanding their need for space can help maintain healthy relationships during stressful times.
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Father passed, he is the oldest. Stepped in to help mom take of the house. He has 2 younger brothers that take things for granted so he really is the only one pitching in and he seems to avoid saying anything to them but will say stuff to me...
Thank you. I tell him these things and he acknowledges it but then he will get upset. It's like one minute he cool then he flipping the script. Then it causes a disagreement and barely wants to talk...
Yeah I think so too. So how does the different cardinal/moon and etc work?
Yes, yes they will.
My libra boyfriend lost his mother when he was still in his pre-teens.
In your guy's situation, he decided to take the responsibility of being the oldest to help his mother cope.
They usually pull away because they dont want to put any damage to your relationship. But come to you to vent, because that's when they could show when they are most vulnerable.
Basically be his emotional support when he is breaking down and trying hard to cope with everything. He will thank you on the long run.
That makes alot of sense because he didn't cry during the whole process, funeral, burial, repast, then after.
Wow, it all makes sense. He is so stubborn but it's understandable. Why do guys hate showing emotion and communicating properly it want us to tell them every little thing?
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Wow, it all makes sense. He is so stubborn but it's understandable. Why do guys hate showing emotion and communicating properly it want us to tell them every little thing?
It's just how males are, they are taught to be strong and show no weakness.
He's being relied on by his mother and probably setting a role model for his younger siblings. Usually it's only because they dont want to show that his also breaking down.
Just let him know when things are too stressful for him to handle, you are there for him through thick and thin.
Exactly. Yeah I have and he seems to be coming around but it's very slow. I try not to force the issue. We were staying together and everything and it became alot.
Your right, absolutely. I judge him. I just want him to understand his sanity and health and all of the above is important too. I dont want him to die of a heart attack or anything. If I got he got and he knows that. I'm always like I'm here if you need anything and you know that.
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Exactly. Yeah I have and he seems to be coming around but it's very slow. I try not to force the issue. We were staying together and everything and it became alot.
That's good 😁☺
Best regards to the both of you.
I have been doing the same thing for my Libra whenever he is always stress out. Since he is the second oldest out of 5.
He only grew up with his grandparents ever since his deceased mother. His father is barely there for him. 🙂
You both could do it 😄 it wouldn't be easy, be strong!
Yeah I think he knows it too. Libras are very intelligent people. It's going to take time. Thank you so much😉
Yes! You have 1st hand experience lol. 4 years and I'm not gone leave him. I feel like and I know he has been let down in the past so he needs that underlying love and support.
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Yes! You have 1st hand experience lol. 4 years and I'm not gone leave him. I feel like and I know he has been let down in the past so he needs that underlying love and support.
You been together for 4 years?? I am about to make it to my 1 year anniversary with him 😊
Yes ma'am, 4 years! Yall fresh but yall can make it definitely with communication and patience. I know that's what I'm working on now,PATIENCE.
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Yes ma'am, 4 years! Yall fresh but yall can make it definitely with communication and patience. I know that's what I'm working on now,PATIENCE.
😍😍😍 your relationship is goals for me! I want it to be that long~ that is soooo cute
I had a lot of ups and downs but yes I am being patience but also working on my part while he does his
What is your zodiac I am just curious
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Yes ma'am, 4 years! Yall fresh but yall can make it definitely with communication and patience. I know that's what I'm working on now,PATIENCE.What is your sign if you don't mind me asking?
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You beat me to it lmao
Pisces!
Pisces!
Do you all live together?
I have another question. Why do ppl always assume a libra is messing around with someone else when they pull away?
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I have another question. Why do ppl always assume a libra is messing around with someone else when they pull away?
Because their delusional.
Thank you VERY MUCH, I totally agree. And everyone isn't the same. Its alot that goes into it. Age, background, MORALS,etc. Everyone experience isn't gone be the same.
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Do you all live together?
No not yet. I am not ready 😅😅
Wait please wait. We were staying together before his dad passed and then we moved in with his mom. Thenhis brothers came. It was a lot going and now we dont stay together. Get your own space.
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Wait please wait. We were staying together before his dad passed and then we moved in with his mom. Thenhis brothers came. It was a lot going and now we dont stay together. Get your own space.
Yeah, I will. I was sort of scared living together cause financial problems might occur or we might eventually hate each other. 😅 I am waiting until I feel like I am ready to have my own child but that's not like until after college.
LOL that's understandable. I doubt yall will hate each other. It takes a special person to deal with them. What is your sign?
Yep. Now my guy's cousin who is a female cancer assumes that my guy is the same way her now husband is. They dated 2 years, broke up and he came back around 4 years later and married her. She said he admitted he was bored when he pulled away. But looking at his background he was always dependent upon someone or something to get by. My guy on the other hand hates cheaters or cheating and would never do that and depends on himself.
i'm not a libra man but in times of stress i turn to my partner not away from them. yes, and it's mostly to rant at them about whatever is bothering me. the only time i would distance myself is if whatever is stressing me out would stress them out if i mentioned it. i'd rather carry the problem alone than burden them with it.
That's totally understandable. It's like not wanting to make each other stressed.
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LOL that's understandable. I doubt yall will hate each other. It takes a special person to deal with them. What is your sign?
Cancer 😊😊
And no there hasn't been any hate, yet, at least. Cause when we get into arguments he quickly apologize and i do too
Water sign!!!
That's great, like omg that's good.
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Water sign!!!That's great, like omg that's good.
Cheers 😊🥂
Do you consider libra males bipolar?
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Thank you. I tell him these things and he acknowledges it but then he will get upset. It's like one minute he cool then he flipping the script. Then it causes a disagreement and barely wants to talk...
When a Libra barely has conversation for you ( man or woman ) it is best to just leave them alone and go no contact until they reach out to you.
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Do you consider libra males bipolar?
No, not at all.
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Thank you. I tell him these things and he acknowledges it but then he will get upset. It's like one minute he cool then he flipping the script. Then it causes a disagreement and barely wants to talk...When a Libra barely has conversation for you ( man or woman ) it is best to just leave them alone and go no contact until they reach out to you. click to expand
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Thank you I appreciate that.
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Do you consider libra males bipolar?No, not at all. click to expand
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What do you consider it as then?
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