krysrenee7
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The little things
Yeah being a good listener & actually finding out what your partner likes is very important. Women have to speak up more about how they wanna be treated & what they won't accept. That could apply to men too sometimes. Communication is really important. You can't expect someone to know how you feel about things if you never tell them. So love, trust, communication, & lastly understanding, can make things easier. Lol but people make things hard
Last month, I came home, went to our bedroom & saw that my husband had bought me a dress and heels to wear on a date I wasn't even aware we were going on lol I was like awwwwwwww! So cute!!!
Ya know, 1 of those things you'll never forget someone did for you 10 years later or even if you don't end up together. Some things just leave a lasting impression :-)
Certain special moments when someone went the extra mile for you are how standards can be set in your next relationship. Once you've met someone who treats you like a queen, it dawns on you not to ever settle for anything less the next go around. I'm guessing that's 1 of the reasons some of you won't ever forget an ex. There was something good or special they did for you that left a lasting impression. Even though you may not want them as a person back, you'll at least never forget certain memories or extra stops they pulled out for you.
He went the extra mile! Instead of just telling me to get dressed & get ready for a date (standard), he actually did 3 amazing deeds wrapped up in one: 1. Bought me something beautiful! 2. Put effort into being creative and 3. Took me on a surprise date!
See it's the little "extra mile" kinda things that can make your day, week, month or even year!
Ya know, 1 of those things you'll never forget someone did for you 10 years later or even if you don't end up together. Some things just leave a lasting impression :-)
Certain special moments when someone went the extra mile for you are how standards can be set in your next relationship. Once you've met someone who treats you like a queen, it dawns on you not to ever settle for anything less the next go around. I'm guessing that's 1 of the reasons some of you won't ever forget an ex. There was something good or special they did for you that left a lasting impression. Even though you may not want them as a person back, you'll at least never forget certain memories or extra stops they pulled out for you.
He went the extra mile! Instead of just telling me to get dressed & get ready for a date (standard), he actually did 3 amazing deeds wrapped up in one: 1. Bought me something beautiful! 2. Put effort into being creative and 3. Took me on a surprise date!
See it's the little "extra mile" kinda things that can make your day, week, month or even year!
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by krysrenee7
Certain special moments when someone went the extra mile for you are how standards can be set in your next relationship. Once you've met someone who treats you like a queen, it dawns on you not to ever settle for anything less.
This ^^^^^^^^
I can't go into specifics though.....because it's too private. 🙂click to expand
You don't have to mention names though 😢 Why you no tell us? 😢
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by krysrenee7
Certain special moments when someone went the extra mile for you are how standards can be set in your next relationship. Once you've met someone who treats you like a queen, it dawns on you not to ever settle for anything less.
This ^^^^^^^^
I can't go into specifics though.....because it's too private. 🙂click to expand
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
12th house venus....it will go to my grave 😄
lol i understand this....
anything 12th house is to the grave.
Posted by krysrenee7
Last month, I came home, went to our bedroom & saw that my husband had bought me a dress and heels to wear on a date I wasn't even aware we were going on lol I was like awwwwwwww! So cute!!!
Ya know, 1 of those things you'll never forget someone did for you 10 years later or even if you don't end up together. Some things just leave a lasting impression :-)
Certain special moments when someone went the extra mile for you are how standards can be set in your next relationship. Once you've met someone who treats you like a queen, it dawns on you not to ever settle for anything less the next go around. I'm guessing that's 1 of the reasons some of you won't ever forget an ex. There was something good or special they did for you that left a lasting impression. Even though you may not want them as a person back, you'll at least never forget certain memories or extra stops they pulled out for you.
He went the extra mile! Instead of just telling me to get dressed & get ready for a date (standard), he actually did 3 amazing deeds wrapped up in one: 1. Bought me something beautiful! 2. Put effort into being creative and 3. Took me on a surprise date!
See it's the little "extra mile" kinda things that can make your day, week, month or even year!
aw that's nice he did that for you.
I don't like those types of men though. 😄
i really hate surprises. The only extra mile is loyalty, meaning NO flirting, always PHYSICAL presence, stick with me like glue, and to be able to trust me as i trust you. Very simple stuff. put up with my moods and i put up with yours kind of thing.
And here I was thinking women preferred large ' things '...
Posted by LibraSid
And here I was thinking women preferred large ' things '...
OK, hang on a minute...
*grunt, wiggle, inhale and hold, groan, squirm*
Now that I have donned my fire resistant suit, I may make the following comment in response to LibraSid's comment.
*clearing throat, ahmm*
There are no "Little Things," LibraSid!
Having said that, and before I am butchered by various females to be found here on DXP, how about when you are out walking, and you notice she is squinting in the sun. You take off your hat and plunk it down on her head despite her protestations.
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