Using the wrong name during sex

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by truecap on Monday, May 26, 2014 and has 30 replies.

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Flipping channels on TV came across a movie and a couple were having sex. Well one of them said the wrong name and the other just came unglued on them. Thought that might be a fun discussion on here.

Sooo, have you called someone the wrong name during sex? Any insight? Habit from an ex? Thinking about someone else? Fantasizing? Did the persons name you said mean anything to you? What did your partner do? How did each of you handle it?

Has it been done to you? Whose name was it? How did you handle it? What happened after?

While watching the movie, I was thinking of all the possible ways that could have went down.

Curious to hear some stories!

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Posted by truecap

Sooo, have you called someone the wrong name during sex? Any insight? Habit from an ex? Thinking about someone else? Fantasizing? Did the persons name you said mean anything to you? What did your partner do? How did each of you handle it?

One time, and I SWEAR I was kind of drunk and I was thinking in my head "what if I accidentally said my exe's name?" because I had never slept with someone else before, so for the first time it was a possibility. I WASN'T actually fantasizing about him when I said it.

He stopped and looked at me, and I said "I swear I wasn't thinking about him, I'm just a drunk moron" and then he just started fucking me really hard. lol

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Posted by Damnata
Posted by IoCream
and then he just started fucking me really hard. lol

Really? omg I have to start doing this 😄

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I read or heard that when men suspect cheating or have been away for awhile they are generally more "vigorous." It's gotta be some kind of subconscious desire to displace other mens sperm. Animalistic shiz

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Posted by truecap
Posted by IoCream

I read or heard that when men suspect cheating or have been away for awhile they are generally more "vigorous." It's gotta be some kind of subconscious desire to displace other mens sperm. Animalistic shiz

that actually makes sense. Lol

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One theory I read claims the penis may have evolved it's shape to help clear a woman's reproductive system of a previous lover's semen during sex. In a way, this supports the notion that men are not the only ones biologically entitled/programmed to whore around.

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{Raises hand}

I called a bf another name during sex.

He was very upset, a Taurus, might I add. The name I called out was of a good friend who I (we) spent lots of time with. I had no romantic or sexual feelings for him so it was pretty strange to say the least. I tried explaining this but it wasn't well received.

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Never happened to me on either end

But I'm sure I'd freak out.

Considering average sex may only take between 3-60 minutes, I'd find it quite strange & telling that of allllll the hours in a day, a man just so happened to be thinking of another woman that hard during the few minutes in a day a couple has sex lmao

It's like ugh, why couldn't you have been thinking about her while washing the dishes or something?! What a way to kill the vibe in a relationship!

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
{Raises hand}

I called a bf another name during sex.

He was very upset, a Taurus, might I add. The name I called out was of a good friend who I (we) spent lots of time with. I had no romantic or sexual feelings for him so it was pretty strange to say the least. I tried explaining this but it wasn't well received.

Awww......hell naw.

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If a person does this ... then the sexual encounter they are having has no emotional connection.

because a person who is connected, emotionally, isn't thinking about another

So, if a person does this while having a bf/gf ... then they're a terrible bf/gf and probably a terrible person.

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Posted by AesmaDaeva
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Yeah, huge fcuk up... He never believed I had no feelings for the guy.

The tables did turn on me years later with a Pisces bf... Who talked in his sleep 😱

Sleep talking and saying another woman's name?

Yeah... Saying her name in a full sentence. Sigh.

But it can mean a lot of things, like having an argument with that woman in his dream.

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He wasn't having an argument, lol, he was telling her how he felt and it had the word love in it!