libracusp924
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This past week has been too much for me
Personally, I would probably send condolences, yes.
But again everyone is different and there could be many reasons why he has not.
But again everyone is different and there could be many reasons why he has not.
Posted by Silvuhits just too weird he followed me to the grocery store 2 days before my friend had passed. just too weird for me i wish he would say something because that clearly shows me he wants to say something even before my friend had passed
Personally, I would probably send condolences, yes.
But again everyone is different and there could be many reasons why he has not.
Posted by libracusp924Yeah it's incredibly weird he did that I'd be creeped out as well. He probably just isn't sure how to approach you.Posted by Silvuhits just too weird he followed me to the grocery store 2 days before my friend had passed. just too weird for me i wish he would say something because that clearly shows me he wants to say something even before my friend had passed
Personally, I would probably send condolences, yes.
But again everyone is different and there could be many reasons why he has not.click to expand
And I don't really think it is you who should be bearing the burden of whether to initiate contact.
Just relax and try to clear your head, absent of thoughts about him for now?
And I'm really sorry about your loss.
Posted by Silvuhthank you i have been hoping he is coming back so i guess i have been happy knowing its him but just too much and thank you 🙂 my friend was the best lol i know everyone says that but he was my brother form another mother im really gonna miss him and i know my ex is terrified about this stuff. he is like a gradeschool boy nervous to give the valentine cards away he made for school i just really hope he grows a sackPosted by libracusp924Yeah it's incredibly weird he did that I'd be creeped out as well. He probably just isn't sure how to approach you.Posted by Silvuhits just too weird he followed me to the grocery store 2 days before my friend had passed. just too weird for me i wish he would say something because that clearly shows me he wants to say something even before my friend had passed
Personally, I would probably send condolences, yes.
But again everyone is different and there could be many reasons why he has not.
And I don't really think it is you who should be bearing the burden of whether to initiate contact.
Just relax and try to clear your head, absent of thoughts about him for now?
And I'm really sorry about your loss.
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im sorry about your friend 😢
Posted by Ophiuchusthank you i hope my ex is too. im very confused and feel selfish at this point because i just really want my ex to reach out to me. its just been a lot to think about. my friend crashed near a church and a priest was the first one to make and emergency call and that is very comforting to me because he was strictly catholic, but i miss him very much
im sorry about your friend 😢
Posted by tizianisounds crazy of me but i know what to do with the death situation. i've been through lots. I have a huge support system for it now too. he was also my brothers best friend, as well as my parents second son. His family is still my parents neighbors and i know what you mean but ive kind of numbed myself to all of it since the wake. it has just been a weird week considering i saw my ex at my grocery store two days before my friend, so naturally i thought a lot about that before my friend passed. maybe it is a coping mechanism to just think of my ex now more than think about my friend, although all i have thought about has been my friend. my mind is just going 1000000 miles an hour about everything
I don't know but I'd focus more on coming to terms with the loss of your friend? I don't understand why their death is a leverage point for evaluating whether your ex cares about you or not. It's your life and respectfully your priorities though.
Posted by tizianihe never said much about her, they dated 10 years ago. he would only show me what she would message him. im not worried about her, i think we could maybe be friends. she has another bf now anyway, whom she introduced me to this past wednesday. he hung out with her, and said unflattering stuff about me, but i think she now believes me more than him
And given that he gave an unflattering portrayal of both you and his ex, to each other, as a means to possibly play you off against each other, then I'd also spend more time taking a wider view perspective. It's pretty rare that you get to chance to be on friendly terms with an ex's ex and get a full picture of the good and bad. It's a massive advantage for really getting to see someone on a down-to-earth basis.
Posted by tizianiI guess too much in one postPosted by libracusp924All right.Posted by tizianisounds crazy of me but i know what to do with the death situation. i've been through lots. I have a huge support system for it now too. he was also my brothers best friend, as well as my parents second son. His family is still my parents neighbors and i know what you mean but ive kind of numbed myself to all of it since the wake. it has just been a weird week considering i saw my ex at my grocery store two days before my friend, so naturally i thought a lot about that before my friend passed. maybe it is a coping mechanism to just think of my ex now more than think about my friend, although all i have thought about has been my friend. my mind is just going 1000000 miles an hour about everything
I don't know but I'd focus more on coming to terms with the loss of your friend? I don't understand why their death is a leverage point for evaluating whether your ex cares about you or not. It's your life and respectfully your priorities though.
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Would you apologize to you ex or try to say something?