Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Why do you feel slighted to such a large degree by cheating that justice is needed? Is it not vengeance because of jealousy?
Posted by MetatronPosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Also, In my opinion, the basic human need to "mother", nurture and protect does not necessarily have to be met by having children, there are plenty of other outlets too so we would not have children for that sole reason
agree with this...actually in some astrological theory, particularly stuff I've read on North Nodes, as it involves purpose/fulfillment in life, procreation and creation are seen as two sides of the same coin - just enhancing/expressing your own creativity in life can supplement that procreative drive...
current SO has North Node in Cancer, which apparently has the strongest desire to procreate of any placement (I've never met a woman who wants her own kid this bad), so I try to keep her creative side as tied up as I can with arts and crafts....she likes puzzles so I keep buying her really difficult ones lmao...click to expand
Posted by nevesPosted by Phantom_Dangus
He's your friend, so you know better than I, but if it were me, I don't think I would want anyone talking about it or worrying about it. I think I'd just want to deal with it on my own.
Those so called friends - that keep nagging their friend into being more like they are - are the worst. When they act like that... 😒click to expand
Posted by Erinelda
Question: If he is so great why don't YOU blow him?
Posted by neves
He might be a late bloomer. If you're truly his friend - just leave him be. 😐
When he's ready (or when it's meant to be) - he'll get there in his own terms (hopefully in a context - like the one described by UVD). For some people - physical intimacy can be a great experience - but only with the right person. Not all men are into f'king - everything they find remotely attractive. Asexual men would be the other extreme - but there's also a middle group - the demisexual (the men who are down for sex - only after they formed an emotional connection with that person).
Posted by nanobot
He might be asexual
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Be careful who you set him up with. He might fall in love with the first person he sleeps with just from all the pent-up...pent-uppedness.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by SilvuhPosted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
Hm then maybe any sort of commitment scares him.
Has he expressed to you that he actually wants to have sex?click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Silvuh
Before y'all ask, I will have chart specs by the weekend 😭
But what do we think of this? Is it pickiness? Indecision?
Generally speaking, how did this happen lmao
As (a tired) wingwoman of the year, I want to help my good pal get laid. What do the good folk of DXP suggest for a gem sun + moon man?
He's artsy, funny, a simple man. Introverted and a little out of touch emotionally but 27 years without a lay i think will do it to ya.
I read somewhere a sag would be good for a double gem man. I even read scorpio at one point in time. I def don't see him with anyone too practical.
What's the gameplan y'all lol
Millitant religious upbringing, some form of psychological abuse or chronic shyness are the only factors I can think of, with the obscure exception of being germ phobic.
In all honesty it's not for you to fight his battles.click to expand
Posted by Moonbutter
What is his Venus, Mars and mercury?