Venus and Mars Synastry

And how does it play into the dynamics of your relationship?

We have both so many Venus and Mars aspects or whatever. I don't even know what half of this stuff is...



Venus square Venus

Venus trine Neptune

Venus square Jupiter

Venus square Mars

Mars sextile Pluto

Pluto square Venus

Venus Trine Uranus

Mars Conjunction Neptune

Venus square Venus:

Your ideas and aesthetics about romantic love, relationships and domestic life are not opposite but you do approach them in a different manner, so you are likely to feel challenged by your romantic partner’s approach to these things. Relationship bonding and personal growth comes from cooperation rather than each of you asserting your own way. You are not there to win your partner over. You have a lot you can learn about love from each other, that’s why you are attracted.

Venus trine Neptune:

You have a natural attunement with your romantic partner’s feelings and ideas, creating a loving atmosphere. You are receptive to his/her moods, music, aesthetics, taste, interests. Your are attracted to your partner’s creativity and see possibilities for great harmony between you. If your romantic partner’s Venus is trine your Neptune, he/she reaches toward higher potentials of love and partnership through this romantic experience. You are deemed the inspiration for his/her creativity, releasing your partner from the bounds of the mundane world to the higher frequencies of spiritual and unconditional love.

Venus square Jupiter:

You face something about your romantic relationship that restricts your time together. There’s something about your partner’s viewpoints regarding romantic love and family that you can’t quite bring yourself to trust. If your romantic partner’s Venus is square your Saturn, he/she may have problems with intimacy. Even if your partner is normally very generous, something is cautioning him/her to slow down and find out what it is he/she really needs.

Venus square Mars:

You are attracted to your partner’s sexual passion, he/she to your gentleness, but both of you approach relationships in your own way. Passion may be expressed as friction, argumentativeness, and competition between your competing style s. If your romantic partner’s Venus is square to your Mars, he/she is put off by disharmony but fired up by your amorous attentions. You may find this works better for dates than it does for domestic situations. Whenever the sexual fireworks die down, you can find each other’s presence unfulfilling.

Read about your synastry here: https://www.livevisionz.com/synastry-aspect-by-venus.html

Mars sextile Pluto:

You will be looking for opportunities to unleash the power of your desires, to assert your power, dominance and sexuality. Expect competition. Your willingness to dare is attractive to your romantic partner, as is your intensity. If your romantic partner’s Mars is sextile your Pluto, expect a power struggle, each of you has a possessive streak and you are both ready to go to extremes of emotional experience in order to penetrate to the core essence of love and sexuality.

Pluto square Venus:



Your attraction to your romantic partner borders on a fascination with a lover who can put you in touch with your deepest primal instincts. Attraction turns to aversion and back to attraction. You could easily find yourself saying or doing things that you might not normally approve of. If your romantic partner's Pluto is square your Venus, he/she will be totally involved with you emotionally, and challenged by your approach to romance and sexuality. This is a relationship which can change your partner's attitudes toward relationships and he/she will be intrigued by the passions it ignites.

Venus trine uranus:

You have a natural attunement with your romantic partner’s feelings and ideas, creating a loving atmosphere. You are receptive to his/her moods, music, aesthetics, taste, interests. Your are attracted to your partner’s creativity and see possibilities for great harmony between you. If your romantic partner’s Venus is trine your Neptune, he/she reaches toward higher potentials of love and partnership through this romantic experience. You are deemed the inspiration for his/her creativity, releasing your partner from the bounds of the mundane world to the higher frequencies of spiritual and unconditional love.

Mars conjunction Neptune:

Sexual fantasies in which you pursue your desires and work out aggressive or creative approaches are more likely and can take the place or share space with your actual relationships. Your goals are difficult to actively pursue, because for the most part what motivates the two of you when you combine forces lies in the realm of the imagination. If your romantic partner’s Mars is in conjunction with your Neptune, you’d better get into role playing or find some way to harness all that sexual creativity.

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Pluto square Venus:



Your attraction to your romantic partner borders on a fascination with a lover who can put you in touch with your deepest primal instincts. Attraction turns to aversion and back to attraction. You could easily find yourself saying or doing things that you might not normally approve of. If your romantic partner's Pluto is square your Venus, he/she will be totally involved with you emotionally, and challenged by your approach to romance and sexuality. This is a relationship which can change your partner's attitudes toward relationships and he/she will be intrigued by the passions it ignites.

We have pluto opposition venus