@thecrazyariestaurus
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Sun and moon sign synastry
Sun and Moon Sign Synastry and Relationship Dynamics
Having sun and moon in the same sign can create strong emotional connections but does not guarantee healthy relationships. Compatibility depends on the entire chart, and similar signs may sometimes lead to conflicts or power struggles. It is important to consider other aspects and planetary influences for a complete understanding of relationship dynamics.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
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Shiiit. That's horrible ☹️
Yeah like majority of astrologers say it's ideal, but from what I've seen I don't know if it is...
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
Shiiit. That's horrible ☹️
Yeah like majority of astrologers say it's ideal, but from what I've seen I don't know if it is...
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It's a love like no other.
But it can turn bad.
My mom's sun is my dad's moon. Idk if they conjunct but their relationship can't be better! They are perfect for each other. They celebrated their 27th anniversary a couple of months ago❤️
My ex - sun sign cancer
My moon- cancer.
Emotionally/verbally abusive relationship
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
What was his moon?
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Pisces too. As well as his mercury.
Cap Venus, Taurus mars.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
What was his moon?
Pisces too. As well as his mercury.
Cap Venus, Taurus mars.
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So Pisceans are known for being narcissists now?
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.
My ex was a narcissistic sociopath who abused me while pregnant.
His pisces sun conjunct my moon. Closely.
Nuff said.
What was his moon?
Pisces too. As well as his mercury.
Cap Venus, Taurus mars.
So Pisceans are known for being narcissists now?
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That one is. Diagnosed.
His paperwork says he's batshit crazy.
that's why venus and mars synastry is more important 😛
Posted by AerialView
that's why venus and mars synastry is more important 😛Mmm yeah, Venus and Mars.
Venus and Mars are lyfe.
Venus and Mars are 42.
Venus and Mars on the daily, nightly and ever so rightly.
Who shot JR? Venus and Mars, obvi.
Abuse? Impossible. Cuz venus and Mars.
Messing with you. Well, kinda but not really.
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you don't believe it?
Wooh Interesting observation. I can add fuel to this thread. I witnessed an older couple who finally seperated after 25 years: Woman: Cancer Sun, Husband Cancer Moon. Verbal, mental and phsyical abuse all the damn time.
Wow just remembered another abusive relationship couple. Man: Aries moon and Wife Aries Sun..
Posted by dracula
Wooh Interesting observation. I can add fuel to this thread. I witnessed an older couple who finally seperated after 25 years: Woman: Cancer Sun, Husband Cancer Moon. Verbal, mental and phsyical abuse all the damn time.Wow just remembered another abusive relationship couple. Man: Aries moon and Wife Aries Sun..
oh man this does not make me feel good about my current relationship at all 😢
why is it like this?
does the other inspire violent emotions when it's a sun-moon synastry?
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im not sure why, im sure the op would know more.. But you shouldnt be all worried about this. I believe they are weird coincidences.
Posted by sierra_
@thecrazyariestaurusis the moon always the one abusive to the sun?
I've seen it go both ways. My dad was the sun and he was the abusive one. In the case of the two Aries who always had cops called on them, they abused each other. The other two it was the men who had the moon and they abused the sun
Posted by AerialView
that's why venus and mars synastry is more important 😛
Hmmm I'm gonna look at all their mars and Venus. Now I'm curious
My last relationship was alarming as well. Constant fights, disagreements and never ending breaks. Too much belittling of one and other. At the end i was done and so was she.
She was an Aqua Sun and my moon in Aqua
Posted by dracula
Wooh Interesting observation. I can add fuel to this thread. I witnessed an older couple who finally seperated after 25 years: Woman: Cancer Sun, Husband Cancer Moon. Verbal, mental and phsyical abuse all the damn time.Wow just remembered another abusive relationship couple. Man: Aries moon and Wife Aries Sun..
oh man this does not make me feel good about my current relationship at all 😢
why is it like this?
does the other inspire violent emotions when it's a sun-moon synastry?
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Don't worry. Like I said, it's just a random observation I've noticed, it's not facts. I'm sure there are other factors in their charts that are adding to it.
I know that astrologers talk about Nessus which is the abuse asteroid. They say if someone has prominent nessus in their chart they will be an abuser in some way. Like my dad was his sun conjunct Nessus which is a classic physical abuser aspect. In synastry, I my mom and dad has a Nessus conjunct sun. I forgot who was who in the synastry.
Then there's also Algol which is the unluckiest star in astrology and also has a horrible rep. The Virgo moon has algol conjunct his sun.
The others I'm not too sure about.
Posted by sierra_
@thecrazyariestaurusis the moon always the one abusive to the sun?
I've seen it go both ways. My dad was the sun and he was the abusive one. In the case of the two Aries who always had cops called on them, they abused each other. The other two it was the men who had the moon and they abused the sun
this whole thing's giving me anxiety
what is it about moon-sun synastry?
is it a bad idea?
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Don't worry too much about it! Like @teena said her parents have it and they've been married forever.
And of course everyone has free-will so you can't rely on astrology 100% of the time
Astrologers say that you need sun/moon synastry aspects for long term/marriage relationships, and they usually say sun-moon conjunctions are ideal
Posted by Capmercury87
This is not the kind of synastry you want to look for. I've been in this moon sun combo before, I ended up with a gash on the back of my head and a knee that got jumped out of place. No thank you.I do how ever find the most trust, love and forfillment in moon/venus synastry.
Those relationships (friends etc) are forever my safe people.
Holy shit I'm sorry this all happened to you 😢
Posted by Teena
My mom's sun is my dad's moon. Idk if they conjunct but their relationship can't be better! They are perfect for each other. They celebrated their 27th anniversary a couple of months ago❤️aawww 🙂
what's the sign?
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My mom is a Taurus with Gemini moon n dad is Cancer with Taurus moon 🙂
Posted by AerialView
that's why venus and mars synastry is more important 😛Hahahaah bullshit.
Moon is the most important.
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moon is for kids 😆 grow up
Posted by AerialView
that's why venus and mars synastry is more important 😛Hahahaah bullshit.
Moon is the most important.
moon is for kids 😆 grow up
Venus/mars is for amateurs
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so you are pro LMAO keep dreaming 😆
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Just a random observation I've made: I noticed that all the couples I know who have their sun and moon in the same sign (not sure if they conjunct) have all ended up being abusive relationships. Whether it's emotional or physical abuse.
My parents: dad - Gemini sun mom Gemini moon. My dad beat my mom.
Friends: one girl had an Aries sun and her bf had an Aries moon. The police was constantly called to their house for domestic violence.
Another Aries sun and moon couple. The guy beats the girl.
A Virgo sun and Virgo moon couple. Virgo moon man was emotionally abusive to the woman.
Astrologers say this is an ideal aspect in synastry, but idk how I feel about it... I mean of course there are other factors in their charts, but I just find it weird that they all had the same sun and moon signs.