What are the chances...

Ever met someone and it was the wrong time in your life...and then when the right time comes around, you hope and pray that they will reappear? What are the chances that you might meet or see that person again?

I feel like that, I met someone over a year ago when my bf at the time and I were having troubles, very early in the relationship. This guy and I were in contact for less than a week when I told him that I had a bf and we were having a few problems but trying to sort things out.

He said it was a pity because he wanted to get to know me more and if we ever meet again then I could cook him breakfast lol I laughed and said, right...if we ever meet again..you can cook for me 😉 Then I deleted his number...

What are the chances...I'd hope they would be high but doubtful..Mmmm wouldn't it be nice to turn back time.

Ands? You have a long distance bf living abroad— 😛

You need to stop hating my dear, embrace and love him LOL

Ooooh Sweethearts, all I can say is, if its meant to be it will happen. Rest assured...
You have mutual friends at all for a little friendly follow up stalking?

No he was a complete random stranger, a very nice one at that. Also didn't do FB and I only got a few minor details..

I thought I had found him tonight logging onto skype to talk to a friend, all these old contact numbers from my mobile had appeared in my contacts. That icloud is scary stuff!!! But it wasn't him :/

Yes if it was meant to be..

Yes, but what is meant to be will be, as others have said.

Keep your eyes and heart open 🙂

You've gotta be careful with that

People assume that just b/c they have the ability to have an attraction towards someone while being in a relationship that the person they're attracted to must be some supreme being

When the relationship is going bad, others on the outside that you may have probably dated had you been single seem to look much better. Not b/c they actually are, but b/c you're comparing them to something bad or something that's coming unglued

There's no logic in simply 'seeing' someone else or having a brief moment with them & determining that they are 'the one that got away' or the 'true one for you, just bad timing.'

If you wouldn't make a lifelong love decision about someone like that when you're single, it makes less sense to think with that kind of logic when you're in a relationship

Figuring out compatibility takes time. It takes effort, communication, intimacy, hanging out, etc. All the things you shouldn't be doing if you're in a relationship anyways.

Idk why people think that their partner is the only good catch left! They're not, there's plenty more, it's just that you couldn't have them all so you choose 1.

Yes I agree, maybe now the idea is romanticised in mind, however, I was just thinking it would be the perfect time to meet him now and get to know him. Probably won't happen.

What makes you say that Tiz?

We met at a club, he had no idea I was out with the girls after a brief split with the bf. I gave my number to him and he texted until I told him of my circumstances and that (we) were trying to work things out. He never texted back after that. I actually think he's a gentleman for stepping back. If he kept trying, then maybe I'd say he was a dick!