CarRiderGirl
@CarRiderGirl
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What do you guys think?
It would make me feel terrible with good reason
So, your new angle is to pretend you're talking about someone else?
The question is ridiculous, and a moron would be able to rationalize this out.
this is right in line with your ridiculous postings you've made in here about the Gemini man who wants to get away from you so bad that he does everything imaginable to hurt you ... and you cling to his shoe chewed up gum.
So why monopolize someone's time? Why can't they talk to their friend? and, what is the friend's angle in letting you know they were talking? That seems weird to me the friend would tell you that, so I'd be suspicious.
Perhaps he meant it when he said it? Maybe he did have intentions on going to bed and couldn't sleep or saw he got a message, checked it out and started talking. I wouldn't see that as a lie. I'd see it as he has a right to talk to his friends.
Maybe he was tired of talking to the girl. Maybe she was boring him. Maybe he was out of things to say. Maybe her idea of a 'bad day' is something she repeats over and over and it's always the same issue and he doesn't want to hear about it.
Anyways, I wouldn't be upset. Maybe a little hurt, because I would see it as he was bored talking to me. I would assume he has other friends and a life and he has every right to be on line talking to a friend.
I think your "friend" is reading too much into it. I don't think it's that big of a deal.
Perhaps he meant it when he said it? Maybe he did have intentions on going to bed and couldn't sleep or saw he got a message, checked it out and started talking. I wouldn't see that as a lie. I'd see it as he has a right to talk to his friends.
Maybe he was tired of talking to the girl. Maybe she was boring him. Maybe he was out of things to say. Maybe her idea of a 'bad day' is something she repeats over and over and it's always the same issue and he doesn't want to hear about it.
Anyways, I wouldn't be upset. Maybe a little hurt, because I would see it as he was bored talking to me. I would assume he has other friends and a life and he has every right to be on line talking to a friend.
I think your "friend" is reading too much into it. I don't think it's that big of a deal.
I saw your answer Dwelling.. and I liked it!
so true! 😄
why hide lolol
so true! 😄
why hide lolol
Relationships are confusing with all the online crap. I would keep it simple and send him a message asking if he's up, or just get over it.
The friend thing is kinda weird, but its not a crime to need space from a SO.
The friend thing is kinda weird, but its not a crime to need space from a SO.
This is 1 of those situations where it's best to believe your own instincts & judgment.
Why? B/c all of these people may come to this forum & implant so many possibilities in your head, that most likely will lead to you making things more complicated or worse than they really are.
He was on his way to bed & gave the proper 'goodnight/goodbye.' Had she just told him what she wanted to say instead of pretending like she was ok with him ending the night however he chooses to, he would've listened & probably engaged in convo until she finished venting or saying what she had to say.
But b/c she didn't & b/c he didn't receive the vibe that him cutting the convo short made her feel some type of way, he prepared to shut the convo down & save it for another day. As he's turning over to go to sleep, someone else contacts him...He probably gave them the floor & a little bit of time to say whatever it is they had to say...he gave them a chance to announce the reason for the call. And if the convo was interesting or if the person refused to get the hint that he may have ALSO given to them about being tired, then it makes perfect sense that the convo may have kept going.
What was he supposed to do...answer the call/text & immediately say "Welp, I'm sleepy so tell me your reason for contacting me, tomorrow?" I mean come on!
There are a million & 1 innocent and "not worth judging your partner for' reasons for why this happened. Don't let your imagination get the best of you.
It all depends on what him & the other person were talking about + How long their convo spilled over before it ended.
Why? B/c all of these people may come to this forum & implant so many possibilities in your head, that most likely will lead to you making things more complicated or worse than they really are.
He was on his way to bed & gave the proper 'goodnight/goodbye.' Had she just told him what she wanted to say instead of pretending like she was ok with him ending the night however he chooses to, he would've listened & probably engaged in convo until she finished venting or saying what she had to say.
But b/c she didn't & b/c he didn't receive the vibe that him cutting the convo short made her feel some type of way, he prepared to shut the convo down & save it for another day. As he's turning over to go to sleep, someone else contacts him...He probably gave them the floor & a little bit of time to say whatever it is they had to say...he gave them a chance to announce the reason for the call. And if the convo was interesting or if the person refused to get the hint that he may have ALSO given to them about being tired, then it makes perfect sense that the convo may have kept going.
What was he supposed to do...answer the call/text & immediately say "Welp, I'm sleepy so tell me your reason for contacting me, tomorrow?" I mean come on!
There are a million & 1 innocent and "not worth judging your partner for' reasons for why this happened. Don't let your imagination get the best of you.
It all depends on what him & the other person were talking about + How long their convo spilled over before it ended.
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