What sign is he?

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Okay guys, time to play guess the sign again. So I just met this guy at a party. We hit it off and talked all night, we both got a little tipsy and started making out, which he initiated. He also got a little frisky with me so I guess we can say he's the "aggressive" type. But not aggressive-angry, just..the kind of guy who does what he wants to do and doesn't hold back. So we went back to my place and that was that. Afterward, he told me he'd like to take me out, but I figured that was the alcohol talking and I specified that this was just going to be a one-night type of deal. So fastforward a few days, my life is continuing on like normal and then I get a knock at my door. Its the same guy. He then asked me out on a date. (Honestly, I've never had someone ask me out at my door so..this is something new. I'm not sure whether to be weirded out or impressed by the sheer amount of balls this guy has) so now I'm thinking he's a bold kind of guy who possibly doesn't take no for an answer. Also potentially sentimental seeing as he can't just have a one-night stand and leave it at that. Anyway, I wasn't even thinking about dating this guy but now he's got me curious as to what sort of person he is. What sign do you all think he is?
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Posted by Rowan
That's not much to go on but my first instinct was the same as risesafterall's. And if so, be careful not to fall in love with him before really getting to know him.



Oh believe me, I might say yes to going on a couple of dates with him but as of right now, I still have no intention on making this a long term thing. I'm definitely going in with my guards up. Mostly, I think this will just be a little fun, nothing serious 🙂. I don't really like aggressive guys as my boyfriend. I much prefer the sensitive cancer to balance out my own moody scorpio-ness. Besides that, if he really is a scorpio I've dated another scorpio before and that never ends well. Scorpio + Scorpio can be a volatile combination.
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Posted by grayid2
It takes balls to ask a girl out at your door? Really? Man your world sounds easy...are you amish?





You don't have to be rude. Its funny how people online get so snarky and sarcastic when sitting behind their computer screens. I'm saying he has balls because I made it clear to him I didn't want anything outside of a one night stand. So despite knowing this huge potential for rejection, he goes out of his way to come to my house which is a very direct setting, and ask me. That's what I find bold. If you don't agree, well *shrug* whatever.
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Why didnt you want anything more? First off...
Does he have like a huge mole on his face? Is he ugly? Why would you refuse any type of relationship wih him? He didnt think It was an absolute, after all, you DID sleep with him. If HE liked you he would see no reason not to take a shot.

Im as forward and tough irl, ex-army. I will tell you to fvk off and give you the finger If you push my buttons. Ive even punched people. You dont wanna mess with the likes of me 🙂
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Posted by grayid2
Why didnt you want anything more? First off...
Does he have like a huge mole on his face? Is he ugly? Why would you refuse any type of relationship wih him? He didnt think It was an absolute, after all, you DID sleep with him. If HE liked you he would see no reason not to take a shot.

Im as forward and tough irl, ex-army. I will tell you to fvk off and give you the finger If you push my buttons. Ive even punched people. You dont wanna mess with the likes of me 🙂



Why didn't I want anything more? I just didn't. I'm not in a place in my life right now to be in a long term relationship so naturally I didn't see the purpose in dating.

If someone is rude to you and you tell him to fvk off that's standing up for yourself and justified. But as far as I'm concerned, your rudeness towards me was completely unnecessary as I've done nothing to provoke you and you were just acting rude for no reason at all. That's not being forward and tough, that's just called being an a-hole when it's not called for. I respect people who serve their country, but I just can't understand people like you who think that justifies being a jerk at all given times.
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Posted by FixedWater
I didn't think your comment was rude gray ... I would wonder the same thing and agree that it takes some balls (or lack of self control) to go to a woman's door and ask her out. This is creepy to me.



Wait, your comment was a little contradictory. If you agree with gray, you're saying that what he did doesn't take balls. Yet in the same sentence, you agree it does take balls. I'm confused lol.

But yes, I'm with you on the creepy thing. I'm a little on the fence about it.
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It is only creepy if you didn't know him at all but a few months and then he comes to your door all of a sudden that is creepy.

I didn't even think that exists. It is different though if you do know each other and are comfortable then popping up at your door is kinda of bold and admired by people. Like he actually went out of his busy day to stop by..

His sign is probably Taurus, Aquarius, or Scorpio.
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Posted by grayid2
Gee you guys are all amish...sure you weren't ready for a relationship probably but that's not how love operates, you're really missing out if you treat your whole life like a school project.



I mean I've been in relationships where i just jumped in headfirst based on pure emotion alone without thinking of consequences and they all ended pretty badly. You live and you learn. This time, I think it really is the more sensible thing to not date, not just because i'm emotionally not ready but because I literally don't even know if I'm going to be in the same country (and I'm definitely not going to be in the same city) within the next 4 months. Sure, it's great to be spontaneously in love but at other times, it's better to take some precautions.