What's your reaction?

You spent X amount of years with them and then it ended, abruptly, but when thinking back there were signs...things weren't all as you had thought. You go through all the motions of a lost love and learn to deal with it and move on. It has been tortuous especially in the first few months...

6 months to a year they come back! Totally unexpected but then not os because deep down, you knew they would.

What do you do? What is your reaction and what is your sign or what do you think makes you react that way?

Give a BRIEF history of your story, their departure and your reaction when they come back. Also how long they have now been gone.

this all for fun as I see a lot around here of the "come back king/queen" in all signs

not really for fun on my part...

Had a 5 years relationship with a Cap been engage for a year planned everything together in the future including wedding and kids.
At the start both our families are against the relationship (i.e Romeo and Juliet fuck!) but we manage to weathered everything together until the relationship was finally accepted by both parties etc...
He asked for a break in the relationship, after 2 mos I found out he is with another woman and he told me that he finally moved on.
I wanted to die at that moment but I didn't asked him to stay. I cried everyday even at work then one day I cried for 24hours non-stop, no food intake and no sleep then I stopped cos I finally accepted in the deepest part of my soul that I can finally let him go. I started to pick up the broken pieces of myself, slowly with a lot of help from my friends etc... I was able to bounce back.
I've dated another guy (cap too) and when he learned about it he suddenly showed up telling me that he still loved me like before and I shouldnt be going out with that guy.
I cried when he told me that but, the guy that I'm currently seeing is a good man and I don't wanna hurt him.
I didn't take him back, it's close to 2 years now that he's gone.
I'm a Virgo and i think someone who caused me so much pain does not desereve a space in my life.

Posted by starlover
(((((virgosagscorp))))) HIS loss!!

Agree, thank you for the affirmation 🙂

Good for you...I know it's extremely painful but with most of us there is a point of no return...beautiful thing is when they come back after we realise this...glad you could move on without too much indecision...Go Virgo's 🙂

Posted by sweethearts
Good for you...I know it's extremely painful but with most of us there is a point of no return...beautiful thing is when they come back after we realise this...glad you could move on without too much indecision...Go Virgo's 🙂

I didn't regret my decision up to now. 🙂

You're right, he has no space in your life.

I'm not surprised he did what he did though. Some Cap guys are total users.

Tell him to fuck off. He had his chance and blew it. If you take him back again, he may very well likely pull the same shit down the road.

Not worth the time, tbh.

Posted by sweethearts
Good for you...I know it's extremely painful but with most of us there is a point of no return...beautiful thing is when they come back after we realise this...glad you could move on without too much indecision...Go Virgo's 🙂

+ 1
Agree.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're right, he has no space in your life.

I'm not surprised he did what he did though. Some Cap guys are total users.

Tell him to fuck off. He had his chance and blew it. If you take him back again, he may very well likely pull the same shit down the road.

Not worth the time, tbh.

Yes, SOME cap not all...
A monkey may wear a tuxedo but underneath the tuxedo is still a monkey.

I was hoping that people would come and share how they would react "IF" there ex came back months or years later...not real life but after you had gotten over that person and then imagining they came back into your life...and what you would say and how you would treat them...that's what I meant by fun or fantasy...

It's the situation that I guess we all hope for one day...

Yes, but that's because you had moved on...

we go through break ups and it takes us some months to process everything...some of us thinking about what if they came back? And at what point? It's just fantasy, not reality that I'm thinking of to help get over the SO...something that may only ever be in your head but helps to progress.

id tell em to fuck off...simple

if someone vanishes from my life which I already had happen I would take it hard , thats abandonement and i wont forgive that

Posted by sweethearts
I was hoping that people would come and share how they would react "IF" there ex came back months or years later...not real life but after you had gotten over that person and then imagining they came back into your life...and what you would say and how you would treat them...that's what I meant by fun or fantasy...

It's the situation that I guess we all hope for one day...

Yes, I have thought about a past love before.

One of the love of my lifes, to whom I still love dearly ... I think about him sometimes. Not in the same way, of course, but, in a mild nostalgic sort of way.

He was a Libra, and we loved each other very much, had an amazing relationship. We parted on very good terms ... and it's probably natural for two people who didn't break up bitterly, to still have fond memories of each other.

Watch out P....those Libra's always come back 😛