As a man

How do you like to receive love? Apart from the obvious of course we (us woman) all know SEX is the number one way you want love expressed to you...but how else? What makes you think your woman loves you when she does ....

I ask this because as a woman I have always expressed it in more of a nurturing way, I cook wonderful meals and clean and attend to your personal needs...don't know why I do this, maybe it is a learned thing but when I put on a delicious spread it's the way I show you I love you...but it's recently dawned on me that I do that for my children and friends too, so I haven't really been expressing to you as an individual that it's because you are my world..

Great question!!! I can't wait for the guys answers 🙂

I am like you I like to take care of my man but I also make sure I am always touching him, if he is driving I hold his hand and massage it, when we are watching tv relaxing on the couch I pull him over put his head on my chest and massage his head, shoulders, back, when we are both doing our thing around the house I stop by grab his face kiss him say I love you and then I just walk away, I pay attention to what he says he wants or needs and surprise him with little details...

Could you take your BS to PM...thanks 😛

I think we are "off track" a little... What I was getting at are what are the ways in which you (men) feel that your woman shows that she loves you?

With me, he will bring me a macaroon with my coffee because he knows that I have never tried one before or that I love them. He touches me or kisses me out of the blue. He comes home with a bottle of wine when he's gone to the bottle store for himself. He shows that he has either listened to me or watched me and worked out the things I like. Doesn't have to be major or expensive or cost anything.

I don't think men should hide it. I think it needs to be translated. Tiz's comments helped me understand the emphasis on sex better. But you're right, sometimes we need a macaroon before sex 🙂

No need to go lesbian

I hadn't realized the man didn't want the macaroons.

Posted by cowpuncher

Posted by CapriLady
I hadn't realized the man didn't want the macaroons.

Macaroons don't say 'love'.

The thought and work put into getting or making the macaroons says 'love' 🙂

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Because I felt that...

I can only speak for myself.

While there are many ways to show me that you love me, there are a few things that I pay the most attention to. First and foremost, I look for her to put "US" first. Put aside her ego. Consider my feelings and my heart and don't take me for granted.If I ask you something, recognize that I'm not trying to attack you or accuse you of something. I'm trying to understand. We're not going to always be on the same page. So don't lie but also, give the complete truth. Realize, that I'm not going to always be a "man." I have a considerable amount of water in my chart and at times I will be vulnerable. I keep my emotions in check but not always.That is when I need you the most and I'll never take them out on you.

Ask nothing more than what I'm already giving. How can she show me she loves me? The best way? By accepting me and letting me be who I am and trusting me.

That is beautiful. Thank you for sharing that insight.

Posted by CapriLady
That is beautiful. Thank you for sharing that insight.

You're welcome 🙂