Cali_guy323
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Posted by truecapWhen we started carpooling, I told her outright that I will give her anything she needs to make this whole thing easier for her whether it was gas money, Starbucks or even lunch everyday. After the incident happened, she tried to make a mountain out of a mole hill while I was contesting it was all an isolated incident. She wasn't buying it, so out of frustration I told her "try not to miss me too much when no one looks out for you". She told me a few days later that I "jinxed her life" by the aforementioned comment ^
She deserved being chewed out for making you late to school. I don't think you did anything wrong, there.
I suppose it depends on exactly what you said and how you went about it, though.
Posted by busyeyes88Hahaha that seems like the plausible explanation at the same time. However, I would like to know why she would tell me I still cross her mind, and show interest in seeing me perform live one day just to say she's gonna block my number days later lol
You did nothing wrong. Just block her and continue loving and living your life - DRAMA free!!! Lol
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Back in January, I met this girl in my college English class, and we started out as great friends (or so I thought) but she's an Aries female and I am a Cancer male so I thought nothing would come of this friendship.
A few, weeks into our friendship, we found out that we live relatively close to each other(3 miles away to be exact) so we decided to carpool to school and we spent even more time together. Unfortunately, one morning she was late picking me up and I chewed her out for being late.(She was late because she partied too hard the night before)
I absolutely HATE being late for anything, but I tried to keep a level head and accept that what happened was just a bad day and move on; however, she wasn't having that. A few days later she began to lash out at me: She would take pictures of herself kissing other guys and tag me in them on Facebook out of spite. I didn't think too much of it because I knew I hurt Aries' feeling when I chewed her out a few days prior.
A few weeks had past and I tried to distance myself from her as much as I could, granted it was extremely difficult because I would see her all the time during class. Also, I found out that she had been kicked out of her home shortly after our argument so I couldn't help but feel guilty. Unfortunately, she dropped out of our English class and moved 100 miles out of town.
I thought that closed the book on our relationship but I was wrong. In the months following our breakup, I couldn't help but feel emotionally conflicted over our relationship; I racked my brain over and over again trying to figure out where I went wrong - how I could have handled the situation differently.
Admittedly, racking my brain over this relationship was emotionally-draining, so I blocked it out and focused on myself. This summer I started playing different venues across California with my band, meeting different faces in different places was wonderful. I even began researching my very first car purchase. Needless to say, life was looking up for me. I apologized to her and she said she accepted it and moved on and she wanted to come see me perform. A few days later she tells me its best if we don't talk anymore and she was going to block me and I'm so confused. Where did I go wrong?!!