How would you personally prepare yourself?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by cutedecemberangel on Wednesday, August 19, 2015 and has 11 replies.

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@cutedecemberangel
11 Years

How would you personally prepare yourself for a major heartbreak before breaking up with someone who is cheating.

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@cutedecemberangel
11 Years

I am only gulping away my emotions at the moment but I know that wont help for long. Ignoring these emotions wont help i know. So how would you face it on a daily basis?

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@cutedecemberangel
11 Years

I must add, good idea 🙂 but I can't go hiking on a daily basis and not when I dont have any choice but see him somewhere.

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@KaptainKhaos
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Talk about it with a friend and isolate myself in a space that allows me emotional and spiritual freedom. I need to be some where that allows me to mourn the relationship in a positive way. For me it's in my room under warm blankets. Also, reminding yourself that you deserve better always helps. People that cheat are morally bankrupt spirit-killers that don't care how selfish and hurtful their actions are. You deserve better than that. Surround yourself with people, things, and music that remind you of that.

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by cutedecemberangel
How would you personally prepare yourself for a major heartbreak before breaking up with someone who is cheating.

Let's see, first I'd ask myself, how did he "prepare" himself before he slid his penis into her vagina while intentionally breaking my heart?

hmm, tough one. (not)

Then I'd pretend he was dead, never to interact, look at or acknowledge like he was dead and no longer existent.

No energy...and so simple.

My advice..keep the drama out and remember, he didn't give a rats ass about breaking your heart. Move on.

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by cutedecemberangel
I must add, good idea 🙂 but I can't go hiking on a daily basis and not when I dont have any choice but see him somewhere.

That's a choice ^^^^. Unless your head is being forced to look at him and acknowledge him.
We all know better.

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@LadyYin
11 Years500+ Posts

major heartbreak? sorry. does not comprehend. i dont give my heart right off bat. so if someone is caught cheating, im detached and kick them to the curb. i move on easily without the emotional baggage.

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