why are women so dramatic with love?

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My ex scorpio. still calls emails flirts and one day we try to sit and chat. she has a bracelet on I've never seen so I take her hand and flip it around in my other hand. she says "oh, my um.. the guy I'm with gave it to me, its from his mom and she told him to give it to the woman he wants to marry." so I place her hand on the table. then she explains "well, i took it because its nice and I don't have a gold bracelet."

So I try to hide my feelings and say.. "so you plan on marrying him?"

she makes a weird I don't know face then replies, "I feel like I've known him all my life."

I laugh and say yeah. He's known you about 10 years and you are 30... in between that she and I had been together for 3 years and thought about getting married and having kids.... so I'm just disgusted by her about face on this guy she used to laugh and about how ridiculous he was. plus he's 43 with 3 kids by two women and basically a clown.

He's not an attractive guy, not going anywhere, he's done. past his prime but he took advantage of the fact she was hurt when I left for 18 months and moved in on her. that excess LEO I love you and no one else and you are my world(even though you been married twice before dating her).

she's fallen for it, plus made a choice and she's reached out to me numerous time since that convo and I'm cold and now the last two weeks we've not communicated at all.

She's fallen in love due to circumstances like I told her, she was lonely/heartbroken when I was gone, he's not for her. but nothing I will say will change it so I'm disappearing.
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@bittercupcake

I realize seeing her we still have a definite sexual connection (the extra long hug when she saw me, sitting very close together, rubbing my muscles and looking down my shirt, smelling my cologne and saying mmm I know who gave that to you.), friendship, I don't know about the romantic connection. all she kept talking about was how good I looked, so I lowered my guard and started chatting and then I saw the ugly ass bracelet...

she told me the little story about the LEO guy's mom telling him give it to the woman he plans on marrying...and she's wearing it and she feels like he's known her all her life... it was like a punch in the gut. I still love her, but I'm not going to keep reaching out, waiting hours for her to respond (when he's not around) and meeting up like I did the last 3 months discussing the fun we had together thinking we are reconciling and ACTUALLY being the desperate ex trying to interfere.

She made it clear she isn't breaking up with him for me because their relationship is going fine and she's having fun. When she told me he said she was the love of his life, I almost walked out on her. dudes been married twice and produced 3 kids, is almost old enough to be her dad, but you are the love of his life? its dramatic and delusional. but scorpios love that bull crap, even if the data don't support it.

what he do? take the bracelet back from the other two before giving it to her?

her opinion is we have way too much in common to stop being at least friends for now and she trusts me and wants me in her life.

It's Selfish, disrespectful and disregards me. so I cut it off.









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My ex scorpio. still calls emails flirts and one day we try to sit and chat. she has a bracelet on I've never seen so I take her hand and flip it around in my other hand. she says "oh, my um.. the guy I'm with gave it to me, its from his mom and she told him to give it to the woman he wants to marry." so I place her hand on the table. then she explains "well, i took it because its nice and I don't have a gold bracelet."

So I try to hide my feelings and say.. "so you plan on marrying him?"

she makes a weird I don't know face then replies, "I feel like I've known him all my life."

I laugh and say yeah. He's known you about 10 years and you are 30... in between that she and I had been together for 3 years and thought about getting married and having kids.... so I'm just disgusted by her about face on this guy she used to laugh and about how ridiculous he was. plus he's 43 with 3 kids by two women and basically a clown.

He's not an attractive guy, not going anywhere, he's done. past his prime but he took advantage of the fact she was hurt when I left for 18 months and moved in on her. that excess LEO I love you and no one else and you are my world(even though you been married twice before dating her).

she's fallen for it, plus made a choice and she's reached out to me numerous time since that convo and I'm cold and now the last two weeks we've not communicated at all.

She's fallen in love due to circumstances like I told her, she was lonely/heartbroken when I was gone, he's not for her. but nothing I will say will change it so I'm disappearing.


I think it's sad you can't be happy for her.
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@LittleFairy

It's not bitter. IF you feel its bitter is because you don't see the bull crap.

If she is in love with this other guy... she wouldn't be texting me, sending me pictures (in lingerie), asking me favors, coming over my house - just to use my bathroom, telling me how much she miss things we've done both sexually and non-sexually and saying we can meet up for coffee/lunch anytime I want.

then telling me this bracelet/ love story, living with the guy and maintaining a relationship with him....while claiming I'm one of her besties.