Why can i only have one girlfriend?

why can't i have multiple girlfriends?

you can! have more than one according to @Mr. Defense

lickin ain't stickin and eatin ain't cheatin

My bf gets a new gf 1-2 nights a month ?

Or should I say extra gf

Posted by tiziani

Posted by CalmCrab22
My bf gets a new gf 1-2 nights a month ?

Or should I say extra gf

Multiple personality or polyamory?

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Funny tonight huh lol I try to keep my personality changes to a minimum but he's met all those

Polyamory thank you for clarifying

Posted by TheLibraMudra

Posted by CalmCrab22
My bf gets a new gf 1-2 nights a month ?

Or should I say extra gf

I admire this about you.

I fantasize about this. But I will cut a bitch.

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It takes a very special relationship. Never would have happened with me & my X.

True story. Since me & X would also fantasize about adding sex partners we would talk about it while we had sex & we'd get so mad we knew there was lo way we could endanger someone in real life.

I'm much more secure in my current relationship but if there was an female I didn't know about & wasn't a team thing bet I would be on Fox News.

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Posted by Scrumptious
why can't i have multiple girlfriends?

You can

They just can't find out about each other

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What's your sun?

Posted by andstrollbot

Posted by CalmCrab22

Posted by andstrollbot

Posted by Scrumptious
why can't i have multiple girlfriends?

You can

They just can't find out about each other

What's your sun?

Taurus

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Dang! Surprise to me! Alrighty then

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by CalmCrab22

Posted by TheLibraMudra

Posted by CalmCrab22
My bf gets a new gf 1-2 nights a month ?

Or should I say extra gf

I admire this about you.

I fantasize about this. But I will cut a bitch.

It takes a very special relationship. Never would have happened with me & my X.

True story. Since me & X would also fantasize about adding sex partners we would talk about it while we had sex & we'd get so mad we knew there was lo way we could endanger someone in real life.

I'm much more secure in my current relationship but if there was an female I didn't know about & wasn't a team thing bet I would be on Fox News.

I think I misunderstood because it sounded like your bf gets to be with a gal.

I think you meant you are in a polyamorous relationship.

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Full story. Him & I like to have threesomes. And we enjoy all aspects of it. And yes I fully enjoy it & feel secure.

I've always wanted a relationship where I could have this option & I'm pretty sure most men do. So we're pretty happy & our relationship is not based on sex at all. We have a great deep love for one another & most of our convo & life does not involve sex.

However he doesn't sleep with women without me. I have a much higher sex drive than him but if I did find another woman around & I didn't bring her, it is not acceptable. He is very well aware of that. I also don't just being females home. He's a super cuddler & if he just wants to cuddle I'm not going to try to push more on him.

Sah weird.

Posted by Geminariescharmer
I will give you a few options



You can have an open relationship(polyamory) = many girlfriends(assuming they all are into many multiples boyfriends lol)

You can date a few girls but never make any official

or you can be like me, have a primary relationship with one girl you love(give her your mind body and soul and everything), while you secretly continue to date others girls for sex just make sure you dont get caught lol

How can you give your mind, body and soul to someone and still have sex with others? I don't think you've actually given your soul to her. Just my 2 cents for what it's worth.

just date a Gem. Voilà, 2+ people in one.