Is the day of the week matters in dating?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Virgiene on Saturday, August 13, 2016 and has 9 replies.

Does the Day of the Week Affect Dating Success

The day of the week can influence dating experiences, with weekends often offering more relaxed and social atmospheres, while weekdays may be busier and less spontaneous. Choosing a day depends on personal schedules and what kind of connection you seek. There is no definitive rule, but understanding social patterns can improve your dating outcomes.

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Just asking...

What is the difference going on a date on a friday night and going on a wednesday night? Is dating on a weekdays is different on a weekends?

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Maybe the atmosphere. You'll see less people out on a Wednesday night or even during the day, because most people are at work or college. I think restaurants do specials on Fridays and weekends too. It really depends on where the date takes place

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Posted by Virgiene
Just asking...

What is the difference going on a date on a friday night and going on a wednesday night? Is dating on a weekdays is different on a weekends?

If a guy is booking dates with you on Friday and Saturday nights you are most likely the front runner. If he only takes you out on a week night your probably second string to the other women he's seeing. Or he's married/engaged/or already in a relationship and tells his wife he's going out for drinks with office mates and then picks you up on Tuesday night.

Of course this is assuming he works your standard Monday through Friday. Obviously if he works weekends this 'rule' doesn't apply.

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Posted by Virgiene
Just asking...

What is the difference going on a date on a friday night and going on a wednesday night? Is dating on a weekdays is different on a weekends?

If a guy is booking dates with you on Friday and Saturday nights you are most likely the front runner. If he only takes you out on a week night your probably second string to the other women he's seeing. Or he's married/engaged/or already in a relationship and tells his wife he's going out for drinks with office mates and then picks you up on Tuesday night.

Of course this is assuming he works your standard Monday through Friday. Obviously if he works weekends this 'rule' doesn't apply.

This is some low class backwards thinking. But I'll play along just to disprove your theory.

The weekend is when most people hang out with friends. So if a guy only wants to hang out with you on the weekends he can easily tell his wife or girlfriend he's going out with friends.

How many committed guys hang out during the week? Not many, they are at home with their girlfriends. What kind of excuse could he give her?

A person can go out any day of the week. If a man wants to take me out on Wednesday and I'm not busy, I don't have insecurities that would stop me from going.

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No one is stopping you from going out on a Wednesday. This is my opinion based on my experiences.

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Posted by Virgiene
Just asking...

What is the difference going on a date on a friday night and going on a wednesday night? Is dating on a weekdays is different on a weekends?

If a guy is booking dates with you on Friday and Saturday nights you are most likely the front runner. If he only takes you out on a week night your probably second string to the other women he's seeing. Or he's married/engaged/or already in a relationship and tells his wife he's going out for drinks with office mates and then picks you up on Tuesday night.

Of course this is assuming he works your standard Monday through Friday. Obviously if he works weekends this 'rule' doesn't apply.

This is some low class backwards thinking. But I'll play along just to disprove your theory.

The weekend is when most people hang out with friends. So if a guy only wants to hang out with you on the weekends he can easily tell his wife or girlfriend he's going out with friends.

How many committed guys hang out during the week? Not many, they are at home with their girlfriends. What kind of excuse could he give her?

A person can go out any day of the week. If a man wants to take me out on Wednesday and I'm not busy, I don't have insecurities that would stop me from going.

No one is stopping you from going out on a Wednesday. This is my opinion based on my experiences.

Yeah I figured it was based on experience. But it's so off. If a man wants to take you out he wants to take you out whenever.

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Absolutely. However my point remains that if you never see the guy on the weekend, assuming he has weekends off, that would indicate that your not the only romantic interest in his life.

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Posted by AriesLove

Ok thanks for clarifying that if you get a Friday or Saturday date you are the front runner. But a Tues or Wed date you are the second runner. I know as a woman you must feel special you get the end of the week d1ck behind all the rest.

What's up with making this personal? You don't know shit about how I feel at any given time.

Hopefully you get to see the guy throughout the week. But after dating someone for months and only seeing them during their work week and never their weekend, well other woman or not you are obviously not a priority in that situation. It's not a Friday vs. Tuesday conflict, but rather the lack of Friday dates completely that is a red flag.

Are you being purposefully dense because I called you out on slut shaming? Cause you follow me over to this thread and are all up on my nuts. I can only conclude I must have hurt your feels.

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Any day of the week is ok. Whatever fits both of your schedules then just take it from there. If there is a certain day or days he won't see you then make plans for that day or those days & just take it from there. If you never see him on weekend days then I would consider that a red flag.

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Ok thanks for clarifying that if you get a Friday or Saturday date you are the front runner. But a Tues or Wed date you are the second runner. I know as a woman you must feel special you get the end of the week d1ck behind all the rest.

What's up with making this personal? You don't know shit about how I feel at any given time.

Hopefully you are get to see the guy throughout your week. But after dating someone for months and only seeing them during their work week and never their weekend, well other woman or not you are obviously not a priority in that situation. It's not a Friday vs. Tuesday conflict, but rather the lack of Friday dates completely that is a red flag.

Are you being purposefully dense because I called you out on slut shaming? Cause you follow me over to this thread and are all up on my nuts. I can only conclude I must have hurt your feels.

No you could never hurt my feels you would have to actually be somebody I look up to not down on.

Your theory is going off on some other side chick definition when the question was far from that.

I stated it doesn't matter what day. I haven't even seen the word "never" on this thread until you showed up with that classless mentality.

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I don't know what you stated on this thread. I read and responded to the Op solely.

You took offense to my opinion and made this something personal. That is the definition of classless mentality.