Why did you cheat on me so many times

I saw this video and found it very interesting.
The closure, honesty and vulnerability is incredibly brave.

because you let me. i saw 'doormat' on your head, so i took advantage of it. my bad. are we cool, though?

loooooooooooooool!

Hes such a liar. I feel bad for her even being in a relationship with a dude like that. Ew. At least she got closure.

Hes completely unmoved by the fact that he deeply hurt her

I don't think these kinds of conversations between two people who've broken up years ago are important.

She even said herself that she never thought about getting back together with him, and he thinks it would be aweful to hook up again .... so how does this conversation help in any way?

What is it suppose to help?

But, mainly, I don't think it represents most relationships, at years in post breakup.

Posted by P-Angel

I don't think these kinds of conversations between two people who've broken up years ago are important.

She even said herself that she never thought about getting back together with him, and he thinks it would be aweful to hook up again .... so how does this conversation help in any way?

What is it suppose to help?

But, mainly, I don't think it represents most relationships, at years in post breakup.

I think the look on her face when he took the blame for the end of the relationship when she thought it was because of her kissing some guy shows how she might have thought it was her fault.
The hardest part about ending any kind of relationship is there is some imbalance. If someone is not introspective enough, they would always say it's someone else's fault. If they were not strong enough, they blame themselves totally. With enough time and distance, you see things differently. Maybe not accurately but it might help the person see a common thread in their behavior that may be the reason why situation after situation keeps happening.

I also thought the possibility existed that she was lying ... but, that's not my point. My point was, to have this serious of a conversation with each other when there's no intentions of further nurturing of each other only sets you up for more emotional injuries.

To tell him "no" she's never though about it probably crushed him, even if he doesn't want another go or not. Just the fact that you aren't missed, you aren't though about .... is a very hard blow to take. And that's what she did.

If she was lying, and she really does think about it, then look at what this personal and intimate discussion with him probably did to her feelings.

No, I don't think a discussion like this is beneficial to either party.




And, she should think about guilt if she kissed another guy regardless if that's the reason for the break up, or not. So, that's not really any valuable help either.


I just don't see how this helps them after two years if there's no intention of trying to rekindle the flame.

i agree this serious of conversation post breakup can set one up for more emotional injuries


it has been bugging me for years that i owe my ex an apology. he thought he was to blame and i allowed him to think that so he would resist less to end. i should to to hell if i re open a can of emotional worms just to release my feeling of guilt.

Posted by iCloud9
i agree this serious of conversation post breakup can set one up for more emotional injuries


it has been bugging me for years that i owe my ex an apology. he thought he was to blame and i allowed him to think that so he would resist less to end. i should to to hell if i re open a can of emotional worms just to release my feeling of guilt.

I do agree that in some instances, it is NOT a good idea to reveal the EXACT nature

of ones wrongs, and to do so would be selfish-- but idk that it applies here.


Maybe there's more info but gaaah... you meanie. 😈

A person doesn't even have to watch the video to realize that this conversation shouldn't take place ......


clearly, she's weepy eyed, and to sit there and cry is turn off for men, they would rather take a pass on a female who is going to cry all the time.

And certainly, she cries all the time, since it's been two fucking years. If she can't address her problems, or address having closure on her life issues without crying ... then she has no business participating in what is suppose to be a rational conversation.

If I were this guy .. the moment her eyes teared over .. I'd get up and walk away to never return to this conversation.