Posted by starlord
Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.
Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.
Posted by virgoop
i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlord
Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.
Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.
No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.click to expand
Posted by starlordPosted by virgoop
i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other
Ha ha I know it seems like I do a lot of hooking up, but reality is, I have only hooked up with one guy in the last 3 years. Maybe kissed 1 or 2 others on a night out, but that's it. ππππclick to expand
Posted by virgoopPosted by starlordPosted by virgoop
i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other
Ha ha I know it seems like I do a lot of hooking up, but reality is, I have only hooked up with one guy in the last 3 years. Maybe kissed 1 or 2 others on a night out, but that's it. ππππ
did you waste 3 years with a Capricorn? π’click to expand
Posted by starlordI'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlord
Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.
Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.
No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.
No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?click to expand
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlordI'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlord
Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.
Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.
No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.
No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?click to expand
Posted by starlordOkay now thats treetrunking weird. You initiate the kiss and then say "you're like my brother or my sister," then they deserve a hard crotch kick. I don't like liars. But if you kissed them and they were confused like..."what are you doing you're like my sister?" That response is understandable.Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlordI'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by starlord
Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.
Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.
No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.
No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?
No they say it after. After kissing or whatever.click to expand