Would you hook up with someone, you see as brother/Sister?

Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other

hell to effin no. That's weird to me and once a friend or fam as I call them, you stay that. don't cross that border.

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Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.

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i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other

Ha ha I know it seems like I do a lot of hooking up, but reality is, I have only hooked up with one guy in the last 3 years. Maybe kissed 1 or 2 others on a night out, but that's it. 😂😂😂😂

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Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.

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No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?

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Posted by virgoop
i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other

Ha ha I know it seems like I do a lot of hooking up, but reality is, I have only hooked up with one guy in the last 3 years. Maybe kissed 1 or 2 others on a night out, but that's it. 😂😂😂😂

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did you waste 3 years with a Capricorn? 😢

EW

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i feel like we should be friends with all the hookup (or potential hookups) nightmares we can tell each other

Ha ha I know it seems like I do a lot of hooking up, but reality is, I have only hooked up with one guy in the last 3 years. Maybe kissed 1 or 2 others on a night out, but that's it. 😂😂😂😂

did you waste 3 years with a Capricorn? 😢

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😂😂😂 Noooooo no no. I just had a looooong time where I didn't get with anyone.
I am the best at pleasing myself, so not much reason to go out and let some stranger in. Plus I am shy and not that approachable. And I don't flirt.

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Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.

No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?

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I'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.

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Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.

No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?

I'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.

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No they say it after. After kissing or whatever.

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Have you ever kissed anyone and after said, you see them as a brother or sister? Directly to them. Not talking about them to a third party.

Big gossip situation in my life atm, and everybody's trying to figure out, who the hell to trust.

No I haven't. But if they aren't your real brother or sister, or a step sibling, then I don't see the ethical dilemma.

No ethical dilemma. More the manipulative part I guess. Maybe you would say it, because you want the person to know, it didn't mean anything, maybe because you don't want them to think, it meant anything to you?

I'm confused. So you're saying the person is like oh you're like my brother or oh you're like my sister to manipulate the situation to get close to the other person, and then made their move on that person? Yeah I can see how that would upset someone and make them feel manipulated. However, if the person was sincere, and then feelings grew overtime or they developed an unexpected crush, I don't think that's quite as creepy. You can't really control attraction, but you can control what you do with it. If you are telling the person one day "I love you bro," then the next day trying to kiss him and feel him up, that's just weird.

No they say it after. After kissing or whatever.

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Okay now thats treetrunking weird. You initiate the kiss and then say "you're like my brother or my sister," then they deserve a hard crotch kick. I don't like liars. But if you kissed them and they were confused like..."what are you doing you're like my sister?" That response is understandable.

It’s a cop out
They don’t want to say that they’re really just flakes 🤷🏼‍♀️

I BRIEFLY dated a childhood friend back in the day ..thankfully we never slept together, but we came close... this fool had the nerve to tell me it was just “kind of weird” because we grew up together and were like brother and sister (we weren’t)

He spent much of his childhood and adolescence pursuing me...yet it weirded him out that “we were like brother and sister” treetrunk out of here 😒

I have a theory though

I was laughing about little dicks in front of him and he was getting all defensive

Some things are better left unknown

Hell-to-the-NO! LMAO 😂