Young guys...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by sweethearts on Thursday, September 10, 2009 and has 90 replies.

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@sweethearts
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OK soooo why are all the young girls here finding it hard to find someone that wants to commit— Lately I'm getting alot of guys wanting to and wanting the full on family thing and I'm like way too old for that!!! maybe.... dare I say you should raise the bar!

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@lildol
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Scratch the family thing, I just want someone who I can get along with, share things with and have an fulfilling intimate relationship with. I'm not looking for anything serious until I find the right guy. Of course, there is one who makes my heart flutter (I know, no one can tell).

Sweets, it seems to be the guys that I'm not interested in that are sooo into me. It must be the perception that I'm playing hard to get. Maybe if you play into these guys who want the whole family thing they'll leave ya alone!

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Well, my two cents on this. I am a 38 year old recently single woman with no kids, no baggage, career driven and I am also a fitness competitor so I am in good physical condition and take care of myself. Consequently, I look much younger than I really am and when I go out I am constantly approached by young guys (I mean REALLY young... like 22 yrs old)! NOT ONE SINGLE MAN in my age category will even approach me! It drives me freakin nuts! Maybe it has to do with the community in which I live because my is pretty much a party town. Lots of tourism and college kids come and go.

I know, some of you are saying... WOW what a problem to have... but seriously, I DONT WANT A YOUNG GUY! I have absolutely nothing in common with them. Every male single friend in my age group is dating a 23 year old woman!!! And all of these 22 year old guys that approach me talk about wanting a commitment with a mature female, but since I find them to be immature, I NEVER pursue anything with them. Just doesnt feel right... EW!

So, unless they are just pulling my leg and intrigued by the whole Ms. Robinson scenario.... or maybe as lildol put it... Im not interested so that makes me look hard to get further peaking their interest.... I dont see where the commitment thing is a problem for the young generation these days either. But who knows.... men will lie to get some kitty so maybe they are all just liars!! LOL!!!

Im gonna start wearing a badge that says "I ID UNDER 30!"

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Shaks
^have you ever considered that us college students are also suffering under this whole economical mess and therefore seek "unconventional" ways of getting some money? 😛 like..a sugar momma 😛 ? no..Im sure since youre a Leo (and all the implications that it brings) something like that could have never crossed your mind 🙂

Well, if they want a sugar momma... they are barking up the wrong tree here.... so they are crap out of luck. But contrary to what you may think about the stereotypical Leo, I am a Virgo cusp and have lots of Virgo tendacies so I tend to analize the crap out of every situation... so to answer your question, yes of course it has crossed my mind. I might be a lion but I'm not stupid!

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Im gonna start wearing a badge that says "I ID UNDER 30!"

Love it!! Hilarious Leo Lady...
I think it has to do a lot with the community and place you live in. I live in a city where everyone is usually married and starting a family around 25 or so. I think I heard that like 75% of people marriage age are already married where I live. There's no room here for singles.
My sis lives in Portland OR and they have a growing community of professional singles in their 30's. It's much easier to find someone there your own age who also happens to be single. People out there are waiting until their mid to late 30's before even contemplating having a family. It's kind of refreshing to me.

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by Shaks
^have you ever considered that us college students are also suffering under this whole economical mess and therefore seek "unconventional" ways of getting some money? 😛 like..a sugar momma 😛 ? no..Im sure since youre a Leo (and all the implications that it brings) something like that could have never crossed your mind 🙂

Well, if they want a sugar momma... they are barking up the wrong tree here.... so they are crap out of luck. But contrary to what you may think about the stereotypical Leo, I am a Virgo cusp and have lots of Virgo tendacies so I tend to analize the crap out of every situation... so to answer your question, yes of course it has crossed my mind. I might be a lion but I'm not stupid!

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Yeah, a lion... not a cougar LOL

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by ramfishtwins
Im gonna start wearing a badge that says "I ID UNDER 30!"

Love it!! Hilarious Leo Lady...
I think it has to do a lot with the community and place you live in. I live in a city where everyone is usually married and starting a family around 25 or so. I think I heard that like 75% of people marriage age are already married where I live. There's no room here for singles.
My sis lives in Portland OR and they have a growing community of professional singles in their 30's. It's much easier to find someone there your own age who also happens to be single. People out there are waiting until their mid to late 30's before even contemplating having a family. It's kind of refreshing to me.

Yes, agreed... definitely has to do with my demographics. The single gene pool around here is unfortunate! You either know someone who is fucking them, has fucked them, or was fucked by them.... or they are just passing through looking for a good time or TOO young. It's also a small town so everyone is always up in your business... or at least they think they THINK they know your business. I have a saying around here "The only good thing about living in a small town is if you dont remember what you did last night, someone else does!" LOL!!!

Maybe I should relocate!

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by FLeo Lives On



Well, because Leos are so lively we do tend to look about 10 years younger, which gives you the look of a 28 year old, and because 18 is the new 28 just like 30 is the new 40, these guys could be reading you as someone who is well under 30 and, because of their confidence level, they're up for handing a woman in her mid to late 20's!! 🙂
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LMOA!!! Sweet.... Im 18 again!! Oh HELL NO!!!

But, yes the younger guys do seem to be way more confident when it comes to approaching older women. Maybe its just that men of the same age are looking for something to boost their confidence, which would be explain the attention they receive from a younger girl. Well, I guess it all works out though... at least if the older men are ending up with the younger women it's good that the younger men are looking towards the older women, right? 🙂

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@lildol
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Can't say I'm much for younger men either...

My girlfriend and I go out and the young guys hit on us all the time... we always joke about the Cougar thing with them, they really seem to get turned on by the idea.

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
I am a single woman with no kids, no baggage, career driven...I look much younger than I really am and when I go out I am constantly approached by young guys (I mean REALLY young... like 22 yrs old)! NOT ONE SINGLE MAN in my age category will even approach me! It drives me freakin nuts! Maybe it has to do with the community in which I live because my is pretty much a party town. Lots of tourism and college kids come and go.

Im gonna start wearing a badge that says "I ID UNDER 30!"

Ditto LeoLady! Although, I will say that the men I dated that were significantly younger than me were FAR more together and mature than the men my age. It's really sad. Oddly enough too, they are much more serious (well a couple of them were) about having serious relationships). I am in a strange place right now, and really don't want a serious relationship...plus, all this time older men have been going after younger women, so I say what's good for the goose is good for the gander! I don't discriminate due to age, race, or anything else. I am simply attracted to whomever I am attracted too, but I guess if I was looking for a serious relationship, etc, it may be a different ball game - I don't know.

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Posted by USCTaurusGal
Posted by Shaks
sorry ladies, but I do like my pussy on the fresh side 🙂

No offense taken (by me anyway) - we all like what we like. And rest assured for every one man that doesn't, there are more than a dozen who do 😉

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Yeah, UTG, Rick James is one of those men you speak of. He even wrote a song about it -

When I Came Home Last Night
You Wouldn't Make Love to Me
You Went Fast Asleep
You Wouldn't Even Talk to Me

You Say I'm So Crazy
Coming Home Intoxicated
I Say Just Want to Love You, I Just Wanna Love You, Baby
Guess That's Why I'm So Elated, Come On, Girl

Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
I Betcha I'll Make You Holler You've Had Enough
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
Just Give It to Me, Baby
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
I Betcha I'll Make You Holler You've Had Enough

Give It to Me
Give Me That Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff {say What}
Give It to Me
Give Me That Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff {say What}

Give It to Me, Give It to Me
Give It to Me, Give It to Me
Give Me Your Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff (Yo-ho, Ow)

Give It to Me, Baby

When I Was High As the Sky
Out All Night Just Dancin'
You Say, 'let's Go Home' {come On, Rick, I'm Tired, Let's Go Home}
That's the Time I Start Romancin'

You Say How Can I Love You, How Can I Love You, Baby
When Your Body Keeps On Movin'
I Say Wait Till I Squeeze You, Oh
Maybe Then You'll Start to Groovin', Come On, Girl

Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
I Betcha I'll Make You Holler You've Had Enough
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
Just Give It to Me, Baby
Give It to Me, Baby (Give It to Me, Baby)
I Betcha I'll Make You Holler You've Had Enough

Give It to Me
Give Me That Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff {say What}
Give It to Me
Give Me That Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff {say What}

Give It to Me, Give It to Me
Give It to Me, Give It to Me
Give Me Your Stuff, That Funk, That Sweet, That Funky Stuff (Yo-ho, Ow)
Hey, Girl

Give It to Me What You Say
Give It to Me What You Say
{give It to Me} What You Say
{give It to Me}, What You Say [hey, Girl]
Give It to

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Hmmm... I want a Pisces that is about 7 yrs older than me, smart, successful, attractive, a little hair on the chest, holds my hands during sex and believes that if he get's off then I MUST get off too...

Is that too much to ask?

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@USCTaurusGal
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Well USCT, since you asked....I live in a college town,with another one in the next town.there are young guys out the wazoo here.they sometimes like me,but I think that's a little young.I like younger guys, but 22? ha. but if a woman does like it, what the hell? go for it!

🙂

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Hmmm I'm not quite to cougar age but I had a younger guy after me once. He was only a couple years younger but it still kinda threw me off. He ws really sweet, had his shit together and wanted to start a family. A Taurus.

I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to him. 😢 He really liked me too. Poor kid.

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Posted by FLeo Lives On
Posted by LibrasRule36!
Some chics need to get their Summer's Eve on though....

I don't know about that, I'm more inclined to think they just didn't wash well -- that they skipped a few spots, the way an uncut man can *skip some spots* if he was never taught in some fashion how to clean himself thoroughly. MANY men wash their dee eye see kays in the sink, when if you ask me, they need to submerge them balls in some water and then, wash every nook and cranny.

If she needs a douche, that's an internal problem and for the internal problems, you need to see a doctor rather than mask with douches, sprays and powders (products that can bring *drama* to your cooch area). A woman should not bathe in bubble bath, nor should she put powder or perfumes down there. Just soap and water (I like Dove 🙂 )

All sex aids, organs and fingers aside, you're not supposed to put anything in your vagina because you could upset it, which can bring on a smell that will necessitate her going to the doctor.

p.s. even on the last days of her menis, she should not douche, but should just let her flow flow until it's ALL clear down there, on it's own.

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I know, FLeo, I was just being playful.
Douching, in some women, can upset the delicate PH balance, etc.
There are healthier ways to maintain a fresh vagina.

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