Casual-vs-No strings attached?

My sag friend says he's quiet and not open with me cuz its the best way to keep it casual. WTH? We said no strings attached not this casual butter. Is it all the same or am I messed up here. My idea of no strings allows us to have fun and sex without ownership. Casual sex: dont catch any feelings, no attitudes, just catch that ****
He's a super nice guy to me and a good sex partner but I want to share more.... I guess its time to be those real friends we always say we are without the sex. Butter! Its been a good year. 🙂

Am I being realistic and/or reasonable—

Im an Jan. 23 Aquarius by the way

he doesnt want a relationship with you thats why hes staying quiet. usually saggis are very open but when were quiet....its a no go. helps us keep the wall between sex and strings seperate.

Posted by kunoichismile

Posted by DMV
he doesnt want a relationship with you thats why hes staying quiet. usually saggis are very open but when were quiet....its a no go. helps us keep the wall between sex and strings seperate.

I've never done FWB, but ^that^ sounds about right. Physical attraction is really important, but mental compatibility is what makes me catch feelings and fall in love.


He doesn't want to form a mental connection with you, in order to protect his heart and to avoid catching feelings.

There's a good chance he might actually like you (more than a fuck-buddy), so avoiding intimate conversations is his way of maintaining distance.

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exactly, to hook a sag is to hook his/her mind....which comes after sex for me...cause if the they sex aint poppin, NEXT

Being in a relationship, I think can bring out the worst in a sag if they are not ready for one. I think you should think about that.

Being in a relationship, I think can bring out the worst in a sag if they are not ready for one. I think you should think about that.

Posted by Sagittarius89
Being in a relationship, I think can bring out the worst in a sag if they are not ready for one. I think you should think about that.

the worst if they arent ready and the best if they are...

if the worst, we will kick and scream our way out..like a bucking horse

^Yea exactly

OK yall help me out cuz I dont want to make more of this than it really is... I sent this cute text to my sagg friend that said our friendship will expire in 24hrs he needs to recharge w/some cool and sweet msgs, he did and I renewed our friendship. He replies with this big smiley face and says he's "so glad so I guess we r good n kno then....lol"

Funny thing is I don't think we know anything more than we knew before...maybe he's just as confused as I am. I will see him in a couple of weeks and will have to tell him how I really feel but I'm trying to get the right feel just in case he really isnt that into me.

And Im not looking for a relationship just a close friendship.

He probably sees you as too clingy. I know an aquarius that I see as too clingy who really wants to be "friend" status with me, but I've refused to give out my number to him. I have to keep him at arms length or he'll think he can get more from me and that's whts going on with this sag

Posted by She Devil
And Im not looking for a relationship just a close friendship.

Why you having sex then? 😕 that just lends itself to you falling for him. Sagis are very charming...its hard not to fall for us 😄

^ Definitely agree

Posted by MzSagittarius
I wanna go see that movie...Y'know the "No Strings Attached" move, with Ashton Kutcher?! It looks like such a GREAT MOVIE...In this case I think you'd be the girl that fell for the guy...Even though they both agreed to be just sex buddies...Y'know what? I'm gonna go see that movie...Hey, whats wrong with just sex? I mean you get to go around boning and not get labeled as a cheater...

yeah i wanna see that 2

Posted by She Devil
OK yall help me out cuz I dont want to make more of this than it really is... I sent this cute text to my sagg friend that said our friendship will expire in 24hrs he needs to recharge w/some cool and sweet msgs, he did and I renewed our friendship. He replies with this big smiley face and says he's "so glad so I guess we r good n kno then....lol"

Funny thing is I don't think we know anything more than we knew before...maybe he's just as confused as I am. I will see him in a couple of weeks and will have to tell him how I really feel but I'm trying to get the right feel just in case he really isnt that into me.

And Im not looking for a relationship just a close friendship.

how close of a friendship?

the sag is acting aloof because he doesnt want to be the bad guy.