Cat and mouse

Hey Guys...
I'm just wondering is it something in my chart or me that causes the same reaction from women I encounter...

I have a Sag sun..
Leo moon..
Mars in cancer...
Venus in Aqua...
Ascendent in Pisces..


It seems like every Girl I meet, it's a cat and mouse game... Like idk... I've been told I look like a playa, etc.. But it's just... I meet a girl, and it's like they try and "one up" me all the time...? Or do whatever to get my attention, and when they get it... Don't truly know what to do with it... I'm just asking advice, because my feelings truly be hurt... Starting to give up.. What good is it to be able to pull any girl you encounter, if they seem to want to play games.. (I'm a female also)

Sag men have a youthful, soft, bordering on "pretty boy" look. You can be very hard to take seriously if you don't have bits that make you more rugged or interesting. I reckon women subconsciously think you are incapable of being a solid companion, so they want you for boy toys.

They're not the right ones. Put the brakes on and wait for the right one. Game players are Not worth it. Period..

Drop them.

Alright.. And I'm a female myself guys... So you can imagine how it feel... I don't have sex with them anymore, thinking maybe that'll show I'm not a "player" ... I just get hurt by the fact that they'll do whatever for my attention.. And once they realize I like them... It's like a switch... And what bothers me the most is, I feel like they intentionally hurt me... I know they do...


It's truly just not fair.. I see people getting together etc, and I crave that... But not like I hunt for it... It's just when I meet someone new, I'm like cool... Hopefully it's cool... But it's like they run away from me in a sense.. Idk. I'm so genuine

Posted by NostalgicCappy
They're not the right ones. Put the brakes on and wait for the right one. Game players are Not worth it. Period..

Drop them.

So should I just not even acknowledge anyone or what? It's so confusing.. Guys I truly get hit on by so many women... It's to the point where I just smile and keep going... Idk what else to do anymore... I'm just over it... But it truly bothers me.. I deserve better...

Girls love to play games. A girl sent her friend to give my boyfriend a condom; much game playing ensued with them trying to meet him at the mall, aggressively complimenting him and his eyes, etc. This was a few days before he met me, actually. My BF says he specifically dates older because he has no interest in the game playing that girls do.

Posted by arose32

Posted by NostalgicCappy
They're not the right ones. Put the brakes on and wait for the right one. Game players are Not worth it. Period..

Drop them.

So should I just not even acknowledge anyone or what? It's so confusing.. Guys I truly get hit on by so many women... It's to the point where I just smile and keep going... Idk what else to do anymore... I'm just over it... But it truly bothers me.. I deserve better...

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The woman you seek may lie in the women who don't hit on you...

Posted by arose32

Posted by NostalgicCappy
They're not the right ones. Put the brakes on and wait for the right one. Game players are Not worth it. Period..

Drop them.

So should I just not even acknowledge anyone or what? It's so confusing.. Guys I truly get hit on by so many women... It's to the point where I just smile and keep going... Idk what else to do anymore... I'm just over it... But it truly bothers me.. I deserve better...

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Sweetie, you're a Venus in Aqua. We can drop people, and walk away without a second thought if we want to.

If they are playing games, they're not worth your time or energy on anything but a superficial level. Just don't get emotionally attached to anyone, until they can prove they are worth it.

Be friends, buddy buddy yada yada, but just don't invest into anything until you can trust them. No one is worth that stress or getting hurt, protect yourself first. I know I do..

Humm.. Alright that's understandable..


I do want someone who just .. Understand you don't have to gain my attention in the negative way... Like, I'm talking to you... Express what you want.. Idk.. I just try and relax, but maybe I'm just venting... Especially when I know I'm way too cool for the stuff I go through... I just truly hope God brings me someone that's good to me... It breaks my heart... But I'll be just fine... I guess. Just kinda sad to me the way people do people... Especially when they don't ask for it... Love isn't supposed to hurt.. And what I don't get is, when a chick can't handle my passion and I decide to leave her alone.. Why she would break her back to get me back etc.. I just want them to leave me alone if their intentions are not meant for the best...

You're right I won't.. But I know this one I dated... We went through a lot... And every time I leave her alone, she'll come back and it'll be friends ... She'll call me twenty times a day etc.. As soon as I start hitting her first etc, she switches up.. And I'm frustrated because I'm thinking even as friends... She acts this way... But this becoming torture... And I can't do it anymore.. I feel like they want to break my spirit... I'm 23.. Architecture major.. Humble.. Nice looking.. Finally getting my first business off the ground... And it's like it's these women come in my life, looking for trouble...

Alright... I got you...

And I just feel like I shouldn't have to do all of this you know.. What's the point of trying to stick around in someone life, if you know you don't mean them any good...

But I got you.. And it's like whenever I choose to be the bigger person and ignore it... They try harder and harder... I'm just saying; I didn't ask for this... I don't want this... I don't need twenty girls around me full of stupidity... I just want friendship man.. Genuine cool friendship... A best friend that maybe leads to that...

Speaking of detached ... I've heard that I seem like I don't care... Or care if they are here or not.. Idk. That's why I'm trying to see.. Is it something that I'm doing—

Thanks guys... I appreciate it. I guess I was feeling vulnerable ... I plan on getting closer from one... And if she doesn't, I'll just let it go... Even though I feel as if I deserve that much.. For everything she put me through... But it's time to move on completely... Hate I had to give up though, but it's okay... I'm no longer blinded by the past... Or old girls who took me for granted.. Wish me luck... No one deserves this..

Maybe they turn to games because you come across disengaged

Posted by DMV
Maybe they turn to games because you come across disengaged

Humm... Explain it to me DMV...