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I've dated 2 sags and one Leo with a sag moon.

And I consider myself pretty good at reading them and if that's true then there isn't "the one" for them or one soul mate but many soul mates and many "the ones." Unless they have a ton of water or earth placements they are mostly free spirited creatures.

I'd imagine when in love though they are like children. At least that's how it's been with me. But sometimes it's really hard to tell with Sag. Because they do treat you like everyone else and they do move on pretty quickly IME. Makes you wonder if they were ever in love at all. I like them as friends and lovers but I can't see a long term thing with them. I feel, like me, they need a grounded sign to bring them back to earth

Haha hope that helps 🙂
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Posted by xtina
I've dated 2 sags and one Leo with a sag moon.

And I consider myself pretty good at reading them and if that's true then there isn't "the one" for them or one soul mate but many soul mates and many "the ones." Unless they have a ton of water or earth placements they are mostly free spirited creatures.

I'd imagine when in love though they are like children. At least that's how it's been with me. But sometimes it's really hard to tell with Sag. Because they do treat you like everyone else and they do move on pretty quickly IME. Makes you wonder if they were ever in love at all. I like them as friends and lovers but I can't see a long term thing with them. I feel, like me, they need a grounded sign to bring them back to earth

Haha hope that helps 🙂

Ive truly noticed that dealing with him. Hes the first I ever truly had a thing for, and hes like this HUGE kid with me and loves being playful and now that were revisiting this relationship hes back to being very touchy feely. But he didn't stop calling me for every little thing. He just wasn't as emo or flirty when we took a break.

He always said that he wanted me to always be his friend, and I hear that friend crap a lot with the research I did on Sags. He has a cancer moon.

and one of his best friends he is very silly with her too and loves allll his female and male friends and anyone that I have met are very much his best friends.

But youre right I feel like everyone gets that same love, in his past I know of 1 childhood ex who he thought he would marry and then everypone in between he said weren't that serious and im the 2nd person he thought of marriage with and almost instantly when we met.
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*cracks knuckles* Oh boy, do I KNOW a thing or two about Sags. I love them and they love me too. I have dealt with countless Sags. With that being said, I think Xtina is on the right page. They are very playful when it comes to love. When in love their "weird" side comes out a lot more in front of you too lol. Sags are some crazy people behind closed doors. Crazy in a good way I mean. They often yell out random movie lines, make crazy faces at you at random moments, stuff like that. They are very affectionate when in love too. That's really all I can think of. I know there's a lot more I could say, but its so hard to describe love from a Sag. I do love how they love though. 🙂
He did say that he loves aries but couldn't do long term because they were too much like him. But youre right. their love is different.

Now Im used to a lot of words and messages of affection and compliments but I think that gets boring to Sags and they aren't like the typical ego boosting partner.

But in person hes really annoying with the affection and even during our break hed always wanna watch our shows (on the phone -_-) on face time and or want to always talk about it.
Play fighting is his favorite.

Ive also heard they are blunt and honest. But I think I just want to be sure Im not getting taken on a ride, even though I do get a lot of his silly side.

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well i havent found the One yet lol.

but for me to be interested, i have to be obsessed with the other person.
Now obsessed? LOL I felt like that when I First met him...

He wanted to be around me ALLLLLLLL the time!
and its still the same but different because time has past and we know one another more.

But what are your traits of being obsessed?
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thats him being clingy. I for one am very clingy. But i am obsessed as well.

eat breathe and sleep my crush
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I know I've fallen when I find myself telling him personal things that I tell no one about. Also the fact that I don't mind, in fact I enjoy, having him over to my place, and i don't get annoyed if he stays too long.

Basically when I'm ok with being emotionally open with someone, and I want to spend my time with him, not caring what we are doing, I know I'm in deep.

....I guess I do obsess a bit too, but I get that way with literally anything that interested me, so it makes since that I might obsess about I guy I'm in love with.
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I am with a Sag male (I'm a Libra). He is clingy, loves to be around me. When I get home or he does, the first thing he does is look for me and gives me a thousand kisses. Lol That's more at home than in public though. We will tease each other, flirt, pay attention to each other (do things for each other) to no end in public, but not touch a whole lot. But at soon as we get in the car or get home.. It's a different story. He loves to cuddle and I would say he's pretty obsessed. Very playful.

He loves to discuss whatever happened during our day or our future. We can talk for hours.

He just likes to do everything together. (I actually feel bad sometimes because I'm pretty independent and need space sometimes.) But I think that just makes him want to be around me even more. He won't even go out with friends when they ask because he wants to be with me (even when I ask about them and talk to him about going since I know they like hanging out with him.)

He is very affectionate. Very... But so am I so hey.. We match. ‰
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Posted by xtina
I've dated 2 sags and one Leo with a sag moon.

And I consider myself pretty good at reading them and if that's true then there isn't "the one" for them or one soul mate but many soul mates and many "the ones." Unless they have a ton of water or earth placements they are mostly free spirited creatures.

I'd imagine when in love though they are like children. At least that's how it's been with me. But sometimes it's really hard to tell with Sag. Because they do treat you like everyone else and they do move on pretty quickly IME. Makes you wonder if they were ever in love at all. I like them as friends and lovers but I can't see a long term thing with them. I feel, like me, they need a grounded sign to bring them back to earth

Haha hope that helps 🙂

Ive truly noticed that dealing with him. Hes the first I ever truly had a thing for, and hes like this HUGE kid with me and loves being playful and now that were revisiting this relationship hes back to being very touchy feely. But he didn't stop calling me for every little thing. He just wasn't as emo or flirty when we took a break.

He always said that he wanted me to always be his friend, and I hear that friend crap a lot with the research I did on Sags. He has a cancer moon.

and one of his best friends he is very silly with her too and loves allll his female and male friends and anyone that I have met are very much his best friends.

But youre right I feel like everyone gets that same love, in his past I know of 1 childhood ex who he thought he would marry and then everypone in between he said weren't that serious and im the 2nd person he thought of marriage with and almost instantly when we met.
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That's a really good sign!

Sags usually don't throw that out lightly of they're a good person. Just be on the look out with red flags. If there is any sign that can convince you of something I think it's Sag (at least mutable signs IME). And when I say red flags make sure his actions align with his words. Big indicator of a good intended person.

But other than that enjoy your time!!!

Saggie love is like a warm summer breeze during a cold winters night. Good luck lady 🙂
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For me as sag
I play games .. I will make the other person feel like a fool before I tell my true feeling 🙂
And how long will that takes? Years?

LOLOLOL ;p
Yeah ..it took me years once to make libra man fall for me...then he told me I feel like fool or crazy and hate u looooool
I love games soooooo much ³
Thank you!

That explains everything now.

Oh Sag why....LOLOLOL
You are welcome (; ��'�
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I really thing Sags have a thinking pattern that is beyond this universe, and they need games like these to keep them entertained!
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I know I've fallen when I find myself telling him personal things that I tell no one about. Also the fact that I don't mind, in fact I enjoy, having him over to my place, and i don't get annoyed if he stays too long.

Basically when I'm ok with being emotionally open with someone, and I want to spend my time with him, not caring what we are doing, I know I'm in deep.

....I guess I do obsess a bit too, but I get that way with literally anything that interested me, so it makes since that I might obsess about I guy I'm in love with.
But how do you explain his immediate openness? and then very quickly told me about the passing's of people in his life.....
When I think back I think we had an immediate connection.

Yeah during the holiday break, he was extreamely clingy, he stayed over (mind you we weren't together) but slept on the couch and demanded I watch the shameless reruns with him the whole break!
The minute I disappeared to do my own thing he was hurt.....
All the while I was still understanding his need for us to break up because he needed to find himself and the argument we had months ago showed him we wont make it because we lost the friendship.

But it truly never felt like we broke up! He was always trying to hang with me, still inviting me out, still would call me on 3 with his friends LOL.....
I cant deal.
Guess Il just enjoy my Saggy being back.
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I've dated 2 sags and one Leo with a sag moon.

And I consider myself pretty good at reading them and if that's true then there isn't "the one" for them or one soul mate but many soul mates and many "the ones." Unless they have a ton of water or earth placements they are mostly free spirited creatures.

I'd imagine when in love though they are like children. At least that's how it's been with me. But sometimes it's really hard to tell with Sag. Because they do treat you like everyone else and they do move on pretty quickly IME. Makes you wonder if they were ever in love at all. I like them as friends and lovers but I can't see a long term thing with them. I feel, like me, they need a grounded sign to bring them back to earth

Haha hope that helps 🙂

Ive truly noticed that dealing with him. Hes the first I ever truly had a thing for, and hes like this HUGE kid with me and loves being playful and now that were revisiting this relationship hes back to being very touchy feely. But he didn't stop calling me for every little thing. He just wasn't as emo or flirty when we took a break.

He always said that he wanted me to always be his friend, and I hear that friend crap a lot with the research I did on Sags. He has a cancer moon.

and one of his best friends he is very silly with her too and loves allll his female and male friends and anyone that I have met are very much his best friends.

But youre right I feel like everyone gets that same love, in his past I know of 1 childhood ex who he thought he would marry and then everypone in between he said weren't that serious and im the 2nd person he thought of marriage with and almost instantly when we met.
That's a really good sign!

Sags usually don't throw that out lightly of they're a good person. Just be on the look out with red flags. If there is any sign that can convince you of something I think it's Sag (at least mutable signs IME). And when I say red flags make sure his actions align with his words. Big indicator of a good intended person.

But other than that enjoy your time!!!

Saggie love is like a warm summer breeze during a cold winters night. Good luck lady 🙂
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Well he's back to looking at places with me, and has been helping me when he cans, just because.
I think the only thing I fear is the flexibility of a sag. Today we can get a place together and tomorrow he can believe he tried and want to be alone!

But for the most part I can say I do see he is trying, he even told my aunt were working on it.....SO..G
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I am Pisces and my boyfriend is a Saggy. My Saggy is VERY clingy. LOL! He calls me about three times a day and texts me about seven times a day. We both feel mutually attached to one another. We text good morning and good night to one another each and every day! When he doesn't I panic, pout, and less than four hours later I get a text informing me his area lost phone connection due to a fiber optic "cutting" accident in his area (he lives in a rural area). I panicked the other day when I dropped my phone in his toilet (didn't tell him), drove home, texted him, and then I lost the signal. I used my son's (9 yrs old) phone to use FB and remembered my Saggy has his phone number listed on FB (I'm BAD at remembering phone numbers; even my own!). My Saggy has already introduced me to his mother, daughter, ex-sister in law, and his two nephews.

My Saggy can interpret my dreams and love him for that! My Saggy texts me, "Good morning beautiful" and I text back "Good morning handsome". My Saggy isn't the jealous type and I also love that about him! My Saggy is NOT shallow and I also love that about him. When my Saggy says we are going to do this and that....guess what!? We do! He's not a bulls**ter and I love that about him!

My Saggy is the type of man that tells you want he wants, i.e., when he's cooking (yes, he's the best cook!) he wants me to come behind him and either grope him, kiss him behind the neck, etc! He says that turns him on the most and he feels the bedroom is NOT the only place in the house to go make love in. My Saggy tends to melt my heart whenever we are together! My Saggy rides a motorcycle and that is the SEXIEST thing that attracts me the most about him! My Saggy says he is tired of being far away from me and it's killing him! I, myself, also enjoy my space, but since I've NEVER, EVER, been given this much attention I don't care if he IS "clingy" :-)

Love, Eva
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What are signs that a Sag is truly in love?

My sag and I recently rekindled, and although I had speculations he went after his ex, he told me I am still his best friend, always have been and he cant predict the future about anything but right now and as long as possible but he wants his girl back.


SOOOO, just curious, Sags? What do you do when you feel you've found the one?



you can tell by the sex... lol. the passion... if its there its probably only there for you...
you can know if they tell you they care about you-- straight up. if they reassure you over & over they love you
you can tell by how much time they spend with you
they'll put you before everyone else
they'll respect your wishes
they'll be attentive toward you
you'll know if they actually care after ditching you or if theyre worried they hurt you by a tactless remark or action.
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What are signs that a Sag is truly in love?

My sag and I recently rekindled, and although I had speculations he went after his ex, he told me I am still his best friend, always have been and he cant predict the future about anything but right now and as long as possible but he wants his girl back.


SOOOO, just curious, Sags? What do you do when you feel you've found the one?



you can tell by the sex... lol. the passion... if its there its probably only there for you...
you can know if they tell you they care about you-- straight up. if they reassure you over & over they love you
you can tell by how much time they spend with you
they'll put you before everyone else
they'll respect your wishes
they'll be attentive toward you
you'll know if they actually care after ditching you or if theyre worried they hurt you by a tactless remark or action.
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Well, Since we have been back to the regular program, I get a lot of baby this and baby that.
I try NOT to bring up the past, the girls, and or the messages I found.

But I am just very skeptical. Because Where did this come from?

A lot of touchy feely!
Are Sag men good at pretending this stuff!!!
LOL

I don't know if he puts me first, haven't noticed any situation to say that.
Sex (finally) was passionate
He asks me if I love him, and when hes in that mood hed say it to me
I asked him to stop leaving his socks everywhere he purposely did it near my bed to get a laugh but I didn't budge but other than that hes been trying sometimes to be a bit more tidy
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What are signs that a Sag is truly in love?

My sag and I recently rekindled, and although I had speculations he went after his ex, he told me I am still his best friend, always have been and he cant predict the future about anything but right now and as long as possible but he wants his girl back.


SOOOO, just curious, Sags? What do you do when you feel you've found the one?



you can tell by the sex... lol. the passion... if its there its probably only there for you...
you can know if they tell you they care about you-- straight up. if they reassure you over & over they love you
you can tell by how much time they spend with you
they'll put you before everyone else
they'll respect your wishes
they'll be attentive toward you
you'll know if they actually care after ditching you or if theyre worried they hurt you by a tactless remark or action.
Well, Since we have been back to the regular program, I get a lot of baby this and baby that.
I try NOT to bring up the past, the girls, and or the messages I found.

But I am just very skeptical. Because Where did this come from?

A lot of touchy feely!
Are Sag men good at pretending this stuff!!!
LOL

I don't know if he puts me first, haven't noticed any situation to say that.
Sex (finally) was passionate
He asks me if I love him, and when hes in that mood hed say it to me
I asked him to stop leaving his socks everywhere he purposely did it near my bed to get a laugh but I didn't budge but other than that hes been trying sometimes to be a bit more tidy
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Haha I'm a girl, I understand what you mean by "is he just good at pretending this stuff?" I can't say lol.... but I know that feeling (I've had it towards an aquarius guy). My best advice is to just take it at face value. If he wasn't feeling any sort of passion or intensity physically toward you he'd not be feeling you at all. I would never, ever, advance toward someone in that way unless I felt 100% comfortable doing it and they were my main focus in that moment (the moment being that week, that month, that year, those years, however long the spark lasts). Just ENJOY It and go with it, keep him hooked. Reciprocate the action.

DONT bring up past girls. I don't know how he is-- but if I'm hooking up/seeing someone new I HATE being tied to my past, I just want to forget about it and focus on the person I'm with in the NOW. lol. You know?
I've actually turned down men because they knew people from my past and I didn't want t
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Olivia321
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ugh my message didn't fully post! oh well.

If he's asking you if you love him, you're his main girl.
I only do that for guys I feel growing love & trust toward.
If he says he loves you, believe it. He would NOT tell someone that lightly whom he has no history with.

WIth the socks, you can't control him (LOL) but he's being considerate!! And that's cute 🙂 He cares.
Aw thanks!