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Do saggis feel remorseful after doing something shady?
Shady like what? You would have to explain more...cause honestly it depends on how the person stands in our life...if I'm being shady, it's on a light note with a good friend...I don't really feel enemies are worth all that...personally.

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I'm talking shady. The parts never seen for a reason.

Let's simplify this.

Do sags feel remorseful?
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Do saggis feel remorseful after doing something shady?
Shady like what? You would have to explain more...cause honestly it depends on how the person stands in our life...if I'm being shady, it's on a light note with a good friend...I don't really feel enemies are worth all that...personally.


I'm talking shady. The parts never seen for a reason.

Let's simplify this.

Do sags feel remorseful?
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Nope. Simple as that...but shady is a bit too general.. I keep my guard up because I'm misunderstood.... People call us "shady",but we are private people, at least I am..we're a hard nut to crack, and if that's shady then so be it.

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When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)



Sunday at work...coworker was lazy didn't wanna help, lasted until she started working which was about 40 minutes. I really wouldn't call it a grudge because that would mean I would still be pissed after the fact...I'm not a grudge holding person...I've tried...it doesn't work
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When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)


You may not have directed this at me, but I'll answer.



My 6th grade sweetheart lied to me about his age, he didn't want me to know he was younger than myself. I'm going to see him tonight and to this very day, I cut remarks about his age. Remarks like, "young grasshopper learn from your elders, or are you older than I?"

So I guess forever. But it's not out of hatred but admiration and humor.



It's easy to get over being wronged, life moves on. But like an elephant I don't forget.

Real wrongs are never forgotten, though they are forgiven. But that cut sliced deep and that's not my problem.
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Posted by tiziani
When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)


You may not have directed this at me, but I'll answer.



My 6th grade sweetheart lied to me about his age, he didn't want me to know he was younger than myself. I'm going to see him tonight and to this very day, I cut remarks about his age. Remarks like, "young grasshopper learn from your elders, or are you older than I?"

So I guess forever. But it's not out of hatred but admiration and humor.



It's easy to get over being wronged, life moves on. But like an elephant I don't forget.

Real wrongs are never forgotten, though they are forgiven. But that cut sliced deep and that's not my problem.
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I think that's more of relationship problem...if I feel wronged about someone lying about their age, I personally wouldn't take it hard, but I would not continue with him cause he lied...I would move on though...maybe you have signs in your planets that make you feel like that...he would be long gone and forgotten with me b
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Posted by tiziani
When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)


You may not have directed this at me, but I'll answer.



My 6th grade sweetheart lied to me about his age, he didn't want me to know he was younger than myself. I'm going to see him tonight and to this very day, I cut remarks about his age. Remarks like, "young grasshopper learn from your elders, or are you older than I?"

So I guess forever. But it's not out of hatred but admiration and humor.



It's easy to get over being wronged, life moves on. But like an elephant I don't forget.

Real wrongs are never forgotten, though they are forgiven. But that cut sliced deep and that's not my problem.
I think that's more of relationship problem...if I feel wronged about someone lying about their age, I personally wouldn't take it hard, but I would not continue with him cause he lied...I would move on though...maybe you have signs in your planets that make you feel like that...he would be long gone and forgotten with me b
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We were in the 6th grade, I was 11, he was 10. 17 years later that doesn't matter but I remember it. It's in the context.
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Posted by tiziani
When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)


You may not have directed this at me, but I'll answer.



My 6th grade sweetheart lied to me about his age, he didn't want me to know he was younger than myself. I'm going to see him tonight and to this very day, I cut remarks about his age. Remarks like, "young grasshopper learn from your elders, or are you older than I?"

So I guess forever. But it's not out of hatred but admiration and humor.



It's easy to get over being wronged, life moves on. But like an elephant I don't forget.

Real wrongs are never forgotten, though they are forgiven. But that cut sliced deep and that's not my problem.
I think that's more of relationship problem...if I feel wronged about someone lying about their age, I personally wouldn't take it hard, but I would not continue with him cause he lied...I would move on though...maybe you have signs in your planets that make you feel like that...he would be long gone and forgotten with me b
We were in the 6th grade, I was 11, he was 10. 17 years later that doesn't matter but I remember it. It's in the context.
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So it's never been talked about? At all? You never confronted him in a straightforward way?
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When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)
I stop talking to my pisces brother because he start to bother me and hurt me without any real reason, I ask him to stop it.

He didn't.

It's been about three months, I don't want to talk to him ever again + my Aries brother also .. I ask him to never talk to me or my kids never again.

It's been about 9 months maybe.

I hate both of them, but I don't think about it anymore, I just feel good that I was strong to cut them out of my life, because they both are not good for me.
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Now....you just made a great point...im in the same situation with my dad because of how he treated me during his drug addict phase...cut him off... family cuts very deep with me..because we're blood...
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When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)
I stop talking to my pisces brother because he start to bother me and hurt me without any real reason, I ask him to stop it.

He didn't.

It's been about three months, I don't want to talk to him ever again + my Aries brother also .. I ask him to never talk to me or my kids never again.

It's been about 9 months maybe.

I hate both of them, but I don't think about it anymore, I just feel good that I was strong to cut them out of my life, because they both are not good for me.
Now....you just made a great point...im in the same situation with my dad because of how he treated me during his drug addict phase...cut him off... family cuts very deep with me..because we're blood...
I don't blame you...

They think just because we are family; they can do what ever they want, because we will forgive them one day.



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Posted by tiziani
When is the last time you held a grudge, what happened and how long did the grudge last? (Assuming it is over)


You may not have directed this at me, but I'll answer.



My 6th grade sweetheart lied to me about his age, he didn't want me to know he was younger than myself. I'm going to see him tonight and to this very day, I cut remarks about his age. Remarks like, "young grasshopper learn from your elders, or are you older than I?"

So I guess forever. But it's not out of hatred but admiration and humor.



It's easy to get over being wronged, life moves on. But like an elephant I don't forget.

Real wrongs are never forgotten, though they are forgiven. But that cut sliced deep and that's not my problem.
I think that's more of relationship problem...if I feel wronged about someone lying about their age, I personally wouldn't take it hard, but I would not continue with him cause he lied...I would move on though...maybe you have signs in your planets that make you feel like that...he would be long gone and forgotten with me b
We were in the 6th grade, I was 11, he was 10. 17 years later that doesn't matter but I remember it. It's in the context.
So it's never been talked about? At all? You never confronted him in a straightforward way?

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Oh of course!! Lol. He's a leo. I'm a sag. Blunt is our nature. It's not about blame but memories. We like to keep it real. I'll always be honest.