Do Sag men admire from afar?

No info on a chart, nor do I really want any. However the behavior being expressed is not what I expected. He's definitely finding more and more reasons to "see"/view me, even from afar. A co worker sorta kinda ratted him out and mumbled "since that cutie started working upstairs, He's got a pep in his step". It's true. In his department, he REALLY finds time and excuses to come upstairs. Imagine going into a supermarket and purchasing one grocery at a time just to see a cutie cashier....

Anyway, lol I would love if any sags or anybody with lots of sag experience would be able to help me figure out what this indicates?

PS: he gives me huge goofy smiles. He gave me an ice cream treat/gift on his way to clock out, he's said" you know what makes you attractive? Your personality. You have an awesome heart, you're compassionate. That's good, you don't see that often around here"... why is he taking it so slow?

I'm a bubbly humbled Pisces, Leo ASC conjunct mars, Aqua moon and Jupiter dom. Just to give you a feel. And what SHOULD I do if there is any interest from his side?

Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Maybe you would have to wait forever. My sag colleague turned friend is the same. He told me after my break up with an aqua ex "someone will love you for you. You dont need to learn how to cook. You dont need to change at all. Who knows, maybe the guy has a ring already and hes just waiting for you" and well he took me to dating places but never said we were a tually dating. Im the only girl he isnt embarrassed to be seen out with. Its been5 years for me btw lol

Lmao 5yrs holy shit. But then again it's nice to know you always have a friend there. I mean, how is you guy's relationship? I wouldn't mind something like that. This sag just still hasn't made that move YET. Been a little over a month now, month in a half. It doesn't bother me much, I'm just super curious about what would stop a sag from pursuing even a real friendship. Didn't take them as an 'admirer from afar ' type. Or the type to deeply observe you every chance they get. I love his honesty though. Dude told me straight up he's been watching me and really admires how I treat everyone around me. Told me I had an amazing smile.... I can see scorp influence. Scorp written all over it.

I have never come across a Sag who liked someone n didn't make a move. They always make a move. Admiring from far or taking it slow isn't something they do from what I know n saw. They usually like to spend time with you a lot than just talk or give compliments.

@Teena and @aflyingarrow, thank you both for the insight. Could either of you give me any ideas/advice as to what my next move should be?

I'm an attractive guy... it's just not in my nature to blurt out... I REALLY LIKE YOU. I'll put it out there by saying or doing something flirting 101. I look for some sort of reciprocity and then I will increase it until it's obvious.

If I know you, I don't want to make you uncomfortable about my feelings so I won't come right out and say it.

Posted by hellosaggy
I'm an attractive guy... it's just not in my nature to blurt out... I REALLY LIKE YOU. I'll put it out there by saying or doing something flirting 101. I look for some sort of reciprocity and then I will increase it until it's obvious.

If I know you, I don't want to make you uncomfortable about my feelings so I won't come right out and say it.

Lol ok. Thank you so much for this. It's probably too late at this point. You definitely gave me the answer I needed.

Posted by mariaxvee
@Teena and @aflyingarrow, thank you both for the insight. Could either of you give me any ideas/advice as to what my next move should be?

Like people already said, do something which will show him that you're interested too. He shouldn't feel like you're not interested right? Reciprocate in a way you feel is appropriate.

Yea. As outgoing as I am and "desired" and I think I am. I will not put myself out there lol can't do it.

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Posted by mariaxvee
@Teena and @aflyingarrow, thank you both for the insight. Could either of you give me any ideas/advice as to what my next move should be?

"Dude told me straight up he's been watching me and really admires how I treat everyone around me. Told me I had an amazing smile.."

"He gave me an ice cream treat/gift on his way to clock out, he's said" you know what makes you attractive? Your personality. You have an awesome heart, you're compassionate. That's good, you don't see that often around here".."

Just in case you missed my point.. gurrll... THIS is a move ?

Return the favor.. when you buy something for yourself, could be food.. walk to his desk and give him that.. ask how is he doing, chit chat for 5 mins, compliment him back or so and then leave..

He's a guy, he should do the next move after that..

im kinda big on chivalry lol...

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Lol that's the problem. Our work environment is not the type where can even spare 5 mins to talk. Especially being on different floors. I've tried and it's not exactly anytime that can be an ideal chitchat environment. He's the one that works with the food lmao, that's #2. And I would want a compliment to be genuine and on my terms. Not just give it out because he gave me one. I don't know him well enough to compliment any qualitites of his.....

After typing that all out, I've realized that I am completely overthinking this. Simple as can be. Next time I see him is on Wednesday. I'll make a damn move! 50/50 chance! Who cares! Thank you @aflyingarrow!!

Posted by Rindaroo
Why do you think it's too late?

Yeah I'd say he's made his move. So it's your turn.

I thought it is too late because he is still being very observant from afar (almost like he's giving me a "chance" to make a move or really really hoping that I do) by coming up with ways to be in my vicinity. But hasn't went beyond that recently like he used to, which is completely understandable being that I've been so shy and cheesy. Time to grow up. I'm going to give it a shot and make a move. What's the worst that can happen? lol

Posted by hellosaggy
Yea. As outgoing as I am and "desired" and I think I am. I will not put myself out there lol can't do it.

Is there a different placement that explains that, or just saggy nature?

Posted by Teena
I have never come across a Sag who liked someone n didn't make a move. They always make a move. Admiring from far or taking it slow isn't something they do from what I know n saw. They usually like to spend time with you a lot than just talk or give compliments.

Um yes we do 🙂

That making a move comes after a good period of contemplation whether we should or not.

Posted by aflyingarrow
He planted the seed, you should water it..

Or it wont grow..

I honestly dont know any sags who pursue stubbornly if their attempts arent met halfway.. me included lol ?

True and many a lady has lost a chance with a Sag because of this.

If we're making extra effort to see you...we're interested and that's a woman's cue

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Posted by mariaxvee

Posted by Rindaroo
Why do you think it's too late?

Yeah I'd say he's made his move. So it's your turn.

I thought it is too late because he is still being very observant from afar (almost like he's giving me a "chance" to make a move or really really hoping that I do) by coming up with ways to be in my vicinity. But hasn't went beyond that recently like he used to, which is completely understandable being that I've been so shy and cheesy. Time to grow up. I'm going to give it a shot and make a move. What's the worst that can happen? lol

🙂 well he probably needed a sign from you that you're interested. Sag men I've known have been pretty aggressive if they know you are interested. So just give him a sign!!

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Lol thank you for the encouragement. I will. I hope I'm not too late!!

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by aflyingarrow
He planted the seed, you should water it..

Or it wont grow..

I honestly dont know any sags who pursue stubbornly if their attempts arent met halfway.. me included lol ?

True and many a lady has lost a chance with a Sag because of this.

If we're making extra effort to see you...we're interested and that's a woman's cue

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Only been in long term relationships, never casually dated so I'm a bit oblivious and inexperienced with stuff like this. Now I know. Thank you for your input 🙂

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by aflyingarrow
He planted the seed, you should water it..

Or it wont grow..

I honestly dont know any sags who pursue stubbornly if their attempts arent met halfway.. me included lol ?

True and many a lady has lost a chance with a Sag because of this.

If we're making extra effort to see you...we're interested and that's a woman's cue

Only been in long term relationships, never casually dated so I'm a bit oblivious and inexperienced with stuff like this. Now I know. Thank you for your input 🙂

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Welcome 🙂

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by aflyingarrow
He planted the seed, you should water it..

Or it wont grow..

I honestly dont know any sags who pursue stubbornly if their attempts arent met halfway.. me included lol ?

True and many a lady has lost a chance with a Sag because of this.

If we're making extra effort to see you...we're interested and that's a woman's cue

Could this be a reason why we sometimed lost a chance to other signs too?

Because we expect them to get our cue and meet us halfway? ?

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Lol that is true. The door swings both ways on that one.

But for me the whole chase thing got boring in my early 20s. I need someone that is different and takes a different approach. She would need to distinguish herself for me to be interested.

Posted by GeminiGirl052388
I shouldve known. All those times he took me to candle lit dinners that i thought was purely platonic. Him looking after me all the time.... ugh. Im too slow with these things 😢

No to confuse you, but those things are platonic to us even though we may have romantic feelings. The reason being is that we want someone to be our best friend first and we give those things upfront to set that foundation. It's an approach of "if you like this, it gets better."

I'm confused. So They need space but also for a person to be direct?

Update: so I went up to him today with a huge smile and said "so you're the loudest person in the room all the time, but so quiet with me*giggle * why is this?" He cheeses and then says "I Don't know what to say to you sometimes" we both laugh and I say "really?, really?" *uncontrollable giggling* I let him know that I want to get to know him and be actual friends. He says "just joke around with me. I don't take anything in life serious and I'm super sarcastic". We both laugh and I strut off ☺

Thank you all, for your patience and insight ?