Not sure what to do, Aquas chime in.

I'm usually not without answers so this will be a general thing and I may explain a bit later, just need to process it.

My Sag BFF said some pretty horrible things. She's said it out of anger before but you know it's one of those where I've just had enough of it and I'm about to just end whatever friendship we have, had.

I really hate throwing away friendships so I haven't decided yet.

My brain has gone into a logical meltdown (that's how I deal with emotions) try to piece things together from different perspectives to see if I'm wrong in anyway.

What would you do, how do you deal with issues like this?

And for research sake, let's have your moon, mars, pluto and rising, house + aspects.

Non aquas feel free to chime in.

Ohhh sags can sting. Takes aquas awhile to recover. Do not let it affect your judgement. Let it pass... do not act on that.

Is there some truth to it?

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You know how hard it is for us to let others in. You need to decide if it's worth maintaining....give it a break for a few days

Breath and go do something fun.

Posted by aquasnoz
I'm usually not without answers so this will be a general thing and I may explain a bit later, just need to process it.

My Sag BFF said some pretty horrible things. She's said it out of anger before but you know it's one of those where I've just had enough of it and I'm about to just end whatever friendship we have, had.

I really hate throwing away friendships so I haven't decided yet.

My brain has gone into a logical meltdown (that's how I deal with emotions) try to piece things together from different perspectives to see if I'm wrong in anyway.

What would you do, how do you deal with issues like this?

And for research sake, let's have your moon, mars, pluto and rising, house + aspects.

Non aquas feel free to chime in.

What happened?

Depends on what they said. If they hit a nerve, which can only be done if the truth was spoken with aquas, and it hurt your feelings then you need to clearly communicate that their behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated next time. If it's something they normally do, let them off with a warning this time. Next time just drop the friendship. Let that be a lesson for them.

Posted by aquasnoz
I'm usually not without answers so this will be a general thing and I may explain a bit later, just need to process it.

My Sag BFF said some pretty horrible things. She's said it out of anger before but you know it's one of those where I've just had enough of it and I'm about to just end whatever friendship we have, had.

I really hate throwing away friendships so I haven't decided yet.

My brain has gone into a logical meltdown (that's how I deal with emotions) try to piece things together from different perspectives to see if I'm wrong in anyway.

What would you do, how do you deal with issues like this?

And for research sake, let's have your moon, mars, pluto and rising, house + aspects.

Non aquas feel free to chime in.

I am 100% guilty of this with my Aqua make bff.

Usually, I burst when hes hurt me. Or if i feel vulnerable. Im just waiting for the day he leaves. It'll kill me a little.

Hard to give advice not knowing context. But give her a few days to chill abd understand she is human. Tell her it bothers you. We live communication.

Sun Sag/Rising Cancer/Taurus moon/Sco pluto/aries mars.

Hope it helps.

Thanks for the words guys.

I think @Sarah_Smile34 summed it up. I've known Sag to not see past things before but the one particular issue she kept pushing was me and my depression.

Truth be told she's not been there for me ever in that regard, no one has, it's been something I've just learnt to live with after 16 years of it. We're currently living together so I could help her and her husband out (they are in a bit of a financial crisis). I kinda knew from the start there'd be clashes but the one thing that set it off was I so happen to have left a bag of rubbish in my room. She's a bit of a clean freak.

I apologized upfront but she started digging into the fact that "oh it must be your depression and not wanting to do things", apparently I don't do things with them, I'm usually sleeping when I'm home. Then started having a go at me and my life choices so I'll quote, "You've gone no where, never going anywhere".

At that point I just sort of turned off from the argument as any attempt at salvaging anything turned into me trying to emotionally blackmail her or twisting her words.

All this yes I have witnessed before.

It's just a shame that she can't see the ways that I'm helping without me having to verbally tell her and even after all these years she still can't seem to grasp that's just me as a person.

Our history runs a bit deeper but that's pretty much what caused it. I'll be honest and say looking back at our history it's been pretty much the same only once before did it get that bad. Me hating to break long friendships is a real thing and even though I shouldn't feel bad, even though I know I didn't do anything wrong for some reason it just hurts.

I'll give it a while to blow over... but there's a line and she's crossed it a few times over.

I don't think aquas or anyone who is as self aware and detached as we are, like having the mirror put into us or being put under a microscope.

I find sag to be overbearing at times but they are very brazen and make good mirrors to reflect whatever is eating away at you, they are fire signs for a reason, they burn you with the truth and it takes you a while to heal but you learn your lesson in the end. I respect people who tell the truth but I am full aware that someone elses truth is not my own.

Holding onto anger is like holding onto a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone but you're the one who's getting burnt, just stay out of her way for the next week, maybe get out the house and go out clubbing and then come back disheveled with a couple of hoes get your shit and move in with them, shake things up a bit—

That's weird. my ex sagg- male bestfriend was one of the best people I've ever known until he started dating another aries and went off the deep end. It killed me to cut ties with him but I couldn't stand his psycho behavior. this happens to sagg's a lot so don't feel bad. i would take a step back and some space to weigh the pros/cons of staying friends with her...