First taste of, whoa where did that come from?

Imagine if you will: you're in a new relationship, you've just made it "official", you're both really into each other, you both can't possibly spend enough time together ... buuutt, the guy, in an effort to not completely neglect all his other friends, chooses to spend one Friday evening with them instead of you.

How do you girls usually react to that?

not too bad, but still surprising. I let her know last night (that's 2 days notice) ... lol, she was pissed. Oh well, I've always said I wanted to date a more passionate person. We'll see how this goes, she's pretty fiery for an Aquarius.

2 days notice is more than enough! LOL! She shouldn't be pissed but she probably doesn't wana share you. I wouldn't want to, I like to smother my partners, oh the joy!! *laughs*

Posted by Ligeia
As long as he didn't blow me off and

let it be known he was making plans

with his friends that particular Friday

it wouldn't bother me. Now if he up

and decided he was gonna chill with his

boys on Friday without saying anything

to me he might get the gas face lol.


I take it by the title of your post your

chick went in on you hard eh?

+1
Notice is better than the spring "Oh, btw. I have plans tomorrow. You don't mind right?"

Respect and courtesy are numeral uno in my book!

Not allowed to have Guys' Night?! Red flag :/

I call my Libra's best friend and say, "Come and get him, dude!"

As long as they tell me before hand so I can make my own plans

It seems I diffused the situation pretty well. lol, she's back to saying how wonderful I am. It's almost like she was maybe trying to pick a fight to see how I would react.

Do you guys ever do that? pick a fight just to see what the other person will do? I'm afraid I was guilty of that earlier in the relationship. That was funny, I pushed her buttons and got her all worked up. It's interesting the things that people hold a lot of energy around.

She was pissed? lol. Guess you better take her along next time. 🙂

id tell him to have a good time.

@ DMV ... now that's a good response. Haha, as long as you mean it and aren't going to hold a grudge for later.

so, for the sake of analysis, DMV, if your guy does do something that steps on your 'feelers' a little ... How do you react then? Do you get mad, sad, withdrawn, or anything else? Also, do you show your reaction to hurt feelings, or hide it?

haha, I'm just analyzing the psychologist

Posted by jru2


Do you guys ever do that? pick a fight just to see what the other person will do?

I think I do this subconsciously.