Girls should never ask a question about if or not

Hi girls,

I don't think you should ask such a question about "if or not the guy likes me".

If you can not feel...or he never makes you feel that he really likes you, then you should not waste you time...and you should know he is not the right one for you.

Never lower yourself to please someone who does not (or just very little) care about you.

Be confident and open-minded, you will find your Mr. Right.....it takes time, but it is worthy.

Best wishes to all girls!!! 🙂

Great advice but it's hard to tell sometimes when you're 'in it' if you know what I mean. For example; I always tend to ask for advice cause some men have a strange way of showing 'their' love/affection so to speak so it's almost like I need a confirmation even if I feel he does or does not like me..

An ex of mine (Aries) never really expressed in words how he felt EVER, it was hard for me to get my head round that. He showed little actions but I just 'felt' he loved me. He went to prison and he wrote me a letter saying how the chicken in there was diabolical and continued to say 'It's not a touch on your chicken dish babe'. It made me cry cause I could tell that him saying that was really heartlfelt (as stupid as that sounds) LOL

Sorry have I gone off the subject? I got a bad habit of doing that 🙂

Please don't be sorry...we are here free to say anything we want...it is the best way to learn from others.

I agree with you that some guys are really chicken to show their feelings... but the point is if you think those chicken guys really deserve your love. I don't like chicken guy...so I always ignore them 😉 I prefer honest & brave...

I would love an honest and brave man but unfortunately the only one I know if my father! 🙂

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Then your mom is the lucky girl 😉

Yea true

Guys act real interested at first. Then the interest wanes with no explanation whatsoever. Usually after he's gotten what he wanted, might've even professed his "love", etc,etc. This leaves girls wondering whats up. Hence the topic is posted.

Girls should not simply believe what guys just said from their "mouth" rather than from their "heart"...Please watch out!!!

Most guys are very good at "sweet-talks", if you believe all...then the probability of getting hurt would be very high!!!

In other hand, if "he" really loves you (he may not say it directly) and you have some connection with him...then you should feel the 'love', it is much safer when you can feel it from your heart than you feel nothing but only a word of 'love' out of his mouth...

Never use sex as the 'measurement' of love. 'He' love having sex with you does NOT mean he 'love' you...it is cruel.

I have been hurt one time... so I want to help girls to avoid being hurt.

Focus on what you really feel from your heart, and trust yourself.....use your mind rather than your ears.

I believe girls are smart enough to find your real love if you be aware... 🙂

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Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Sometimes it's just nice to have the reassurance, even when you know you're not getting it from the most logical place.

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This made me actually laugh! Yes very true though!! x

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Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Sometimes it's just nice to have the reassurance, even when you know you're not getting it from the most logical place.

This made me actually laugh! Yes very true though!! x

It's funny how sometimes just the act of typing thoughts out, makes you think about them in a different way. I'll take my "A-ha!" moments anyway I can get them.

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When you read it back, did it make you laugh too? I'm laughing whilst typing this 🙂