Hi .. I’m a Sagittarius... and I’m an addict

So.... I went out with the Capricorn last night. She admitted she was trying to take things slow... she’s cute but she pissed me off and it’s a turn off. She’s having money problems. I told her it was ok... again turned off by the indirectness of her having an attitude forcing me to break off our date Wednesday.

She was in the middle of boring me about a dog story when my new Pisces friend texted me saying she was going out to a place about 45 minutes away. I was tipsy and bored with cap so I told cap I was really tired as I had gotten up early to work out and was heading home... she wasn’t drinking or seeming to want to do anything but bore me anyway

So I hugged her good bye and drove to see my new Pisces friend. She’s a lot of fun and we partied for a few hours. I think it’s time to back Burner the cap.

My sags friends birthday is today so I’m going to take her out tonight... hopefully give her a present too.

HOWs everybody else’s weekend going?

I mean you get what you put out

My Pisces friend is dating a Sag

@unicornsag

I’m not done with Cap. She’s just stuck in her head. She has a lot going on. I’m letting her sort it out.

@roosagicorn

Not that I’m not ready to settle down. We are moving at two different paces. Nothing wrong with it.

We Pisces are fun to be with, so enjoy it 😉

@Brittnie

Oh yeah how she like it?

I like the Pisces. She likes tattoos. She’s multilingual 3 languages, likes art and photography. She also enjoys working out.

@pisceswoman123

We just started talking Friday. From our texting and hanging last night it was cool. No pressure. I don’t really know her relationship status. But I’ll definitey be her friend.

I like to know emotional status before I get intertwined with a water sign. But she seems sweet.

Caps never wanna be in a relationship tho lol I think he deserves the cap.

Sag is cool at first then wanna get married outta nowhere.

It’s not the sex craziness. I’d really wish women would stop saying that. I honesty don’t like flings or one nighters.

There are two people in any relationship. Compromise should come. Not detriments. I’ve never pressured her to shag and the only time she’s shown any hot and heavy romantic type physical interaction other than holding hands is when alcohol is involved.

She broke up with her last boyfriend in June. Let her sort her stuff out.

Carrying baggage around someone new isn’t a good thing.

I don’t think it has anything to do with her feeling safe. Her scorp friend has told me a few times she really likes me.

K ... get it... but I want something too. I’m not going to spend all this time with you and it’s one sided...

Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t think it has anything to do with her feeling safe. Her scorp friend has told me a few times she really likes me.

K ... get it... but I want something too. I’m not going to spend all this time with you and it’s one sided...

I feels that

A lot of times with cap it IS one sided and takes a ton of patience. Fire signs require much less "work".

Ehhhh. I was curious about her. I’ve always said that. She seems sweet but seems very secretive at least when it comes to talking about things with me. I’ve gotten more info out of her scorp friend than her directly.

I’m a hunter. And she’s pretty so yeah... I hunt. I’m just tired of actively pursuing someone who’s taking forever. It’s no fun.

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by hellosaggy
It’s not the sex craziness. I’d really wish women would stop saying that. I honesty don’t like flings or one nighters.

There are two people in any relationship. Compromise should come. Not detriments. I’ve never pressured her to shag and the only time she’s shown any hot and heavy romantic type physical interaction other than holding hands is when alcohol is involved.

She broke up with her last boyfriend in June. Let her sort her stuff out.

Carrying baggage around someone new isn’t a good thing.

You're bored with her. You find other people more interesting. You want sex and she doesn't. Seems to me she's just a goal to achieve.

I don't find a single thing that person that I'm really into could possibly do to make me bored at very start of relationship at least...I don't find anyone else more interesting. So considering it's still a start and you already feel this way you're not even into her as much as you think you are. She's a goal you must get or you won't rest calm lol I know cause I sometimes felt like that as well, more into hunt than the the prey itself

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IDK just to add my cents. When I first met my cap he literally just got in the car and never said a thing. It was very boring . And he's the one that went after me. It took him weeks to completely warm up. I gave up after a while but he kept pursuing me. He said he was nervous. But how u a grown man and nervous? I'm the younger one out of us.

Let me reiterate... i am sex crazy.I’m just not an addict sitting around banging hookers and jerking excessively 24x7.

sex to me is 3-4 days a week... good hour or so... maybe sprinkle in a couple quickies. I could do everyday and down for it.

Nothing too bad.

Yeah I feel you. I have to initiate everything with Capricorn. She’s aloof as all hell. I ghosted her for two days. She texted me she wanted me to spend time with her... I relent and go out and she proceeds to bore me... wtf you asked me here and nothing is going on.

I don’t see the games... I don’t play games. Don’t have time for them... that’s the difference. Everybody goes around getting emotionally attached in a failed relationship.

Simple checklist for me:

Mentally stable/above average intelligence

Sex

Can communicate

Fun

Sex

Loyal

That’s it! wtf is the game

@roosagicorn

That’s just it... I don’t drag stuff out. How much time have you wasted letting someone else set the pace of your relationships?

It’s not about the race it’s who you are running it with. It’s all about personality

EHhh it might be my aries moon too.

She’s pretty and her ex ended the relationship so something was lacking... just saying.

Only time I’ve ever been broken up with was due to LDR and I don’t even count that... bc she tried to back burner me..

You know that damn ex scorp text me the other day asking about is it ok to take her soft convertible top car through an automatic car wash? I ain’t talk to you in over a month other than texting happy birthday.

Google the shit or ask your stupid leo boyfriend... 😒

Cap has baggage from ex in June, but 3 weeks ago you were complaining about an ex not wanting to leave her current boyfriend when you abandoned her and popped back up.

K.

Bc I blew her off for wasting my time?

I was being nice instead of being blunt. We aren’t together. If she was engaging and not a damn prude I wouldn’t have left when I got the text in the first place. She’s gotten opportunities I wouldn’t have given in past.

For the record I have a lot of patience. Too much sometimes

Even her scorp friend rolls her eyes at her.

I don’t know if it’s just her or caps in general. it doesn’t feel organic...when she’s sober anyway... it’s very off putting and makes me feel insecure.

she has an Aries friend and scorp friend I get along with. all three of them were there last night . I get along with the cap. But I’ll be cool with her as a friend. That way she can continue not to want to have sex... lol. Honestly it seemed like her two friends are more into me than her it’s weird af.

I do have patience... 😒

Ok I don’t because I don’t see wtf the big deal is.

As I’ve gotten older, I don’t actively engage in sleeping with women I’m not interested in.

Every woman I’ve pursued I wanted something other than a fling with. The cap included.

I’ve turned down a lot of sex, including even in last month or so talking to her.

During the make out session she got some good mouth talents ... I ain’t waiting a year to find out though. She can holla at me when she want to if I’m not with someone else in a relationship. I don’t cheat 😎

Water sign women get emotionally deep pretty quick. I kind of want to learn her first as a friend. But at same time don’t want to go too slow and make her lose interest.

I can tell we will get along just on the surface... need to learn more about her and how she deals with things

Posted by hellosaggy
Yeah I feel you. I have to initiate everything with Capricorn. She’s aloof as all hell. I ghosted her for two days. She texted me she wanted me to spend time with her... I relent and go out and she proceeds to bore me... wtf you asked me here and nothing is going on.

Ok, it seems you all have been talking for a bit. Instead of going through her Scorp friend, have you tried talking directly to her? If she's willing to go out with you, it seems you have some level of a rapport with her to address your concerns.

I talk to her...she gives me general answers.... she says she doesn't want to burden her problems on me.... which is fine.... but its effecting our time together.

she's having a few financial situations that are leaking into other areas.... It's way too early in the game to be playing financial support cushion....so I do things like take her to dinner and stuff like that, but I ain't paying no bills.

What is your addiction ?

Posted by hellosaggy
@Brittnie

Oh yeah how she like it?

I like the Pisces. She likes tattoos. She’s multilingual 3 languages, likes art and photography. She also enjoys working out.

It’s a struggle somewhat cuz he’s more emotional than her. He’s crazy about her though

is this another lowkey brag about being a whore? sounds like it. maybe one day you will learn you don't go around exchanging energies with people all willy nilly. but whatever. yawn. exit.

Oh shit everybody hide yo girlfriends

Posted by hellosaggy

So.... I went out with the Capricorn last night. She admitted she was trying to take things slow... she’s cute but she pissed me off and it’s a turn off. She’s having money problems. I told her it was ok... again turned off by the indirectness of her having an attitude forcing me to break off our date Wednesday.

She was in the middle of boring me about a dog story when my new Pisces friend texted me saying she was going out to a place about 45 minutes away. I was tipsy and bored with cap so I told cap I was really tired as I had gotten up early to work out and was heading home... she wasn’t drinking or seeming to want to do anything but bore me anyway

So I hugged her good bye and drove to see my new Pisces friend. She’s a lot of fun and we partied for a few hours. I think it’s time to back Burner the cap.

My sags friends birthday is today so I’m going to take her out tonight... hopefully give her a present too.

I DO hope I am not a asshole like this with people.

LOL

I would not go out with someone who gets me bored since the first Date. noway!