hmmppfff??

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i love my sag...
he's so......beautiful?
he wants to marry me later on in life..
but i'm indecisive at this point.
the thought of marriage scares me.
I have a feeling i'd feel stuck.
But anyone who's married, is it as "beautiful" as it seems? a new life right? new life sounds tastey, but analyzing it through brings negative points also - such as being stuck at home and having to always cook for his damn ass and doing all that wifey buisness. Eh, just a ladies imagination taking to flight. And kids!! holy!!!
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I will have to disagree with you on that one Phoenix. It really does depend on the person and how well they know themselves. I KNOW that I will NOT jump into a marriage blindly. I did it once and that was enough for me. When we truly KNOW who we are we will not settle for anything less than what we feel we deserve. I would rather live by myself and enjoy life than get married for the wrong reasons. Speaking of kids....I was ready and I knew when I wanted them. We do know, it is whether we listen to ourselves or choose to live blindly through life. I think this also has a lot to do with trusting our instincts.

I will agree Phoenix that there are situations that will "pop" into our lives and yes we do need to adjust to them...we still are able to choose if we want to engage in that situation or not though.

Just my humble thoughts on what I have learned and what works for me.
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and i just realized my post topic sounds like i have a serious case of constipation, someone pass me some laxative pills.

anyway, I dont see the difference in being married and being not married any,pre, you guys are still together, even if you guys are married, that dont mean you have to settle down. It just gives you more advantages anyway in other areas that deal with money. So being married, being together, hell i dont see the difference anymore. And kids? right now, the thought of kids scare me, but we'll see if i'm ready a few years later...

i mean 17-18 years later...