Bubbles328
@Bubbles328
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How do you get rid of a sag male?
If all else fails, call the cops.
Some of our breakups lasted a few months and I did see other people in those few months, one he knew about the rest he did not.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
He was sometimes really fun and spontaneous and that's what I liked most about him so since splitting up we've met up a couple of times to do fun dates stuff like that.
The fact that you've been dating him after the breakup is also confusing. Generally speaking the best way to end a relationship is with a clean break. The problem is, none of your breakups have stuck and he's aware of that. He's knows that all it takes to get you back is to pester you nonstop. So you need to break this pattern first.
The more I pull away the more he calls and the stuff he calls about "you know I love you but I can't come back" Yeah I know you can't come back cos I won't allow it! And he thinks this is a game too "you're getting your bit of fun now it'll stop soon" this isn't my fun I don't want to be with him and i'v made that perfectly clear but he thinks it's all a game!
Yep, it IS a game and he feels like you're a willing participant. He also sounds like he is controlling, only wanting things his way. The best thing to do is simply stop talking to him and move on with your life. Start dating other people again and make sure the breakup sticks this time. I'm sure one of the new guys will be happy to scare him off, though it really shouldn't have to come to that. Definitely stop catering to his ego to get him to back off, that's also sending the wrong message.
And again, if all else fails, call the cops.
Some of our breakups lasted a few months and I did see other people in those few months, one he knew about the rest he did not.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
He was sometimes really fun and spontaneous and that's what I liked most about him so since splitting up we've met up a couple of times to do fun dates stuff like that.
The fact that you've been dating him after the breakup is also confusing. Generally speaking the best way to end a relationship is with a clean break. The problem is, none of your breakups have stuck and he's aware of that. He's knows that all it takes to get you back is to pester you nonstop. So you need to break this pattern first.
The more I pull away the more he calls and the stuff he calls about "you know I love you but I can't come back" Yeah I know you can't come back cos I won't allow it! And he thinks this is a game too "you're getting your bit of fun now it'll stop soon" this isn't my fun I don't want to be with him and i'v made that perfectly clear but he thinks it's all a game!
Yep, it IS a game and he feels like you're a willing participant. He also sounds like he is controlling, only wanting things his way. The best thing to do is simply stop talking to him and move on with your life. Start dating other people again and make sure the breakup sticks this time. I'm sure one of the new guys will be happy to scare him off, though it really shouldn't have to come to that. Definitely stop catering to his ego to get him to back off, that's also sending the wrong message.
And again, if all else fails, call the cops.
There's no way.
Posted by ChuckcemWow do you know me? Was that me? ha ha ha. I tell myself every time "this is it" I can be fumingly angry with him for ages and not speak to him. Thinking of our past makes me angry and upset and leads me to pull away more yet he finds me in a weak spot and I can't help but take him back and I deeply regret it the next day! He is abusive and has been physically violent in the past and the police have been involved he was put on a better relationships course to stop being physically abusive.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
The abuse systems in the UK are hopeless Iv just completed my PhD in how legislations and support systems fail victims because here it is seriously flawed. The police don't have the training or capability to deal with abusive situations or victims. He once broke into my house and passed out when I called the police they said "we can't wake him and remove him because that's breach of peace" even though it is my house his name was on nothing. I had a restraining order on him for a while but he found ways around it such as calling from pay phones. The police told me unless I had video footage of him entering a payphone booth at the same time I received a call there was little they could do! He has no fixed address either so if I report him they can't find him he also works in different places every day so they can't pinpoint his location to arrest him either! It's totally hopeless.
Ignoring him goes in steps
0-5 days calls several times a day or just goes quiet if he can't get hold of me
5-10 days notes and turning up at my house
10-15 days gifts and notes
15 days + showing up everywhere and anywhere
I was hoping by "letting him down gently" (keeping minimal contact) he'd leave on his own accord but he's now becoming suspicious because it's never been anywhere near this long before i'v caved.
I know for a fact I need to be single for my mentality and until hes off the scene for good and now I find it hard to develop bonds with new guys (true aqua style ) only thing i'm capable of is a few weeks/ months of fun then i walk away. The one guy he knew about was done with hope he'd fully go if he knew i'd been with someone else (it was also with his best friend (I know I'm horrible)) but no he got me and kept me in his sight for days begging and crying for me to take him back. I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy.
Anyways thanks for your reply it was very helpful
Posted by whatisthisallaboutHitman?
There's no way.
moving to the other side of the world and changing my identity?
I guess i could try these
Tell him there are undiscovered islands near antartica, and she should go discover them.
Posted by Bubbles328Hahaha no I'm not in your country. That's unfortunate to hear that the abuse policies where you live are nonexistent. Well if the the police won't help, then you'll need to protect yourself.Posted by ChuckcemWow do you know me? Was that me? ha ha ha. I tell myself every time "this is it" I can be fumingly angry with him for ages and not speak to him. Thinking of our past makes me angry and upset and leads me to pull away more yet he finds me in a weak spot and I can't help but take him back and I deeply regret it the next day! He is abusive and has been physically violent in the past and the police have been involved he was put on a better relationships course to stop being physically abusive.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
The abuse systems in the UK are hopeless Iv just completed my PhD in how legislations and support systems fail victims because here it is seriously flawed. The police don't have the training or capability to deal with abusive situations or victims. He once broke into my house and passed out when I called the police they said "we can't wake him and remove him because that's breach of peace" even though it is my house his name was on nothing. I had a restraining order on him for a while but he found ways around it such as calling from pay phones. The police told me unless I had video footage of him entering a payphone booth at the same time I received a call there was little they could do! He has no fixed address either so if I report him they can't find him he also works in different places every day so they can't pinpoint his location to arrest him either! It's totally hopeless.
Ignoring him goes in steps
0-5 days calls several times a day or just goes quiet if he can't get hold of me
5-10 days notes and turning up at my house
10-15 days gifts and notes
15 days + showing up everywhere and anywhere
I was hoping by "letting him down gently" (keeping minimal contact) he'd leave on his own accord but he's now becoming suspicious because it's never been anywhere near this long before i'v caved.
I know for a fact I need to be single for my mentality and until hes off the scene for good and now I find it hard to develop bonds with new guys (true aqua style ) only thing i'm capable of is a few weeks/ months of fun then i walk away. The one guy he knew about was done with hope he'd fully go if he knew i'd been with someone else (it was also with his best friend (I know I'm horrible)) but no he got me and kept me in his sight for days begging and crying for me to take him back. I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy.
Anyways thanks for your reply it was very helpful
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First, definitely stop taking him back, otherwise you will be trapped in this "game" forever. You've already seen how difficult it can be to form new bonds with people when you have this much baggage preventing your progress.
I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy."
In what way is that unfair? Ever heard of a bodyguard? Let your friends know that you are having an issue with this guy. I'm sure they'd have your back. If one of my lady friends had an issue with a guy, me and the rest of my friends would be ready for him. He'd seriously think twice before contacting her again. Stop worrying about this guy's well being because he surely isn't concerned about yours.
In what way is that unfair? Ever heard of a bodyguard? Let your friends know that you are having an issue with this guy. I'm sure they'd have your back. If one of my lady friends had an issue with a guy, me and the rest of my friends would be ready for him. He'd seriously think twice before contacting her again. Stop worrying about this guy's well being because he surely isn't concerned about yours.
My dads in biker gangs and has lots of friends I tend to keep my mouth shut when it comes to talking to friends and family about him because they would all get seriously heavy and I think that would provoke the situation further. Plus one of the guys i was seeing in between that i'm still friends with did some time inside for possessing firearms. Whenever theres been a threat on him before it's seen as a challenge to him so he tries harder and i can't have someone here for me 24/7 protecting me forever. My ex husband the father of my kids did some serious damage to his face to get him to stay away from me but still...... He had an ex he was with for 20 years even when we were together and still now he harasses the hell out of her unlucky for her she has his kids too so it's harder for her to get away. Only way I can see me getting out of this is to ignore him until he looses it and comes for me then it'll be a fight until one of us ends up dead! He tried to kill me a couple of times before but he couldn't even do that right so I don't fancy his chances! ha He seriously needs to get someone else but even then I don't think he'd stop bothering me he'd then try to use me in a game between him and her "I love you but i still love her" to get her all eager and fighting for him. I can't see a way out of this without him being killed TBH.
Posted by Bubbles328In what way is that unfair? Ever heard of a bodyguard? Let your friends know that you are having an issue with this guy. I'm sure they'd have your back. If one of my lady friends had an issue with a guy, me and the rest of my friends would be ready for him. He'd seriously think twice before contacting her again. Stop worrying about this guy's well being because he surely isn't concerned about yours.
My dads in biker gangs and has lots of friends I tend to keep my mouth shut when it comes to talking to friends and family about him because they would all get seriously heavy and I think that would provoke the situation further. Plus one of the guys i was seeing in between that i'm still friends with did some time inside for possessing firearms. Whenever theres been a threat on him before it's seen as a challenge to him so he tries harder and i can't have someone here for me 24/7 protecting me forever. My ex husband the father of my kids did some serious damage to his face to get him to stay away from me but still...... He had an ex he was with for 20 years even when we were together and still now he harasses the hell out of her unlucky for her she has his kids too so it's harder for her to get away. Only way I can see me getting out of this is to ignore him until he looses it and comes for me then it'll be a fight until one of us ends up dead! He tried to kill me a couple of times before but he couldn't even do that right so I don't fancy his chances! ha He seriously needs to get someone else but even then I don't think he'd stop bothering me he'd then try to use me in a game between him and her "I love you but i still love her" to get her all eager and fighting for him. I can't see a way out of this without him being killed TBH.
My dads in biker gangs and has lots of friends I tend to keep my mouth shut when it comes to talking to friends and family about him because they would all get seriously heavy and I think that would provoke the situation further.
See...as a Leo...I would totally used this option...and relish it...You have to understand, this guy has you victimized to the point that you're crossing options off of your list. That's what abusers do. They isolate you to make you feel alone in your struggle. Luckily you can see this is a bad situation. I also understand if you don't want the situation to end in violence....but at the same time you have to protect yourself.
If things get rough, I do encourage you to let go of your Aqua pride and TELL someone who can help you. I know you have this "I can handle this" mentality, but know there's nothing wrong with calling for assistance. I'm sure your ex doesn't want this creep around his kids. I'm sure your dad would be devastated if anything happened to you. This isn't just about you, your family and friends will also suffer if anything happens to you.
I can't see a way out of this without him being killed TBH.
Also understand that if it goes THAT far, you could go to prison. Don't let it get to that point.
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
Posted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
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We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Posted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
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Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody else
Posted by Bubbles328Sorry, you're not trying hard. My ex-bf is Saggy (4 Dec). When I broke up with him HE told me, "Don't worry about me. I will NOT drive by your home". Great!Posted by ChuckcemWow do you know me? Was that me? ha ha ha. I tell myself every time "this is it" I can be fumingly angry with him for ages and not speak to him. Thinking of our past makes me angry and upset and leads me to pull away more yet he finds me in a weak spot and I can't help but take him back and I deeply regret it the next day! He is abusive and has been physically violent in the past and the police have been involved he was put on a better relationships course to stop being physically abusive.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
The abuse systems in the UK are hopeless Iv just completed my PhD in how legislations and support systems fail victims because here it is seriously flawed. The police don't have the training or capability to deal with abusive situations or victims. He once broke into my house and passed out when I called the police they said "we can't wake him and remove him because that's breach of peace" even though it is my house his name was on nothing. I had a restraining order on him for a while but he found ways around it such as calling from pay phones. The police told me unless I had video footage of him entering a payphone booth at the same time I received a call there was little they could do! He has no fixed address either so if I report him they can't find him he also works in different places every day so they can't pinpoint his location to arrest him either! It's totally hopeless.
Ignoring him goes in steps
0-5 days calls several times a day or just goes quiet if he can't get hold of me
5-10 days notes and turning up at my house
10-15 days gifts and notes
15 days + showing up everywhere and anywhere
I was hoping by "letting him down gently" (keeping minimal contact) he'd leave on his own accord but he's now becoming suspicious because it's never been anywhere near this long before i'v caved.
I know for a fact I need to be single for my mentality and until hes off the scene for good and now I find it hard to develop bonds with new guys (true aqua style ) only thing i'm capable of is a few weeks/ months of fun then i walk away. The one guy he knew about was done with hope he'd fully go if he knew i'd been with someone else (it was also with his best friend (I know I'm horrible)) but no he got me and kept me in his sight for days begging and crying for me to take him back. I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy.
Anyways thanks for your reply it was very helpful
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I blocked him on FB and on my cell phone. Then I went to POF and started my profile all over again. He was there and sent me a short message, "I miss you". I blocked him and then deleted his message altogether. I did NOT respond as that, "Opens the flood gates". He texted me last year and again, I blocked him.
I guess it's my assertiveness and strong intimidation as a Piscean that he has NOT gotten in contact with me. He FINALLY got the message. Your Saggy sounds like a stalker and someone with separation issues as I've also learned that Saggies HATE to be ignored. I SWEAR if my ex-bf (Saggy) would attend the club and I saw him, I will leave the club! Same if I saw him at a restaurant. I hear a motorcycle zoom by my house and I DON'T run to the window to see if it's him....so much for the, "I won't drive by your house."
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by HarukkaReally? I will MEMORIZE it from now on, I swear! 😢Posted by TheSagIt's ok, about 90% of people here think I'm a manPosted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody else
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Posted by sagoyathat's what I thought as well LOLPosted by TheSagAnd people always thought i was a girl.. ?Posted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody elseclick to expand
Posted by EvatheDivaStop blocking and ignoring him!!! You sound like one of those EVIL aquas. 😡Posted by Bubbles328Sorry, you're not trying hard. My ex-bf is Saggy (4 Dec). When I broke up with him HE told me, "Don't worry about me. I will NOT drive by your home". Great!Posted by ChuckcemWow do you know me? Was that me? ha ha ha. I tell myself every time "this is it" I can be fumingly angry with him for ages and not speak to him. Thinking of our past makes me angry and upset and leads me to pull away more yet he finds me in a weak spot and I can't help but take him back and I deeply regret it the next day! He is abusive and has been physically violent in the past and the police have been involved he was put on a better relationships course to stop being physically abusive.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
The abuse systems in the UK are hopeless Iv just completed my PhD in how legislations and support systems fail victims because here it is seriously flawed. The police don't have the training or capability to deal with abusive situations or victims. He once broke into my house and passed out when I called the police they said "we can't wake him and remove him because that's breach of peace" even though it is my house his name was on nothing. I had a restraining order on him for a while but he found ways around it such as calling from pay phones. The police told me unless I had video footage of him entering a payphone booth at the same time I received a call there was little they could do! He has no fixed address either so if I report him they can't find him he also works in different places every day so they can't pinpoint his location to arrest him either! It's totally hopeless.
Ignoring him goes in steps
0-5 days calls several times a day or just goes quiet if he can't get hold of me
5-10 days notes and turning up at my house
10-15 days gifts and notes
15 days + showing up everywhere and anywhere
I was hoping by "letting him down gently" (keeping minimal contact) he'd leave on his own accord but he's now becoming suspicious because it's never been anywhere near this long before i'v caved.
I know for a fact I need to be single for my mentality and until hes off the scene for good and now I find it hard to develop bonds with new guys (true aqua style ) only thing i'm capable of is a few weeks/ months of fun then i walk away. The one guy he knew about was done with hope he'd fully go if he knew i'd been with someone else (it was also with his best friend (I know I'm horrible)) but no he got me and kept me in his sight for days begging and crying for me to take him back. I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy.
Anyways thanks for your reply it was very helpful
I blocked him on FB and on my cell phone. Then I went to POF and started my profile all over again. He was there and sent me a short message, "I miss you". I blocked him and then deleted his message altogether. I did NOT respond as that, "Opens the flood gates". He texted me last year and again, I blocked him.
I guess it's my assertiveness and strong intimidation as a Piscean that he has NOT gotten in contact with me. He FINALLY got the message. Your Saggy sounds like a stalker and someone with separation issues as I've also learned that Saggies HATE to be ignored. I SWEAR if my ex-bf (Saggy) would attend the club and I saw him, I will leave the club! Same if I saw him at a restaurant. I hear a motorcycle zoom by my house and I DON'T run to the window to see if it's him....so much for the, "I won't drive by your house."
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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We got feelings too 😢
Posted by TheSagToo late and that was a year ago; sorry, not Aquarius. Besides that, "It's my prerogative."Posted by EvatheDivaStop blocking and ignoring him!!! You sound like one of those EVIL aquas. 😡Posted by Bubbles328Sorry, you're not trying hard. My ex-bf is Saggy (4 Dec). When I broke up with him HE told me, "Don't worry about me. I will NOT drive by your home". Great!Posted by ChuckcemWow do you know me? Was that me? ha ha ha. I tell myself every time "this is it" I can be fumingly angry with him for ages and not speak to him. Thinking of our past makes me angry and upset and leads me to pull away more yet he finds me in a weak spot and I can't help but take him back and I deeply regret it the next day! He is abusive and has been physically violent in the past and the police have been involved he was put on a better relationships course to stop being physically abusive.
First you have to realize that you've entertained his behavior multiple times. You keep going back to him apparently after dating other guys. I myself literally stopped talking to an Aqua who did this. She said she was done with her abusive/controlling ex only to go back to him, which later I learned she had been doing for years. So it's not surprising that he keeps popping back into the picture. He expects for everything to play out as usual.
The abuse systems in the UK are hopeless Iv just completed my PhD in how legislations and support systems fail victims because here it is seriously flawed. The police don't have the training or capability to deal with abusive situations or victims. He once broke into my house and passed out when I called the police they said "we can't wake him and remove him because that's breach of peace" even though it is my house his name was on nothing. I had a restraining order on him for a while but he found ways around it such as calling from pay phones. The police told me unless I had video footage of him entering a payphone booth at the same time I received a call there was little they could do! He has no fixed address either so if I report him they can't find him he also works in different places every day so they can't pinpoint his location to arrest him either! It's totally hopeless.
Ignoring him goes in steps
0-5 days calls several times a day or just goes quiet if he can't get hold of me
5-10 days notes and turning up at my house
10-15 days gifts and notes
15 days + showing up everywhere and anywhere
I was hoping by "letting him down gently" (keeping minimal contact) he'd leave on his own accord but he's now becoming suspicious because it's never been anywhere near this long before i'v caved.
I know for a fact I need to be single for my mentality and until hes off the scene for good and now I find it hard to develop bonds with new guys (true aqua style ) only thing i'm capable of is a few weeks/ months of fun then i walk away. The one guy he knew about was done with hope he'd fully go if he knew i'd been with someone else (it was also with his best friend (I know I'm horrible)) but no he got me and kept me in his sight for days begging and crying for me to take him back. I know a few bouncers and have contemplated getting myself a huge muscly guy to help me get rid of him but that's totally unfair on the guy.
Anyways thanks for your reply it was very helpful
I blocked him on FB and on my cell phone. Then I went to POF and started my profile all over again. He was there and sent me a short message, "I miss you". I blocked him and then deleted his message altogether. I did NOT respond as that, "Opens the flood gates". He texted me last year and again, I blocked him.
I guess it's my assertiveness and strong intimidation as a Piscean that he has NOT gotten in contact with me. He FINALLY got the message. Your Saggy sounds like a stalker and someone with separation issues as I've also learned that Saggies HATE to be ignored. I SWEAR if my ex-bf (Saggy) would attend the club and I saw him, I will leave the club! Same if I saw him at a restaurant. I hear a motorcycle zoom by my house and I DON'T run to the window to see if it's him....so much for the, "I won't drive by your house."
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
We got feelings too 😢click to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thanks guys the sag forums pretty cool and friendly! Think I might be crossing them off my list to avoid must of just found a bad one!
He showed up tonight my kids were outside the house they aren't young but I'm over protective and they aren't to leave the garden until they're 30. Anyways I was watching out the window and it's van pulled up a little down the street ( the kids know nothing about him even though we've been together years) I got them in as quick as I could and locked the door shut the curtains. He went usually when I'm on a no contact stretch I won't contact him full stop but this time involved the kids so I text him and told him to stay the hell away from my kids and told him we were done so get over it and he's majorly backed off he can't call or text me back he's blocked but on the land line when I reconnect I can see if he's tried and he hasn't! he's been trying my land line 10+ times a day lately it agrivates the situation when I go completely no contact with him so I dunno the best way around this sending the odd eff off text seems to be effective for keeping him away as NC sends him into total crazy stalker mode.
He showed up tonight my kids were outside the house they aren't young but I'm over protective and they aren't to leave the garden until they're 30. Anyways I was watching out the window and it's van pulled up a little down the street ( the kids know nothing about him even though we've been together years) I got them in as quick as I could and locked the door shut the curtains. He went usually when I'm on a no contact stretch I won't contact him full stop but this time involved the kids so I text him and told him to stay the hell away from my kids and told him we were done so get over it and he's majorly backed off he can't call or text me back he's blocked but on the land line when I reconnect I can see if he's tried and he hasn't! he's been trying my land line 10+ times a day lately it agrivates the situation when I go completely no contact with him so I dunno the best way around this sending the odd eff off text seems to be effective for keeping him away as NC sends him into total crazy stalker mode.
Posted by TheSag
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
Kinda hard not to talk or think about him when I'm always looking over my shoulder lol
1, I look ugly round him on a regular basis but the poor guys not very fortunate himself (ever seen someone with psoriasis literally all over their body (from head to foot) it was like living with a snake with the skin he shed) so I'm guessing my beached whale just got out of the bath and gunna put the ugliest pjs ever on look won't bother him ?
2, iv tried this so many times even slept with his best mate and he still didn't believe me until he walked in the room and caught us and even if it were a true story he still won't leave me alone
3, half the end argument was over money and gifts he hadn't bought me a birthday or Christmas present this year and he earns more than me but I'm bringing up 2 kids keeping a house etc and he wants money from me? So already tried this one
4, dude that's personal hygiene lol you can't mess with that
Ignore him hmmm I'm trying but this is my issue he's in my face ?? so it's not really working for me
Posted by Bubbles328You are definately wife material that's why he keeps chasing you!!!Posted by TheSag
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
Kinda hard not to talk or think about him when I'm always looking over my shoulder lol
1, I look ugly round him on a regular basis but the poor guys not very fortunate himself (ever seen someone with psoriasis literally all over their body (from head to foot) it was like living with a snake with the skin he shed) so I'm guessing my beached whale just got out of the bath and gunna put the ugliest pjs ever on look won't bother him ?
2, iv tried this so many times even slept with his best mate and he still didn't believe me until he walked in the room and caught us and even if it were a true story he still won't leave me alone
3, half the end argument was over money and gifts he hadn't bought me a birthday or Christmas present this year and he earns more than me but I'm bringing up 2 kids keeping a house etc and he wants money from me? So already tried this one
4, dude that's personal hygiene lol you can't mess with that
Ignore him hmmm I'm trying but this is my issue he's in my face ?? so it's not really working for me
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This poor saggy bastard, he is just not good enough for you. 😢
Posted by sagoyaToo late, from now on you are a man.Posted by HarukkaHahahahaha i was just playing ? a late april fool prank.. lolPosted by sagoyaYou're not a girl ??Posted by TheSagAnd people always thought i was a girl.. ?Posted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody else
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You betrayed my trust!
Posted by sagoya😉Posted by TheSagPosted by Bubbles328You are definately wife material that's why he keeps chasing you!!!Posted by TheSag
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
Kinda hard not to talk or think about him when I'm always looking over my shoulder lol
1, I look ugly round him on a regular basis but the poor guys not very fortunate himself (ever seen someone with psoriasis literally all over their body (from head to foot) it was like living with a snake with the skin he shed) so I'm guessing my beached whale just got out of the bath and gunna put the ugliest pjs ever on look won't bother him ?
2, iv tried this so many times even slept with his best mate and he still didn't believe me until he walked in the room and caught us and even if it were a true story he still won't leave me alone
3, half the end argument was over money and gifts he hadn't bought me a birthday or Christmas present this year and he earns more than me but I'm bringing up 2 kids keeping a house etc and he wants money from me? So already tried this one
4, dude that's personal hygiene lol you can't mess with that
Ignore him hmmm I'm trying but this is my issue he's in my face ?? so it's not really working for me
This poor saggy bastard, he is just not good enough for you. 😢
Know what... even as a sag, i can never tell when a sag is genuinely complimenting or being sarcastic..
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Posted by sagoya...and my heart 😢Posted by TheSagPosted by sagoyaToo late, from now on you are a man.Posted by HarukkaHahahahaha i was just playing ? a late april fool prank.. lolPosted by sagoyaYou're not a girl ??Posted by TheSagAnd people always thought i was a girl.. ?Posted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody else
You betrayed my trust!
Lmao... omg omg i broke a sag's trust... i'm so doomed —??
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I gotta work out now to overcome the pain...
Posted by sagoyaWhat? Who says such evil things about me? 😡Posted by TheSagPosted by sagoya...and my heart 😢Posted by TheSagPosted by sagoyaToo late, from now on you are a man.Posted by HarukkaHahahahaha i was just playing ? a late april fool prank.. lolPosted by sagoyaYou're not a girl ??Posted by TheSagAnd people always thought i was a girl.. ?Posted by HarukkaI am sorry but I always thought you were a male.....??Posted by TheSagPosted by HarukkaI know!Posted by TheSagShe is an aqua, sag men will always find her weak spot .
Oh please, if you really wanted to get rid of him you wouldn't even talk about him. ^^
But anyway here are some suggestions:
- look ugly
- tell him you are pregnant but still haven't figured out who of the 3 guys you slept with is the real father - but you can imagine him becoming a good daddy even when it's not his child at all
- ask for more gifts and money
- don't shower too often
Or just CUT him off!
We are so awesome and sexy!
🙂
Lol a real fire man ?❤❤
Sag men are my cup of tea..the same fire, the same energy., Make my heart melt lol ??
Or maybe I am confusing you with somebody else
You betrayed my trust!
Lmao... omg omg i broke a sag's trust... i'm so doomed —??
I gotta work out now to overcome the pain...
.... you have a heart— Astrologers say you dont hv a heart —?
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there is a pic of me next to the definition of heart in the dictionary
I'm confused about the controlling and abuse parts...hmmmm
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