I hate being jealous...

...and possessive. It's the worst. Tonight I had to deal with it for the first time in a while. Had a few friends over at the house for a celebration and among them was the leo guy. However, a girl friend of mine was getting on my nerves. She knows I like the leo guy, but she kept getting really close with him. Like asking to take pictures with him. And then she kept telling him "we should do a movie together" even though just the other day I mentioned to her how he asked if I wanted to make a movie with him. I wouldn't have minded it the first time, but she kept mentioning it again and again. *sigh* I really hate this feeling of jealousy. It's the most annoying feeling ever, but it somehow seems to creep up on me when I really like someone. I enjoy spending time with my friend, but when it gets down to stuff like that and it feels like she's doing this stuff purposely then it really starts to get at me, and that's when I hate it the most. I don't like feeling like I'm in a competition. I like being pursued and I don't want to be the one chase, or having to take care of other women along the way. It's just annoying.

So idk, just felt like mentioning this on the boards because I hate it and I wish I didn't feel this way. Idk if it's the scorpio moon or all that cap in my chart. I just wish it'd go away tho...I don't like feeling that way about or towards people. Especially if I'm not wanting to date at the moment.

he who hesitates, masturbates.

I was really jealous in my last relationship.

Probably cause I felt like it was hanging on by a thread. ( Which It was)

I agree the feeling sucks.



There was this one time me and my other sag friend kind of got into it over this cancer guy.

I never really told her I liked him, I don't even think I did but I was curious to see if you know, MAYBE there could be something.

We ended up hanging out because she was dating his other friends who was a cancer. So I thought hey I'll play along here.

We would all kind of "double date"

I remember one day I was texting him and he's like " (other sag) just showed up here with a pizza for me"

I was like wtf? I got all pissed lol. It was stupid. But we actually ended up getting in a fight over it.

We made up tho cause be both realized it was petty and small.

After that I was like whatever to him. But ever since than this was like 2 years ago. We still txt and call sometimes. He has a really pretty sag girlfriend now tho. Good for him.

I do wonder what i would of been like to sleep with him. It never got there but I had a lot of chances. Hmmm....lol

It's funny, he has a lot of virgo so he's really not that big on attention, though I always catch him in the act of it when he asks if I'll look at his work.
Not really sure what he was doing while he was talking to her. They were in the same general area, but half the time this pisces guy was talking to me or I'd be teasing my sister's boyfriend (We treat each other like siblings). A lot of things going around and I had to be the host cus I brought everyone there. I honestly wasn't that annoyed with the situation until I walked in later and me and the leo started a conversation. My friend came up by me while I was talking to him and hit my bag roughly...I just ignored her, and then I remembered she had been missing with me earlier while I was trying to talk to him as well...It just confuses me why people would go out of their way to do immature things like that just to divert someones attention. I just don't see the thrill in fighting over someone. They either like you or they don't, and if someone likes the fact that two girls are fighting over them then that's a big red flag right there. Thankfully it's the summer and I'm staying single. *sigh* I don't need the added emotions. I'm good thanks 😛

libra. love her to death, but when she gets irritated she gets kinda immature. Slams doors and such.

saggis flirt so universally. never malicious. imo

i dont get along famously well with libra ladies.

Posted by WynterBourne
Ugh, Leos. I'll bet he grinned and preened and jizzed all over himself while this chicky was stroking him in front of you.

He probably never even looked in your direction while she was doing it, huh.

Damn attention whores.

Ha! You'd like the attention too so don't be jealous 😉

Posted by DMV
saggis flirt so universally. never malicious. imo

Yeah. Ours is more of an innocent flirt. If I flirt it's just the way I talk to you. But I don't flirt with someone elses bf or a guy I know a girl likes.

Posted by DMV
i dont get along famously well with libra ladies.

I actually get along fairly well, but shes just been really emotional this past month so I've been kinda keeping my distance because I can't be around anyone with really intense emotions for too long. So while I do enjoy being friends with her I will take her in small doses.

This is the first female libra that I've been really good friends with so I'm not aware of whether malicious flirting is their style or not.

My sag friend flirts alot she is a double sag with cancer moon

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Posted by happykitsune
libra. love her to death, but when she gets irritated she gets kinda immature. Slams doors and such.

I thought that's what women like to do anyways ?

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Do what? Slam door? Maybe an overly emotional women who can't control her anger. I mean, I've had anger issues in the past, but I've matured and learned to control myself. There are a lot of people these days who still haven't matured tho, despite their age

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Posted by DMV
saggis flirt so universally. never malicious. imo

Yeah, I used to think so too. You'd be surprised :/

Oh well. 🙂

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there must have been a naughty horse out there. i actually try to turn my sexy down in front of some men including the boyfriends of my girls. i never want to have a conversation like that.

Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag friend flirts alot she is a double sag with cancer moon

i must say i really enjoy it.

I'm not to worried about her. Back when I was dating the scorpio and didn't like the leo the libra asked if it was ok if she asked him to this get together at our school since she knew I liked him. What she didn't know is I was planning on going with the scorpio. So I gave her the ok. The leo said no tho. Sooo I'm not worried. That and the leo is very mellow. Not the emotional type. If I can't handle being around the libra for more than too long there is no way he'd survive even a day with her. lol

My Sagg friend the one I like A LOT, but can't go any further because of our history? He's soooo good! He shares his feelings freely about how much he cares and all; but I pumped the brakes? OMG! He's not withdrawn, but so cool about it! Not that I want him to mull over me, well I kinda do; but he just goes about his day "Business As Usual"! It kills me because I know he cares, but he keeps gliding like nothing happened!

I have a Sagg cousin. His wife cheated on him 2 times-same man-had to get a paternity test too! Their still together 20+ years later because he loves his family and couldn't imagine life without his kids. Secretly, I know he still loves his wife tho! Never talks about her in any negative way no matter what she's done. We were talking and he said he saw this same man (she cheated with) at a local store near their home. How ironic is that? He just passed me that bit of information in a normal conversation and kept gliding to the next topic like nothing happened!

In my situation, I know Mr. Sagg is wondering if there's someone else and I know he's already probing and playing columbo that you all do so well. Asking questions as if there's no intentions behind them and I answer without a notion until much later! I also know my cousin has got to be suspicious. He'll probably set a few traps around the house to make sure. But both appear to me to be so Emotionless and Reserved! Their birthdays are days apart! Same Year!!!


You guys hide jealousy/insecurities so well. In every situation. Pisses me off! Makes me jealous...

Well it's not in my favor to show that I am jealous and it gets to the other people if I don't show it, hence why the libra girl was being rough with my bag. If we're the ones who remain calm and collected then the other person looks like a fool to everyone else. I've noticed that when I want to bad enough I can even exceed the reserve of a scorpio who are very good at hiding things. Of course you know they've got their game face on when they try to be reserved. For me, even if I'm trying to not look jealous, by the time I've convinced everyone else I will also have convinced myself. That takes a lot of focus tho, and that's why scorpios will usually break before I do.

He might be probing, definitely wondering. Idk how other sags are, but I generally try to stay out of the person I likes business because I don't want to risk hearing about them with another women. That and my ex leo bf detered me from keeping close tabs on people I still like. I mean, I still keep tabs on them, but it's very minimal and I don't like to even think of it as keeping tabs even tho that is clearly what I'm doing 😛

Posted by happykitsune
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So idk, just felt like mentioning this on the boards because I hate it and I wish I didn't feel this way. Idk if it's the scorpio moon or all that cap in my chart. I just wish it'd go away tho...I don't like feeling that way about or towards people. Especially if I'm not wanting to date at the moment.

why do you blame other placement on your chart when the one who is jealous is you not what you have got in your chart. i am a cappy and i can be controlling but not jealous

He might be probing, definitely wondering. Idk how other sags are, but I generally try to stay out of the person I likes business because I don't want to risk hearing about them with another women.





I think this statement is true for Sagg's, the Sagg I am dating when we first started dating and he made a fake fb page just to check on mine and I made a comment that I was going to a dinner and a movie he deleted the page after that cause he said he didn't like reading that stuff it made him angry. I was going to dinner and a movies with my women co-workers so he had no reason to get upset but it was the mere fact that I might be seeing another men he didn't want to read or hear about.

Posted by happykitsune
... For me, even if I'm trying to not look jealous, by the time I've convinced everyone else I will also have convinced myself. That takes a lot of focus tho, and that's why scorpios will usually break before I do...

Is that when you stare? Smile? Or make small talk? He does that a lot when it appears his mind is chugging! LOL!

Unlike you guys, I wanna know! Who are you with now? How does she look? Hopefully you aint' happy?-HA! This is with only with people I still have feelings for!)

Idk about staring, but I'm not big on small talk unless I really like someone or want to make a good first impression. Smiling is just a given for a sag.

Yeah I don't like to know if they are with someone else at all because then I am tempted to text them and as who the person is and how they ended up with them. It's better just to not think about it at all or it'll eat at me until I ask them.