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is it me?
yeah its going to take me about a month or so to bring it up.
i kinda sorta talked to her about friends/weightloss. i wouldnt talk to virgo about my weightloss because she was having her own weight issues. so i told aries about this.
i kinda sorta talked to her about friends/weightloss. i wouldnt talk to virgo about my weightloss because she was having her own weight issues. so i told aries about this.
your talking to Ms Passive agressive/avoidance. it takes me months to talk to someone if i talk at all.
thanks!
ive been reading on losing weight and losing friends....interesting phenomenon.
ive been reading on losing weight and losing friends....interesting phenomenon.
Dang I'm just seeing this. Girl I told you long ago when she sat on the Scorp's lap, she's a jealous hater. And I stand by that. Her not telling you about the drama with her BF is because she's in ompetition with you and sees it as a minus sign on her scorecard. Now you're losing weight and coming up some more. She doesn't like it. I'd watch my back around her.
That came off hard. Sorry. Sun, Mars, and Merc is Sag is a mutha lol.
Posted by Mebs
Dang I'm just seeing this. Girl I told you long ago when she sat on the Scorp's lap, she's a jealous hater. And I stand by that. Her not telling you about the drama with her BF is because she's in ompetition with you and sees it as a minus sign on her scorecard. Now you're losing weight and coming up some more. She doesn't like it. I'd watch my back around her.
i wish i could have taken several pics of her face that night. it just didnt see very bff. not even close. the more she hangs out with virgo the better.
if i could erase her memory, i would do that and then defriend her. i just dont like the way things are going.
Posted by LigeiaPosted by DMV
thanks!
ive been reading on losing weight and losing friends....interesting phenomenon.
It happens more often than not. If someone was
always seen as the "frumpy, fat, wing-girl, purse
holder". Then suddenly comes into her own. Some
friends are gonna have a problem with it.
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Yep i was definitely the wing girl
LOL that is so funny I had a best friend who I did everything with for the longest.
She was married so I guess she thought she had it all, she moved and got a divorce and ended up moving back to where I live.
We fell off hard, She was so materialistic it made me sick -- Coach this, Louis Vuitton that.
it hit rock bottom when she and I were in a store and I found this cute outfit before her and I grabbed the last small and she said I think you need a Medium, WAIT WHAT? i said no I dont, put it on and it was supreme hotness she was like
thats cute *nose in the air*.. and then she had a stank stuck up attitude for the rest of the day.
It was constant competition with her anytime I would say something about myself she would try to one up me.
If I got a something new, she would go get one that costs more and come and show me it... like what? is it that serious.
When I read this post I went to go see what her sign is, and low and behold its Aries.
She was married so I guess she thought she had it all, she moved and got a divorce and ended up moving back to where I live.
We fell off hard, She was so materialistic it made me sick -- Coach this, Louis Vuitton that.
it hit rock bottom when she and I were in a store and I found this cute outfit before her and I grabbed the last small and she said I think you need a Medium, WAIT WHAT? i said no I dont, put it on and it was supreme hotness she was like
thats cute *nose in the air*.. and then she had a stank stuck up attitude for the rest of the day.
It was constant competition with her anytime I would say something about myself she would try to one up me.
If I got a something new, she would go get one that costs more and come and show me it... like what? is it that serious.
When I read this post I went to go see what her sign is, and low and behold its Aries.
Posted by GodMadeBeauty
LOL that is so funny I had a best friend who I did everything with for the longest.
She was married so I guess she thought she had it all, she moved and got a divorce and ended up moving back to where I live.
We fell off hard, She was so materialistic it made me sick -- Coach this, Louis Vuitton that.
it hit rock bottom when she and I were in a store and I found this cute outfit before her and I grabbed the last small and she said I think you need a Medium, WAIT WHAT? i said no I dont, put it on and it was supreme hotness she was like
thats cute *nose in the air*.. and then she had a stank stuck up attitude for the rest of the day.
It was constant competition with her anytime I would say something about myself she would try to one up me.
If I got a something new, she would go get one that costs more and come and show me it... like what? is it that serious.
When I read this post I went to go see what her sign is, and low and behold its Aries.
Smh. That's terrible. I have zero tolerance for that type of backbiting pettiness.
Its natural for people to make adjustments with change. You are changing as well so keep that in mind. Not only is the weight dropping off but the confidence is rising I'm sure. Yes, it is a good thing, but a bit of a new thing nonetheless. Not only is she having to adjust a bit but she's also obviously being watched while having to do so, which will only make her more uncomfortable seemingly even more shady.
It really is the both of you. It's usually how it goes when a friendship is built on something and the roles become defined then the dynamics change. The best way to get through it, if that's what you want, is to not look for jealousy. Literally let her get through whatever until she's adjusted to the new you.
It really is the both of you. It's usually how it goes when a friendship is built on something and the roles become defined then the dynamics change. The best way to get through it, if that's what you want, is to not look for jealousy. Literally let her get through whatever until she's adjusted to the new you.
Posted by EllybeanPosted by Ligeia
Aries are competitive by nature in friendships. If they recognize it it's not a problem because it can be fun and lighthearted like a new Aries gal I run with.
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this is true. I HAD an aries girl friend. She and I would do everything together, but I never fully trusted her and something always felt "off". I am a scorpio, and am also naturally paranoid, but I had confirmations from a sag that she saw the same things I did. Aries liked the attention to be on her, and she thought no matter what she was the one who all the guys would look at when we went out. Maybe that is the case here. You have lost weight (which congrats that is awesome) and are probably looking great. She is maybe jealous bc she is not getting all the attention and you have people showing you attention and probably congratulating you...and shes left hanging on the sidelines.
Another thing I picked up on..you're seeing a scorp and she flirted with him? Yep, they don't have BOUNDARIES when it comes to keeping off of their friends' men. I dont know if they do it on purpose or not, but I had the same experience with my aries friend. When she would see me texting a guy I was seeing she (who was a mututal friend of both of us) would also start texting him. She would speak of him as if THEY were dating. I thought it was the strangest thing, and pathetic. Not only that she would tell her bf PERSONAL things about me.
I have to say that a lot of it aries girls may not realize that they are doing but it still doesnt make it right. I know i never brought any of these things up with her (I hate confrontation too) and I never felt comfortable enough. It all made me see that it wasnt a real friendship to begin with. I suggest to tell her how u feel because these actions wont go away on her part.
These things open your eyes to who your true friends are. This is something you should be celebrating and your friends should be as well.
funny u say that...
on sat night, there was a party and she came over early to my crib. i hadnt even showered, so while i was about to jump in the shower, she saw what i was going to be wearing. a glittered bandeau top and jeans. her first comment was wow, this is something i would wear. strike #1
then she starts comign down with the old "i dont feel like going out anymore." i will just go and leave. i didnt dismay her, bitch do ur thing. strike 2
her whine is starting to get to me 2.
yeah i noticed her attraction to the scorp, both are capable of crossing boundaries.
on sat night, there was a party and she came over early to my crib. i hadnt even showered, so while i was about to jump in the shower, she saw what i was going to be wearing. a glittered bandeau top and jeans. her first comment was wow, this is something i would wear. strike #1
then she starts comign down with the old "i dont feel like going out anymore." i will just go and leave. i didnt dismay her, bitch do ur thing. strike 2
her whine is starting to get to me 2.
yeah i noticed her attraction to the scorp, both are capable of crossing boundaries.
Girl put her in Siberia. She's hating and eventually she's going to go for her big guns. The scorp. Bump that. This makes me mad just reading it.
It's funny. I have one real tight homegirl and another chick I'm pretty cool with. My bestie is about 10 years older than me and a devout Christian. But she's mad real and non judgemental so we get along really well. Also I'm spiritual so we connect on that level as well. She's a Scorp.
Then the other chick is an insane Pisces. She has her husband and her young side joint and does what the hell she wants lol. She can be a wee bit shady at times so she isn't close like the Scorp. But she's cool. After that it's all acquaintances. I have zero tolerance for the bull.
Smh. That Aries needs to get booted out of your inner circle.
It's funny. I have one real tight homegirl and another chick I'm pretty cool with. My bestie is about 10 years older than me and a devout Christian. But she's mad real and non judgemental so we get along really well. Also I'm spiritual so we connect on that level as well. She's a Scorp.
Then the other chick is an insane Pisces. She has her husband and her young side joint and does what the hell she wants lol. She can be a wee bit shady at times so she isn't close like the Scorp. But she's cool. After that it's all acquaintances. I have zero tolerance for the bull.
Smh. That Aries needs to get booted out of your inner circle.
sheesh my inner circle is only 2 people!
Posted by Mebs
That Aries needs to get booted out of your inner circle.
+1
You try to do right and be a friend but she continuously shows you who she is. Gotta put her out there with the other hater chicks cuz she's no different.
Posted by DMV
funny u say that...
on sat night, there was a party and she came over early to my crib. i hadnt even showered, so while i was about to jump in the shower, she saw what i was going to be wearing. a glittered bandeau top and jeans. her first comment was wow, this is something i would wear. strike #1
then she starts comign down with the old "i dont feel like going out anymore." i will just go and leave. i didnt dismay her, bitch do ur thing. strike 2
her whine is starting to get to me 2.
yeah i noticed her attraction to the scorp, both are capable of crossing boundaries.
It's obvious she is jealous of you. Funny you say this as well. This same friend of mine would pick out the same outfits I did when we went shopping. To the point where i got annoyed and mentioned something I her. I realized all of the signs were there that she was jealous of me or taking her "competetiveness " too far.
I agree with the ladies above. You need to reasses your relationship with her. Sometimes u gotta move on from certain ppl in your life that are bringing u down.
i have to admit that i have gotten more confident and more sag like and less cancer rising in public. im not scared anymore to be on front street when i used to play the background.
i always thought that a group of bad bitches is always better than just one right? why cant everyone in the click look good?
i always thought that a group of bad bitches is always better than just one right? why cant everyone in the click look good?
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