JUST WONDERING

I AM A SAGGITARIUS FEMALE AND I AM IN LOVE WITH A SAGGITARIUS MALE, WE WERE PRETTY GOOD FRIENDS BUT ONCE THE RELATIONSHIP CROSSED OVER INTIMATELY EMOTIONS GOT DEEP QUICK, WE DEALT WITH A LOT OF SUBLIMINAL INSECURITIES, MEANING THE ELECTRICITY WAS THERE AND ALOT OF TIMES WE NEVER HAD TO TALK TO COMMUNITCATE , IT WAS PRETTY SCARY. AT FIRST I WASN'T TO CONCERNED WITH IT WORKING OUT BECAUSE I DIDN'T REALIZE WHAT WE HAD WAS ANYTHING, BUT HERE RECENTLY A SO CALLED CAPP FRIEND OF MINE TRIED TO PERSUE ME AND I WAS NOT INTERESTED IN HIM UNFORTUNATELY HE WORKED AT THE SAME PLACE MY SAGG WORKED, I NOT THINKING NEVER THOUGH THAT THIS POSED AS A PROBLEM UNTILL THE CAPP APPROACHED THE SAGG AT WORK. HE TOLD THE SAGG A LOT OF FAR FETCHED STORIES THAT WERE NOT TRUE, THE SAGG THEN CALLED ME , REMEMBER I AM SAGG ALSO,BUT HE CALLED ME TO COMFRONT THESE ACCUSATIONS AND I QUESTIONED HIS FAITH WITH ME, ON THE OTHER HAND THE CAPP CAME BACK TO ME AND TOLD ME HIS SUPPESSED RESPONSE AND I FLEW OFF THE HANDLE(HYPOCRITICALLY) I WROTE THE SAGG A LETTER SAYING ALOT OF MEAN THINGS I REGRET TO THIS DAY, I HADN'T SPOKE TO HIM IN MONTHS SO FIANLLY REALIZING I WAS WRONG I TRIED TO CONTACT HIM TO APOLOGIZE FOR MY CHILDISH BEHAVIOR, HE YELLED AT ME AND TOLD ME TO NEVER CALL HIM AGAIN AND HUNG UP IN MY FACE, SO I MAILED HIM AN APOLOGY CARD LETTING HIM KNOW THAT I WASN'T TRYING TO INTERRUPT ANY RELATIONS HE WAS IN NOW I JUST OWED IT TO HIM TO APOLOGIZE. NOW MY QUESTION, DO YOU GUYS THINK THAT HE WILL FORGIVE ME AND POSSIBLY TRY TO RECONCILE OUR DIFFERENCES? OR DO YOU THINK I JUST ROYALLY **CKED UP? I WANNA KNOW!

There is no forgivness from a betrayed Sag nor will they come back. Consider him someone "you once knew".

THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR SUPPORT, I AM A SAGG AND I CAN FORGIVE AND HAVE BEFORE IT'S NOT OUT OF MY NATURE!

Forgiving is not the problem with a Sag. The problem is forgiving a "betrayal". Big difference between the 2.

I can forgive as well. But once a Sag is betrayed by a person that person can consider themselves history. We will have nothing further to do with them. Betrayal is being dishonest. And Sags' HATE dishonesty!

PS: Must you scream in capital letters— It's really difficult to read and not proper PC ettiquette. Shows hostility from a person.

Well I can understand betrayal but i think you have misunderstood my story I never lied the capp came into the situation and told my sagg all these lies and him believing it wasn't the issue it was the capp coming back to me to tell me that he had said something about me he didn't which had us on both ends believing we were both talking about each other when it was the capp lying because he wanted to pry us apart in order to move in and persue me, only thing i had no interest in him so he still came up short, the capp that is, I just realized after going through these months of pain and being mad and hating , what his motive was, so basically i have figured it out and neither one of us was wrong we both blamed each other on someone else's part and basically the capp won! i guess? what an a**hole!

Forgive me with the all caps , I am at work and we type in all capps due to our programming, you seem a little edgy yourself, your advise doesn't have to be so one sided, look at the whole picture.

i'm a Sag female in the same boat. i too am in love with a Sag male who i once dated for 1 1/2 years - 5 years ago. I ended things with him back then due to extra baggage from a previous relationship and would now like to try again but i feel that it's useless because i betrayed him long ago and i don't think he trusts me anymore...Sags do hate betrayal and yes i'm a Sag too and i've forgiven before too...maybe Sag men are less forgiving than Sag women.

You know I am glad you agree but the only problem with this is I haven't talked to hime for over 5 mos and the last time i tried to talk to him he was still mad , I still love him a lot and it feels worse because it seems as though he doesn't care. I don't know whether to categorize this as betrayal but if it is than I was feeling just as he was also because the capricorn told me he said things about me and that is what caused me to go off, it was only when i realized that the capricorn was being selfish , and I didn't want hime to win but if i can not reconcile it looks as if he did.

a few words of wisdom:
"If it's to be, it's up to me"
and
"If not this, something better"

Don't consume yourself with this one, if he's going to come around, he will on his own. I'm sure there are many other men out there for you.

Not true! People, this is only your opinion and not science! I was with a Sag for quite a long time, and not only will they forgive, but they will forgive a betrayal(even a fake one).

What happened to us was...he cheated and got drunk and decided to unload his guilt to me. I ,at the time, was pretty much through with all of his problems-- drinking, losing jobs, drugs, etc...so this was just one more thing to add to the already overflowing plate! I decided the way to get him to leave me was to derive a story of my own about infidelity, and layed it on him. Guess what? it didn't work. He stayed around and started to try and smother me with affection and dogged my every move. I at the time had no other way to get him to go and nothing seemed to work. End of story was it took alot of work to leave him! No two people are the same!

Thank you for your story. I really appreciate someone in my corner believe it or not, I am a sagg and i forgive all the time even in betrayal measures i just realize that when someone betrays you have to handle them with a long handle spoon and realize where they are coming from and learn what it was that made them do whatever it was they did, this world is made up of constant mistakes, it is not our place to condemn those who make them because we never know when we will be present in that seat. God Bless!

SAGITTARIUS AND SAGITTARIUS

Some astrologers believe the only fit mate for a Sagittarian is another Sagittarian. They do seem perfectly suited: two independent, freedom-loving roamers. But this exciting, chaotic, eventful relationship is too unpredictable to suit either of them. They have a tendency to bring out the worst in each other. Each remains uncommitted and has so many outside interests that this pair inevitably drifts apart. But they'll be good sports when the fun is over.