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Eleventh
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I think I hate Sagittarians??_..My mums best friend is a sagittarius and my mum is a gemini??_..so growing up a single mother of two kids and me being the older of the two she really kind dumped a lot of negative emotional bullshit on me and expected me to raise my little brother and when she threw parties for her friends or ever had them over for dinner she would make me serve them and they would just give me shit as they progressively got drunker and drunker??_.my mums best friend the sagittarius was the worse she was such a fucking cunt to me because all my mum would do was gossip about me and tell her how I do nothing and then her friend would just take it to the next level and completely victimise me and just try her hardest to belittle me all this happening when I was just a student trying hard to cope with school and was suffering from really bad depression and when I even try to nicely explain to her what is happening she doesn't listen and gives me more shit and she treats her own kids like they are gods gifts to earth ??_..anyways now my little brother is doing the exact same with with his sagittarian friend to me its like he is copying my mother exactly and his sagittarian friend is reacting the same way my mums friend does??_.anyways I got really drunk one night and said that I can't stand gossipers and nasty bullshit and he said that I was being insecure and thats not gonna stop him from doing what he wants and that made me blow up at him "which just means I can be hurtful with my mouth" and made him cry and shit like the cowardly lion from wizard of oz the same time I turned into a huge wreck and it made a lot of the hair on the right side of my head white lol just from that stressful moment??_.the whole time he was crying I was saying to him to stop being so fucking pathetic but they all treated me like I was the mean person when it was them who started it??_??_I read some things about sagittarians that they like to "tease" and he and she do it a lot and I take it really personally I guess??_.I feel like I probably should not have said this in a room full of over exaggerating saggatarians but I need to understand this shit and know how to deal with it??_.because its fucking inevitable??_.
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lonesag80
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Well sorry to hear that you got shit on by other Sagittarius people but you can't just dislike every Sagittarius over 2 . We're not all bad . You have to remember that those 2 were going off of what your mom and brother say and unfortunately, I know at least for me I take peoples word for shit just to realize that its bullshit later and didn't know the other side of the story. The good thing is your still here and Fuck what they say.
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Eleventh
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so what is the real issue that you have with saggis? we, or maybe I, can tease people but in a funny way. i can see how that would be annoying to someone with no sense of humor or who take things personally. i dont think i do it maliciously.

whats your chart?



The thing is I have a great sense of humor....my little brother takes things that ive said and use them in his own repitoir of sayings and his sagittarian friend thinks hes so funny for saying it when its actually me who used to say it......I don't know these people are the biggest cunts ive ever met...I feel like I'm scarred from these people and when i'm around them its as if i'm around a horse thats about to buck....and then they're like "why you so damn quiet"? There is one sagittarian that I like and she is the tattoo artist who I get my tatts off....shes really lovely and we talk about real issues and not superficial crap...which is all my brothers friend talks about...and all my mums friend cares about is making money and if your not making money she doesn't want to know you.

My placements are all aquarius but my moon is scorpio...



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Its difficult when family starts name calling you and teasing you and generally making your life a living hell, it hurts alot and I totally understand that there are some people out there that just really want to make life hell for others- the trick is to not let it get to you.

Over the years what you learn from others you then do that to others to make self feel better its becomes a vicious cycle and its the ones that realise this and get out of the cycle that actually survive it. Are you out the cycle? Do you want to be out of the cycle? It sounds like you dont want to be coz really if you did then you take steps to get self out and live own life yourself.
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Eleventh
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Yeh your so right I actually left on monday because I figured he gets really bad after a big weekend and I cop it when hes coming down my dad offered me to stay at his house for as long as I like and even offered me a job at his work the only thing I have to worry about is my brother getting shitty at me for leaving cos I'm packing my shit up after christmas....it is like a cycle because I come from a big family of energy suckers my older brothers would do it to me and my parents and my little brother aswell I'm super sensitive and it doesn't take much to set me off so i guess I'm easy entertainment....I do get a rise out of pranking people and scaring the shit out of them though thats how I get energy, not from spreading shit about others and stuff.....thanks for the talk u reaffirmed my trust in sagis
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I think I hate Sagittarians??_..My mums best friend is a sagittarius and my mum is a gemini??_..so growing up a single mother of two kids and me being the older of the two she really kind dumped a lot of negative emotional bullshit on me and expected me to raise my little brother and when she threw parties for her friends or ever had them over for dinner she would make me serve them and they would just give me shit as they progressively got drunker and drunker??_.my mums best friend the sagittarius was the worse she was such a fucking cunt to me because all my mum would do was gossip about me and tell her how I do nothing and then her friend would just take it to the next level and completely victimise me and just try her hardest to belittle me all this happening when I was just a student trying hard to cope with school and was suffering from really bad depression and when I even try to nicely explain to her what is happening she doesn't listen and gives me more shit and she treats her own kids like they are gods gifts to earth ??_..anyways now my little brother is doing the exact same with with his sagittarian friend to me its like he is copying my mother exactly and his sagittarian friend is reacting the same way my mums friend does??_.anyways I got really drunk one night and said that I can't stand gossipers and nasty bullshit and he said that I was being insecure and thats not gonna stop him from doing what he wants and that made me blow up at him "which just means I can be hurtful with my mouth" and made him cry and shit like the cowardly lion from wizard of oz the same time I turned into a huge wreck and it made a lot of the hair on the right side of my h
ead white lol just from that stressful moment??_.the whole time he was crying I was saying to him to stop being so fucking pathetic but they all treated me like I was the mean person when it was them who started it??_??_I read some things about sagittarians that they like to "tease" and he and she do it a lot and I take it really personally I guess??_.I feel like I probably should not have said this in a room full of over exaggerating saggatarians but I need to understand this shit and know how to deal with it??_.because its fucking inevitable??_.




Sagittarians can be really blunt and tactless... I'm sorry for that...

Sweety it's your Scorpio moon that can't stand this Stuff..
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Sweety it's your Scorpio moon that can't stand this Stuff... But don't take it personal..
We never want to hurt anyone. And we are truly sorry if we do.
Honey, my Mother is a Gemini too -.- I know what you must go through. Although I love Geminis....
You must be a very intelligent and deep Person.. I think you should talk to your Mom and tell her that you need her to respect your Privacy.


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Well, here's my take on what you just wrote: your mom wasn't a very good mom and certainly didn't protect you when it was her duty to do so. Because she's a bit of a jerk (I'm sorry, I know she's your mom but I would completely SHRED anyone, including a friend, if they did that to my kids!!) she's got a jerk for a best friend. This has nothing to do with Gemini or Sag. Jerks are jerks and you'll find them in any sign and in any religion and in all walks of life. Your little brother is just mimicking what he was taught: how to be a jerk. So, now you need to digest that info and take it as you will. You're an adult so don't let how jerks treat you define who you are. You're obviously made of better stuff and some innate sense of justice didn't get squashed. I'm really sorry, though, that you had to grow up with that. It's not right.