@Chachacha
14 Years
The gemini Dark twin hates my guts
Understanding Gemini's Dark Side and How Aries Reacts
Geminis may act out their darker side when stressed or feeling threatened, which can lead to confrontations with Aries. To prevent conflicts, communicate openly and set boundaries. Recognizing Gemini's triggers and maintaining calm helps reduce tension and avoid triggering their aggressive tendencies.
Geminis don't like it when an aries gets bossy, angry, jealous, or aggressive. They also need their freedom and space..
I have tons of aries ppl in my life. My sis, who I am extremely close to is an aries, as well.
There are a few things I cannot stand, nor will I tolerate it.
~ closed-mindedness. Don't talk about things you don't know about.... Try to learn something. Don't just believe cuz someone told you so... And then fight/argue to the death about it. Don't get me wrong, I do respect that passion, tho. 🙂
~ control. I will do... what I want to do. Keep in mind I will remember showing others respect while doing so. Always! You cannot "run" me... I am my own person and I will make my own decisions, thank you very much.
As stated above, the bossiness is quite annoying and goes along with trying to control others.
But, I will say, I love my aries friends and sis! Wouldn't trade them for all the gold in the world!! We normally have a blast together and talk about all kinds of crazy subjects. Until one starts to get pessimistic... Then, I'm in need of a break. Lol!
Posted by Geminivixenn
Didn't he call the police on you? & your still talking to him? LOL
yes.
Posted by misslissa
I have tons of aries ppl in my life. My sis, who I am extremely close to is an aries, as well.There are a few things I cannot stand, nor will I tolerate it.
~ closed-mindedness. Don't talk about things you don't know about.... Try to learn something. Don't just believe cuz someone told you so... And then fight/argue to the death about it. Don't get me wrong, I do respect that passion, tho. 🙂~ control. I will do... what I want to do. Keep in mind I will remember showing others respect while doing so. Always! You cannot "run" me... I am my own person and I will make my own decisions, thank you very much.
As stated above, the bossiness is quite annoying and goes along with trying to control others.
But, I will say, I love my aries friends and sis! Wouldn't trade them for all the gold in the world!! We normally have a blast together and talk about all kinds of crazy subjects. Until one starts to get pessimistic... Then, I'm in need of a break. Lol!
great to hear but maybe he just talks like a gem and acts like a leo
Posted by Geminivixenn
Didn't he call the police on you? & your still talking to him? LOLyes.
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AAAAAAAND, I'm out.
Posted by Geminivixenn
Didn't he call the police on you? & your still talking to him? LOLyes.
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Posted by misslissa
I have tons of aries ppl in my life. My sis, who I am extremely close to is an aries, as well.There are a few things I cannot stand, nor will I tolerate it.
~ closed-mindedness. Don't talk about things you don't know about.... Try to learn something. Don't just believe cuz someone told you so... And then fight/argue to the death about it. Don't get me wrong, I do respect that passion, tho. 🙂~ control. I will do... what I want to do. Keep in mind I will remember showing others respect while doing so. Always! You cannot "run" me... I am my own person and I will make my own decisions, thank you very much.
As stated above, the bossiness is quite annoying and goes along with trying to control others.
But, I will say, I love my aries friends and sis! Wouldn't trade them for all the gold in the world!! We normally have a blast together and talk about all kinds of crazy subjects. Until one starts to get pessimistic... Then, I'm in need of a break. Lol!
great to hear but maybe he just talks like a gem and acts like a leo
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Enlighten me... "acts like a leo"— Why would he act like a leo...?
Posted by misslissa
I have tons of aries ppl in my life. My sis, who I am extremely close to is an aries, as well.There are a few things I cannot stand, nor will I tolerate it.
~ closed-mindedness. Don't talk about things you don't know about.... Try to learn something. Don't just believe cuz someone told you so... And then fight/argue to the death about it. Don't get me wrong, I do respect that passion, tho. 🙂~ control. I will do... what I want to do. Keep in mind I will remember showing others respect while doing so. Always! You cannot "run" me... I am my own person and I will make my own decisions, thank you very much.
As stated above, the bossiness is quite annoying and goes along with trying to control others.
But, I will say, I love my aries friends and sis! Wouldn't trade them for all the gold in the world!! We normally have a blast together and talk about all kinds of crazy subjects. Until one starts to get pessimistic... Then, I'm in need of a break. Lol!
great to hear but maybe he just talks like a gem and acts like a leo
Enlighten me... "acts like a leo"— Why would he act like a leo...?
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he goes on power trips forces dominancy becomes sexist with dominancy. he also goes on idol chat overload and more times wants to be praised so he praises himself
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.
are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
Posted by misslissa
I have tons of aries ppl in my life. My sis, who I am extremely close to is an aries, as well.There are a few things I cannot stand, nor will I tolerate it.
~ closed-mindedness. Don't talk about things you don't know about.... Try to learn something. Don't just believe cuz someone told you so... And then fight/argue to the death about it. Don't get me wrong, I do respect that passion, tho. 🙂~ control. I will do... what I want to do. Keep in mind I will remember showing others respect while doing so. Always! You cannot "run" me... I am my own person and I will make my own decisions, thank you very much.
As stated above, the bossiness is quite annoying and goes along with trying to control others.
But, I will say, I love my aries friends and sis! Wouldn't trade them for all the gold in the world!! We normally have a blast together and talk about all kinds of crazy subjects. Until one starts to get pessimistic... Then, I'm in need of a break. Lol!
great to hear but maybe he just talks like a gem and acts like a leo
Enlighten me... "acts like a leo"— Why would he act like a leo...?
he goes on power trips forces dominancy becomes sexist with dominancy. he also goes on idol chat overload and more times wants to be praised so he praises himself
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That kind of describes a few other signs, as well....
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
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That's like saying you're going to lower yourself to his standards... Which, then, puts you in the wrong instead.
Also, your are the one choosing him to be in your life... If you want to change him, forget it. It won't happen. You have to either accept him as he is... Or leave him. Also, YOUR choice.
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
Dude.
#1. Calm down.
#2. You clearly did not read my post properly.
#3. What the fuck?
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i wasnt interested what yu had to say. my partner knows hes not well in relationships due to his broughtupsy he admits to who he is we are im the only girl to clean his morals i just have trouble tamin his lion
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
That's like saying you're going to lower yourself to his standards... Which, then, puts you in the wrong instead.
Also, your are the one choosing him to be in your life... If you want to change him, forget it. It won't happen. You have to either accept him as he is... Or leave him. Also, YOUR choice.
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i do and always accept him and others for who they are but his bad twin mixed with his lion embaresses me when i stop to take another view at a situation. i already motified his whole life ive made him do things and change in ways his exs couldnt dare try much less accomplish
The "Gemini Evil Twin" thing is a load of bullshit. Being "dual-natured" doesn't translate into having an angelic side and an evil side. Gems are generally amiable people, and this can cause people to attempt to control us, use us, or walk on us. When we push back (like any reasonable person would) we're suddenly "evil".
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
That's like saying you're going to lower yourself to his standards... Which, then, puts you in the wrong instead.
Also, your are the one choosing him to be in your life... If you want to change him, forget it. It won't happen. You have to either accept him as he is... Or leave him. Also, YOUR choice.
i do and always accept him and others for who they are but his bad twin mixed with his lion embaresses me when i stop to take another view at a situation. i already motified his whole life ive made him do things and change in ways his exs couldnt dare try much less accomplish
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Well then, i guess, all I can say is... Depending on what he has in leo, and where, will be the key. I have leo rising and there is no taming it UNLESS I really want it to be... Having said that, with having both leo and gemini in a chart is alil difficult to deal with. I can admit that much. Lol! But, it also makes it slightly more stubborn, as well. I mean, in essence, you have a prideful, freedom-loving person!! I would suggest asking on the leo forum. But, be warned, what you are asking might cause some conflict, and you might not be taken seriously. After all, you are "technically" asking how to change a gem/leo personality...
Posted by Whimsy
The "Gemini Evil Twin" thing is a load of bullshit. Being "dual-natured" doesn't translate into having an angelic side and an evil side. Gems are generally amiable people, and this can cause people to attempt to control us, use us, or walk on us. When we push back (like any reasonable person would) we're suddenly "evil".
I agree with you, Whimsy! I can't even begin to count how many times I've been through this... Sometimes I wonder if ppl really think we're "bad" due to their actions that led us to "put our foot down" in the first place....
Hi TBC! 🙂
I agree with you as far as dxpland goes... There are preconceived notions that, I've noticed, ppl have a hard time getting past.
Altho, as for real life, I work in customer service and I don't see that. But, in real life we don't go around announcing our signs to each other. Lol! Most ppl are just like us... They just want acceptance and respect for who they(we) really are. 🙂
Oops, I hit post too soon... Lmao!
When it comes to closer relationships... Well, I have learned we get to pick and choose who we let in. I do keep others at an arms length until trust is built. No more trusting first: Prove yourself! It tends to weed out ones with malicious intentions. 🙂
You are making perfect sense. 🙂 I do understand what you're saying.... I had a factory job once that I absolutely loved! But, needless to say, I was targeted a few times... I have been analyzing it for years and the only solution I can come up with is, I allowed myself to look like a target..... (?) Still not so sure... Lol!
Soooo, why did he call the cops for?? I must have missed it somewhere....
I do have a reason for asking other than curiosity...
Posted by Aquarrow
Geminis don't like it when an aries gets bossy, angry, jealous, or aggressive. They also need their freedom and space..
this.
a gemini will only put up with your asshole nature for so long before we feel the need to be an asshole in return.
humor can get you guys by for the majority of the time, but bitches finna bring that other side out after living with a selfish downer all the time
my relationship is over when i decide. i realized that i dont have a problem in my relationship. my problem is we all have problems. my man and i always look like were on the verge or breaking up hes like me which is what attracted me to him. we got together under the influence of lilith , when we were both going through hard times, now were in this fatal attraction. i now fully accept him for who he is he doesnt get mad often and it doesny last long buts its so intense ive never experienced a mans anger like this much less people being angry with me out of love. never understood a mans loving style due to my absense of a father and my home making mother. but that being said he gets over it after with almost no memory of it,
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
Dude.
#1. Calm down.
#2. You clearly did not read my post properly.
#3. What the fuck?
Cleary she didn't. The relationship is over and when he calls the cops on her AGAIN.. She will realize that..
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hey mrs negative pause for a cause i noticed i have been posting on the wrong board for my man thinks like a gemini but acts like a leo no wonder all the gemini advice doesnt work on him except the fact he comes running back when i leave him but my problem is if things do start to get negative i do have an urge to bail its my lilith in pisces.
Craziest poster of all time!!!!!! Drop the crazy and walk away from the gemini.
hey mrs negative pause for a cause i noticed i have been posting on the wrong board for my man thinks like a gemini but acts like a leo no wonder all the gemini advice doesnt work on him except the fact he comes running back when i leave him but my problem is if things do start to get negative i do have an urge to bail its my lilith in pisces.
I think the reason your getting what you call "negative" responses is bcuz any advice that's been given, you have responded negatively to. You throw out any that's given thinking you know what a gemini, or a leo, is all about. If you knew, then you wouldn't be here asking!! We have been as kind as we can be considering your blatant disrespect for any knowledge we have and share.... I have asked several pertinent questions and you avoid answering some of them... I do realize that's your choice, but if you want the help you claim to want, then you need to practice alil patience!! You will catch more flies with honey!!!
I now understand why your gemini bf gets sooo upset with you.... Slow your roll a bit! Damn! Deep breath....
Now, I will ask, again, the 2 questions you seem to be avoiding... If you don't answer, I will assume that you really DO NOT want help and just want the typical attention-getting-bitch-session.
What are your bf's leo placements other than mars? (I only know that from ANOTHER thread...) Better yet, POST HIS CHART!
And, why did your bf call the cops on you and kick you out....—? Context does matter in this situation!
Smh.... No one is going to "fry".
She has been since the start of this thread.... Not to mention, also in all of her other threads she's posted here.
I've been a member of this place for 5 years.... I've seen it all! This is nothing comparatively.
Lol! No ones helping her... She's on her own there. But, if she truly wants help, she needs to back up a bit.
Now, I'm only curious as to the flavor of the air freshener.....?? Haha! 🙂
Lol! I like fruity 🙂
Won't see past it because you became comfortable with the familiar... you are stuck with someone who "embarrasses" you, afraid that you won't find anyone else better than him. He is no gemini, he is ONE man. You refuse not to give up on him because you accept the treatment he's giving you. He will not change. You have an option to accept who he is and put up with his acts or move on to live your life peacefully and happy where you can find someone who considers you and your feelings. Continuing this relationship, the more toxic both of you will get. The definition of Love is not defined in this relationship.
Posted by Geminivixenn
I like the light vanilla scents. I'm lighting a sugar cookie candle in my condo and it smells beautiful in here 😛
Mmmm, I bet it does... I do like fruity scents tho. Especially with it being the holidays, I always have apple cinnamon candles and sprays this time of year. 🙂
Strawberry, pear, apples the rest of the year. I do like vanilla as well. I like food scents, but they tend to make me hungry... Haha! So, I eat a lot of fruit in the summer time. 🙂
Posted by xcake
Don't fry her.
cant fry me you stupid? i only get to answer these post when im at work as a security guard so please learn patience sweety
Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Won't see past it because you became comfortable with the familiar... you are stuck with someone who "embarrasses" you, afraid that you won't find anyone else better than him. He is no gemini, he is ONE man. You refuse not to give up on him because you accept the treatment he's giving you. He will not change. You have an option to accept who he is and put up with his acts or move on to live your life peacefully and happy where you can find someone who considers you and your feelings. Continuing this relationship, the more toxic both of you will get. The definition of Love is not defined in this relationship.
lol again pause for a cause you do not know our whole life easy there fella. Now i dont accept the treatment he gives me, i am the only one who stands up to him amongst all his friends clearlyyyyyyy you dont know what an aries represents, i am no doormat. Secondly i know he will not change, he never did. I just got a different side of his personality... the relationship side. Im here to prove im sane and hes not evil which is going to be difficult because im trying to be selective on the information i distribute while giving you the roots of where these conflicts are deeply arising from.
Posted by auriqa
I don't think astrology has much to do with it. By the sounds of your other posts there's unresolved conflict in your relationship. That'll make people act like that no matter what the sign.are you telling me i dont know what astrology is? i can consider anything i choose if i know the orgin of it and its not our relationship its him. i know his life story hes not too great in relationships because of his dark twin its too hurtful for some people and he doesnt show it often but when he does its the worse 10 minutes of my life because im so in love but what pisses me off to shredds is that he goes silent with ne for a while and then acts like nothing happened. when hes mad im not his girl blahzay blahzay but when were good im his love of life? am i gonna hve to start emtionally cheat on this guy? cause i will do it infront of his face
Dude.
#1. Calm down.
#2. You clearly did not read my post properly.
#3. What the fuck?
Cleary she didn't. The relationship is over and when he calls the cops on her AGAIN.. She will realize that..
hey mrs negative pause for a cause i noticed i have been posting on the wrong board for my man thinks like a gemini but acts like a leo no wonder all the gemini advice doesnt work on him except the fact he comes running back when i leave him but my problem is if things do start to get negative i do have an urge to bail its my lilith in pisces.
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I am trying to avoid leaving my man for it will break us both. We build each other each and everyday. I don't know if I've stated it already but, 15-30 minutes after an argument sometimes even 5 he comes around to attending to me. I just resent and grudge longer. so in order for me to not make the relationship and strong intimate and business connection we have go sour i need to find a way to dead an argument in its tracks.
OK, then, how do your arguments start and what are they usually about?
Posted by Whimsy
OK, then, how do your arguments start and what are they usually about?
what ever he makes it about. And he'll make it about a million things etc. It's the smallest things i tell ya, he just stretches the argument into a bunch of my faults.
Posted by auriqa
Oh wow, all the punctuation you've neglected to use in the proper manner have assembled into one copy and pasted ASCII art.
IDEC who are you, google?
Posted by xcake
Don't fry her.cant fry me you stupid? i only get to answer these post when im at work as a security guard so please learn patience sweety
Jesus to the effin Christ.
I was suggesting that maybe people should ease off with the questions, because you seem to be on defense when people ask you questions. It wasn't meant to offend you.
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Posted by Geminivixenn
OoOoOooO... Aries taking over.. I Love It! hehe 😛
^^Lol!^^
Side note: I am done with this thread... There is no help "wanted". 🙂
Problem been solved, yall gems are way too slow
Judge if you'd like Ms. Aries, being self aware of what you project onto others reasons why people act they way they do towards you.
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lol again pause for a cause you do not know our whole life easy there lady. Now i accept the treatment he gives me, i am the only one who stands up to him amongst all his friends clearlyyyyyyy you dont know what an aries represents, i am doormat. Secondly i know he will change, he did. I just got a different side of his personality... the relationship side. Im here to prove im sane and hes evil which is going to be difficult because im trying to be selective on the information i distribute while giving you the roots of where these conflicts are deeply arising from.
Fix your relationship if it's your desire.
Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Judge if you'd like Ms. Aries, being self aware of what you project onto others reasons why people act they way they do towards you.Quote fixed below.
lol again pause for a cause you do not know our whole life easy there lady. Now i accept the treatment he gives me, i am the only one who stands up to him amongst all his friends clearlyyyyyyy you dont know what an aries represents, i am doormat. Secondly i know he will change, he did. I just got a different side of his personality... the relationship side. Im here to prove im sane and hes evil which is going to be difficult because im trying to be selective on the information i distribute while giving you the roots of where these conflicts are deeply arising from.
Fix your relationship if it's your desire.
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When my gemini becomes his dark side,its amusing to me sometimes until he puts too much pressure on me infront of people. What do geminis think of aries, for them to attack the way they do? How do i cock block his evil angry twin from drawing out my aries ice towards him?